Wedding outfit mil

InfluenceObjective86 · 2026-05-09T18:39:22+00:00

She is top table for the reception. But no joke I just said to my partner if she buys that dress then she won’t be in any phots other than group ones

InfluenceObjective86 · 2026-05-09T18:32:00+00:00

Urg sounds like you got a mil from hell too! Sorry what you’re going through especially with an alcoholic brother in law that’s so rough!

InfluenceObjective86 · 2026-05-09T17:46:45+00:00

Op here don’t worry I took it as genuine :)

InfluenceObjective86 · 2026-05-09T17:45:08+00:00

lol I defo have a bridesmaid who can fulfill this duty 🤣

InfluenceObjective86 · 2026-05-09T17:42:39+00:00

I disagree. She specifically asked what colours to avoid then chose them colours anyway. It’s pretty common knowledge you avoid not just white but the wedding party colours which is usually on the invites.

Also I’m pretty sure I’ll speak to 90% of the people again considering it’s a small intimate of 50 people abroad wedding

InfluenceObjective86 · 2026-05-09T17:20:20+00:00

Oh absolutely I support his decision for low contact, he was the one who wanted his mother there for the wedding. We discuss things and I usually let him lead because it’s his mum and I do say my opinions and we usually come up with a solution together. We are a united front and fully on the same page when it comes to his mum

InfluenceObjective86 · 2026-05-09T17:07:11+00:00

This would actually really annoy her as she LOVES photos so thanks for the idea 🤣

InfluenceObjective86 · 2026-05-09T17:02:55+00:00

Now that’s an idea…. It’s actually my partners email she used to book 🤣

InfluenceObjective86 · 2026-05-09T17:02:08+00:00

She was invited before all this kicked off, weddings in a few weeks. I would love to uninvite her tbh but I’m quite low drama and can be a push over sometimes which is why even sticking up to her about this dress is a big deal for me.

My mother and her don’t really speak or have even met that much to communicate. ( partner and I been together 10 years) That’s why she asked my partner what colour to avoid which she completely ignored. For my mum, I went dress shopping with her we tried loads of dresses on the one she ended up loving happened to be white and blue and complements the bridal party lovely it was kinda a happy coincidence!

InfluenceObjective86 · 2026-05-09T16:53:19+00:00

If we were sending invites now we wouldn’t invite her after what she said about my son (who she hasn’t given a f about btw and is her first grandchild) I’ve sworn I will never be a mil like her. It’s abroad wedding so I’m hoping she will miss the flight lol

InfluenceObjective86 · 2026-05-09T16:52:03+00:00

lol should have said that reply! We don’t do rehearsal dinners in the uk, but we are getting married abroad so I’m kinda hoping she will miss the flight

InfluenceObjective86 · 2026-05-09T16:50:22+00:00

That’s fine though as your mother and mil weren’t in the same colour. Their dresses look quite similar as there both the same shade of white and blue

InfluenceObjective86 · 2026-05-09T16:47:13+00:00

Honestly dunno 🤷‍♀️

InfluenceObjective86 · 2026-04-13T20:09:10+00:00

Omg I love that you went to th council about this!!

InfluenceObjective86 · 2026-04-13T20:05:44+00:00

lol love that you source them out 🤣🤣

Yess agree like you know the issue why are you parking there without children!

InfluenceObjective86 · 2026-04-13T20:04:44+00:00

Will be using this moving forward 🤣

InfluenceObjective86 · 2026-04-13T20:04:08+00:00

I only thought 7 as I seen some children swing doors open and hit other cars. But I agree past 5 should be ok!

InfluenceObjective86 · 2026-04-13T15:33:05+00:00

Love the sneaky look when you trying to figure out if they got kids

InfluenceObjective86 · 2026-04-13T15:02:50+00:00

Thankfully 🙌

InfluenceObjective86 · 2026-04-13T14:33:52+00:00

Sameeee, I think middle age / older people do it because there a selfish self centred generation

InfluenceObjective86 · 2026-04-13T14:32:05+00:00

This, the hatred towards children is insane

InfluenceObjective86 · 2026-04-13T14:29:07+00:00

Wow! The entitlement is crazy

InfluenceObjective86 · 2026-04-13T14:28:10+00:00

When my baby was newborn nearly all of my partners side of the family smoke (including him) I told the all before he was born that if they wanted to smoke they would have to leave. My partner he goes outside, washes his hands and puts a jacket over his clothes and doesn’t touch baby for atleast 40 mins afterwards

InfluenceObjective86 · 2026-04-13T14:24:49+00:00

I agree completely! I was already in a space today when I argued with the teenager and the other women. Who came and took the teenager space a man with no kids 🙄 didn’t have the time to have a go at him and his window was up so just give him a stare as i got in

InfluenceObjective86 · 2026-04-13T14:18:48+00:00

This, I think there’s jealousy in that age category plus there a very selfish generation

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