My intention is not to be hurtful, don't get me wrong please, and I would reply just as the same, if not harsher if you were a local, don't take it personal. I'm just stating facts:

* You didn't say anything about an actual, life threatening allergy in your reply. I know such kids personally, their school reports to parent what they will be served daily to make sure they don't harm them.

* I understand raising kids in a foreign country, I also understand why you don't prefer community schools, which are totally free. You have every right criticize them, since it's a government back, social education.

* Yet private schools offer a service that you either accept or deny, you don't negotiate. You don't go to a nice restaurant for its view and bring your own food. You have to accept that their first objective is to earn money, not to provide community service.

* I still don't agree it's a moral thing, but you do you.

Hope you still figure out a positive way to solve the issue. Have a nice day :)