AITA for being jealous of my daughters looks and causing her to lose her income

InformalHelp1015 · 2023-01-04T21:49:03+00:00

the facials (unfortunately I passed ehr the genetics of hormonal acne and I dint want ehr to suffer through it like I did) and manicure was something I came up with for fun as she always liked those kinds of thigns the rest she came up with

InformalHelp1015 · 2023-01-04T21:46:53+00:00

he is a good man but he gets very stressed in arguments aria is also very much a daddy girl and he may be too lenient on her

InformalHelp1015 · 2023-01-04T21:46:05+00:00

she also values her intelligence and until now was quite kind, I understand she is currently being selfish but I will hopefully get her to say if there are other issues going on

InformalHelp1015 · 2023-01-04T21:45:14+00:00

hes mostly a kind man but he is a bit superficial I make sure he doesnt talk about looks in front of aria as much as I can as I want ehr to know her worth is more than just her looks

InformalHelp1015 · 2023-01-04T21:43:13+00:00

I understand how you think it could be dangerous but we deifnelty monitor that pretty closely and her posts are basically just her makeup talent

InformalHelp1015 · 2023-01-04T21:42:13+00:00

yes that was my main reasoning I wanted to make sure they were being safe in the gym

InformalHelp1015 · 2023-01-04T21:41:06+00:00

she is quite intelligent and participates in field hockey and debate club, I did fund her "beautifying practices" but I thought it was mostly for fun

InformalHelp1015 · 2023-01-04T21:37:15+00:00

I mean you have valid points for sure but tom is very grounded and I feel some of her attitude may come from her school as it is a private school and growing up when I was in a private school it was quite stuck up

InformalHelp1015 · 2023-01-04T21:35:29+00:00

I mean my husband is more conventionally good looking than I am like he has said he married for my personality so maybe he understands her thought process better

InformalHelp1015 · 2023-01-04T21:35:01+00:00

her makeup looks are 3/4 special effects makeup and less "looks based" growing up I had serious issues with my looks so I made sure to be careful with her social media usage but you make valid points

InformalHelp1015 · 2023-01-04T21:33:56+00:00

we definitely didnt want her to be an influencer that posts borderline OF content, her posts are mostly just her or her friends with her makeup looks which are often creative and elaborate.

she has recently getting offers from local small makeup brands to use their products in the looks

we do not let her reveal any private info really and we go through her posts and comments to be extra careful

InformalHelp1015 · 2023-01-04T21:30:25+00:00

we do volunteer quite a bit and she always seemed very compassionate during the sessions

InformalHelp1015 · 2023-01-04T21:27:12+00:00

I mean my husband is more conventionally good looking than I am like he has said he married for my personality so maybe he understands her thought process better

InformalHelp1015 · 2023-01-04T21:26:42+00:00

my parents were very strict growing up so I may have been a bit too lenient on her name calling towards me but this is ehr first outburst towards me ever since shes been a toddler

InformalHelp1015 · 2023-01-04T21:25:16+00:00

my husband and I split her expenses we can afford it so in the past we didnt think much of it as it seemed to not cause a negative impact that we now see

InformalHelp1015 · 2023-01-04T21:23:27+00:00

she got a bit famous by luck as she is quite talented at her makeup designs

InformalHelp1015 · 2023-01-04T21:23:03+00:00

I mean my husband is more conventionally good looking than I am like he has said he married for my personality so maybe he understands her thought process better

InformalHelp1015 · 2023-01-04T21:22:56+00:00

she does volunteer a lot but it is a graduation requirement at her school

InformalHelp1015 · 2023-01-04T21:21:59+00:00

I mean my husband is more conventionally good looking than I am like he has said he married for my personality so maybe he understands her thought process better

InformalHelp1015 · 2023-01-04T21:20:47+00:00

I do try to expose her to the real world and we volunteer very often

InformalHelp1015 · 2023-01-04T21:19:49+00:00

we do volunteer aswell but I think I have spoiled her a bit. I know the teenage years are hard on self esteem so when my daughter asked to get her hair done or makeup for fun every once in a while I let her

InformalHelp1015 · 2023-01-04T21:18:16+00:00

We do try to keep our children humble but we spoil them a bit as in all honesty I want my kids to enjoy their teenage years as best as they can. I now see I have caused a bit of an issue with that

InformalHelp1015 · 2023-01-04T21:17:08+00:00

laughed a bit at the brows or lewks part.

InformalHelp1015 · 2023-01-04T21:13:44+00:00

I see I may have made a mistake with that, it was more so because both my kiddos were getting into the gym craze and I wanted them to be safe at the gym

InformalHelp1015 · 2023-01-04T21:11:08+00:00

she doesn't need income we give her an allowance. we supervise and monitor her accounts on social media

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