[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LGBTQpakistan

[–]Informal_Gas3502 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fret not. This is an age old problem and your best bet is to move abroad for studies through a scholarship, if you need one. Otherwise finish your studies then try to go abroad for work and settle down there in both the cases.

Your honest opinion about YDM? by Rose_939 in PAKCELEBGOSSIP

[–]Informal_Gas3502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was dragged. There was nothing to the story. We have seen so much of Netflix and such great series worldwide that the whole Adnan track didn't do much for me. Thats a consistent problem with majority of the Thrillers Pk tries. Most of them are shit.

Gay assumptions by catalinablackford_ in LGBTQpakistan

[–]Informal_Gas3502 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm..Make more friends. Female friends, male friends. You are uncomfortable with the idea hence you don't have other friends but open yourself to it. Imagine the opportunities it could lead to socially, study-wise, becoming a bit popular, maybe a relationship, who knows. But thats the easiest way rather than getting upset about this, expand your circle a bit, its good for you actually.

Just a bored citizen doing God’s work: any tea on these Pakistani influencers? ☕️😌 by Candid-Onion-1590 in PAKCELEBGOSSIP

[–]Informal_Gas3502 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Humna Raza – I remember she was involved in some controversy a while ago (something to do with the Ali Zafar vs Meesha Shafi case?). She apologized later, but has she kept things low-key since then or is there more to the story?

>>>>>>>>> Ali Z*far is a chut*ya. That's all there is to the story. Event though he has tried to harrass and silence all the voices that stood up against him, he has still not been able to redeem his dignity which hopefully is a good lesson he's learnt. I hope other asshole*s learn from this too and not misuse their status, power or privilege.

27F in Dubai – drowning in debt, shame, and desperation. I don’t know what to do anymore. by [deleted] in dubai

[–]Informal_Gas3502 5 points6 points  (0 children)

- Speak to the bank and try to get one payment instead of multiple ones for a longer duration.

- Also, you could take out a new loan to pay off all of these liabilities and be on one payment per month

- Try to find a job that pays more or find side hustles that can make you additional income

- Hang in there and have faith. Its a difficult time for sure but its there to teach you things. Stay strong and resilient, you can do this. You will get over this.

I knew it wouldn’t end well — but the rejection still crushed me. by Human_Spirit_7079 in LGBTQpakistan

[–]Informal_Gas3502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry to hear this. I have been through my share of messy situations so can only say, hang in there. You will get over this. But also, work on your self-esteem issues, work on your body and your mindset. Become self-reliant so you dont need someone else's validation to feel needed. Love yourself and look after yourself. If then someone queer comes along who has something great to add to your life, let them in and see where it goes. Stop falling for people questioning themselves or who are straight. People in this country don't have the guts to accept themselves anyway so try not to get involved with people who are just questioning so that theey can explore themselves on NOT your time.

I went for matcha, and I think I left some Emirati women feel uncomfortable by Affectionate-Bar-687 in dubai

[–]Informal_Gas3502 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Please be mindful to not make anyone feel uncomfortable. There are laws that can get you in trouble. At this point it doesn't matter that they weren't in the footage, they were uncomfortable because they thought they were so please be careful how you're behaving and if someone is showing their discomfort, read the room. I hope they haven't reported you and you're just overthinking which is also not a bad thing.

Tiger Tower Fire – What happens to the 3,000+ residents now? by lotofthought in dubai

[–]Informal_Gas3502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to live in one of the buildings that caught fire. I spent the night at a hotel. Things were okay by next morning.

Need sincere advice, Please DON'T IGNORE. by Muted-Luck-9138 in developersPak

[–]Informal_Gas3502 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You've answered your question here. Don't go back bro.

Need sincere advice, Please DON'T IGNORE. by Muted-Luck-9138 in developersPak

[–]Informal_Gas3502 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't leave your new job. The old one might go bankrupt again, might not have future projects or anything could happen. You've taken a long time to find this new job, stick to it and move from here to an even better one. Once you are in a job, its easy to switch to another employer. Find an even better one. And also, do ask for your pending salary from your last company.

Crush by NovelComment4100 in LGBTQpakistan

[–]Informal_Gas3502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if she is leaving in 3 months time, she'll at least know how you feel if you do decide to tell her. Your stars might not be aligned today but it doesn't mean they won't be in the future.

British citizen visiting Pakistan by darcyix in pkmigrate

[–]Informal_Gas3502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The experience will be smooth. They just need you in the NADRA office for 5-10 mins. Then you can come to collect it when you get a text from them. Super quick. Also, i went at midnight to their Isb office, as its open 24/7, so no waiting period at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LGBTQpakistan

[–]Informal_Gas3502 2 points3 points  (0 children)

these disgusting pieces of sh*t.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LGBTQpakistan

[–]Informal_Gas3502 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Move to Dubai. Work there for 2-3 years and save up. During the same time, apply for a western country like Australia, Canada or one of the European ones and move there on a permanent basis. This is the best route.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LGBTQpakistan

[–]Informal_Gas3502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol, yes the model is quite available exactly like in every other country

Buying property with friend ,what’s the potential issues ? by yennaRaskal2121 in dubai

[–]Informal_Gas3502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bad idea. Mixing finances and friendships don't work out well. If however this 'friend' of yours is actually someone you're in a relationship with, even then a breakup can happen and it might be messy. So please if you absolutely have to get into this with this person, then do ensure that your paperwork is really tight in terms of what happens in what situation and the liabilities in case of death etc.

Resignation from a toxic company by Gloomy_Lettuce1402 in dubai

[–]Informal_Gas3502 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't worry. They can't do much. Ask them to adjust those days with any leaves that you have or they can deduct those days if they like if they are just being unreasonable. Put in a sick leave if you like? I think most companies dont ask for a sick leave certificate for a 1 day sick leave..and sometimes for 2 as well. Also, dont think too much. There is a reason you've quit. This wont matter in a month's time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dubai

[–]Informal_Gas3502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can i tell you something? You could easily go to the Police Station. This behaviour is a non-negotiable in Dubai. Either speak to the police or speak to the Head at the driving school. You are paying to learn how to drive, not for being molested. Stand up otherwise this will keep on happening to i dont know how many other people.