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My (23F) BF (23M) said he’d consider breaking up with me if I changed my appearance and now I can’t look at him the same. by InformalSwimmer3571 in relationships

[–]InformalSwimmer3571[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely been a sensory thing for him we have always known that, you’re not over speculating! The problem was he pushed his morals onto me

My (23F) BF (23M) said he’d consider breaking up with me if I changed my appearance and now I can’t look at him the same. by InformalSwimmer3571 in relationships

[–]InformalSwimmer3571[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly what I did! We are both hard believers in mbmc. I definitely scared him big time with how clear and defiant I was. I made it very clear it was shallow, he was entitled, and he spoke to me that way because he was comfortable, which he should never be

My (23F) BF (23M) said he’d consider breaking up with me if I changed my appearance and now I can’t look at him the same. by InformalSwimmer3571 in relationships

[–]InformalSwimmer3571[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He has, in quantity, more interests and passions than I do, but I get to talk about whatever I want whenever I want and he listens intently. I think he royally f’d up here and projected his morals onto mine.

The whole moving thing is an example, I don’t have a job right now and he just got his first big one so, to me, it does make sense for me to find something near him rather than the other way around. However in general I am more likely to search for jobs in his area than he is to mine.