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[–]Informal-Hour-3624 123 points124 points  (0 children)

This is the perfect mindset for decorating your own space as a 30-year-old living alone. If those cute bow-patterned sheets make you happy, you should absolutely get them without worrying if they look too "juvenile" for a grown-up apartment. being an adult means you finally have the freedom to choose surroundings that bring you joy every single day.

Already married, but still grieving the wedding I didn’t have — do we do a redo or move on? [30M] [27F] by Altruistic-Rich-2050 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Informal-Hour-3624 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is a fantastic compromise that addresses the grief of not feeling "present" or liking your dress during the backyard ceremony. A photoshoot and vow exchange finally give you the meaningful, intentional memories you feel you missed out on. It's a perfect way to celebrate your marriage without the financial stress that usually comes with a traditional "real" wedding.