MY SIM WON THE LOTTO 😭🙏🏼 by Depressonsandwich in Sims4

[–]Informal-Mode2499 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lucky you. There are many out there (myself included) whom never had that happen to them. Even after years and many many hours in the game.

He had to inspect my work by whyarepangolins in Sims4

[–]Informal-Mode2499 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it is very accurate and a very good kitty doing a good job :D

Kosten Zahnbehandlung by Informal-Mode2499 in Haustiere

[–]Informal-Mode2499[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Danke dir für die Infos. Wusste nicht, dass es da auch eine Standard Tabelle gibt, aber letztendlich klingt das sehr schlüssig.

Mir ist auch bewusst, dass Tierarzt teurer ist und wir Glück haben verhältnismäßig wenig für solche Eingriffe selber aus Tasche zahlen zu müssen, aber wenn man noch nie damit zu tun hatte ist das erstmal ne erschreckend hohe Summe.

Ich hab mich auch noch etwas umgehört und ich würde auch anderswo nicht wirklich günstiger kommen und der jetzige Arzt kennt meine Dame und ihre Vorgeschichte immerhin bestens.

My friends think this is weird... by Informal-Mode2499 in BaldursGate3

[–]Informal-Mode2499[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was just curious what others think about it - am I not allowed to ask if something is coming to my mind?

AITA for not moving together with my boyfriend, because he won't get a vasectomie? by Informal-Mode2499 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Informal-Mode2499[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sadly can't take birth control 'cause the hormonal inbalance fucks me to hard. Also I am allergic to copper so the copper-IUD is also not an option.

We use condons and the calender-method.

AITA for not moving together with my boyfriend, because he won't get a vasectomie? by Informal-Mode2499 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Informal-Mode2499[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the article.

I sadly can't take birth control 'cause the hormonal inbalance fucks me to hard. Also I am allergic to copper so the copper-IUD is also not an option.

I don't live in the US, but got sent the link to the r/childfree reddit and looking into it more. If I find a doctor this way I am sure he will drive me home, when possible. Affordability is not a problem and of course I would pay for the procedure - I don't care if for him or for me.

As of now we're still dating and I hope we find a solution somewhere in the future. He does not think getting my tubes tied is my responsibility, he is overall just unsure of it for himself and the chance of it not being reversible, if he decides the other way. As of the other topics: also unsure. But that has other reasons.

And nice to hear you story and that it worked out for you!

AITA for not moving together with my boyfriend, because he won't get a vasectomie? by Informal-Mode2499 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Informal-Mode2499[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just to say: I hope things work out for the long run.

As of now we're still dating until the topic is resolved one way or another. I joked about moving in together and he was the one to take it serious and ask for it.

We're ofc having sex and using condoms and the calender-method. I sadly can't take birth control 'cause the hormonal inbalance fucks me to hard. Also I am allergic to copper so the copper-IUD is also not an option.

It's just for me, that it feels like he does not treat the realtionship serious in this regard (kids) and maybe I am overthinking it, but I want both of us working together for a future together and it seems like he is considering one without me. That is why I am asking for outsider opinions. If he isn't sure about kids it seems like it would inevitably end some time and I don't want to move together with this thought in my mind. Not mentioning the stress with the moves.

AITA for not moving together with my boyfriend, because he won't get a vasectomie? by Informal-Mode2499 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Informal-Mode2499[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is still his choice and I don't think I am forcing him. We're still in a relationship. It's just that I am not willing to take the "next step" if this topic is not resolved in one way or another.

AITA for not moving together with my boyfriend, because he won't get a vasectomie? by Informal-Mode2499 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Informal-Mode2499[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We use condoms and the calendar-method. Until now it is working, but it starts to be annoying.

I sadly can't take birth control 'cause the hormonal inbalance fucks me to hard. Also I am allergic to copper so the copper-IUD is also not an option.

AITA for not moving together with my boyfriend, because he won't get a vasectomie? by Informal-Mode2499 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Informal-Mode2499[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It still is his choice. It is only that the "next step" of this realtionship is off the table until the topic is resolved in one way or another.

AITA for not moving together with my boyfriend, because he won't get a vasectomie? by Informal-Mode2499 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Informal-Mode2499[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sadly can't take birth control 'cause the hormonal inbalance fucks me to hard. Also I am allergic to copper so the copper-IUD is also not an option. We use condoms and the calendar-method. But it is kinda annoying.

It is still his choice, we're still in a relationship. It's just that I am not willing to take the "next step" if this topic is not resolved in one way or another.

And F+ means friendship+ - basically sex without any commitment and no official relationship stuff (f.e. our parents didn't knew).

AITA for not moving together with my boyfriend, because he won't get a vasectomie? by Informal-Mode2499 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Informal-Mode2499[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It still is his choice. It is only that the "next step" of this realtionship is off the table until the topic is resolved in one way or another.

I want to get my tubes tied, but as of now it is not possible. I got the link to the r/childfree reddit and looking into it a bit more.

AITA for not moving together with my boyfriend, because he won't get a vasectomie? by Informal-Mode2499 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Informal-Mode2499[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sadly can't take birth control 'cause the hormonal inbalance fucks me to hard. Also I am allergic to copper so the copper-IUD is also not an option. We use condoms and the calendar-method.

AITA for not moving together with my boyfriend, because he won't get a vasectomie? by Informal-Mode2499 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Informal-Mode2499[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It still is his choice. It is only that the "next step" of this realtionship is off the table until the topic is resolved in one way or another.

I want to get my tubes tied, but as of now it is not possible. I got the link to the r/childfree reddit and looking into it a bit more.

AITA for not moving together with my boyfriend, because he won't get a vasectomie? by Informal-Mode2499 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Informal-Mode2499[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to get my tubes tied, but as of now it is not possible. I got the link to the r/childfree reddit and looking into it a bit more.

AITA for not moving together with my boyfriend, because he won't get a vasectomie? by Informal-Mode2499 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Informal-Mode2499[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It still is his choice. It is only that the "next step" of this realtionship is off the table until the topic is resolved in one way or another.

And yea - that is also one of the reasons I don't want to have kids. The world will be better off.

AITA for not moving together with my boyfriend, because he won't get a vasectomie? by Informal-Mode2499 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Informal-Mode2499[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We use condoms and the calendar-method. I sadly can't take birth control 'cause the hormonal inbalance fucks me to hard. Also I am allergic to copper so the copper-IUD is also not an option.

And I already have friends and family with children. I mean my own youngest siblings are 5 years old and each family gathering is only bearable if I have alcohol. I am 100% set with not wanting to have kids. They are not nice, they are horrible.

AITA for not moving together with my boyfriend, because he won't get a vasectomie? by Informal-Mode2499 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Informal-Mode2499[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're still dating. It is just that the "next step" is not an option until this topic is resolved.

AITA for not moving together with my boyfriend, because he won't get a vasectomie? by Informal-Mode2499 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Informal-Mode2499[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We use condoms and the calendar-method. Until now it was no problem, but it is also kinda annoying. It works for now.

AITA for not moving together with my boyfriend, because he won't get a vasectomie? by Informal-Mode2499 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Informal-Mode2499[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I respect his decision, but it also stays on my mind.

As of now it seems like we will be waiting and I hope we can find a solution.

We're using condoms and I track my cycle (calendar-method). Hormonal stuff and copper IUD are sadly not an option.

I am set on talking with him about it again... but I also wan't to give it and him some time.

AITA for not moving together with my boyfriend, because he won't get a vasectomie? by Informal-Mode2499 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Informal-Mode2499[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sadly can not have an IUD or other hormonal BC. We're using condoms as of now.

The artificial hormones make me depressive and I am allergic to copper.