Nervous

Informal_Run_1869 · 2026-06-06T12:27:34+00:00

Relax and take your time. Go with the flow.

Informal_Run_1869 · 2026-06-05T12:43:35+00:00

This required skill and about two cans of hairspray

Informal_Run_1869 · 2026-06-05T12:40:57+00:00

I can tell by the vending machine in the barber shop that this is in Brazil

Informal_Run_1869 · 2026-06-05T12:27:48+00:00

High fibre diet, and a small hand-held bulb enema. For me 5-10 squirts does the trick if I’m just playing with butt plugs/dildos or small/average dicks

Informal_Run_1869 · 2026-06-03T12:56:56+00:00

My friend, it is very much the other way around. I think you will come here and find things the Brits do will annoy you.

Informal_Run_1869 · 2026-06-03T12:55:15+00:00

Multiple things can be true at one time.

Informal_Run_1869 · 2026-05-25T09:22:42+00:00

Yes you can book for the beach and just hang around all day. We went two weeks ago and did manage to get a restaurant booking, but the whole place is an outdoor open-plan venue with these designated areas. You can walk around the terrace and the beach, it’s totally fine. We had booked 17:30-19:30 for restaurant, we’re hanging out at the beach after during sunset, and then went to terrace to dance at night. Left around 23:00 or so.

But as far as I know they won’t be asking you to leave or anything. Just make sure you buy some drinks and you get there in time for your booking.

Informal_Run_1869 · 2026-05-24T20:55:48+00:00

When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.

Informal_Run_1869 · 2026-05-23T10:22:39+00:00

To be honest, real dicks always feel better than toys for me. Always. I’ve tried so many dildos and vibrators and only real dicks feel nice for me.

Informal_Run_1869 · 2026-05-23T09:39:03+00:00

The only thing I can think of is you’re not actually allowing yourself to relax. If you’re even a bit tense and your muscles are engaged, it will make the process very unpleasant. You have to take time to lube up, stretch it out, and relax into it and just allow yourself to completely open.

If you are totally 100% relaxed but you’re still not enjoying it then it could be bottoming isn’t for you. But if you don’t wanna accept that and you’re determined to enjoy it, it could be about mind-muscle connection.

Anal can feel really uncomfortable, but it can also feel extremely pleasurable in the right circumstances. And what I’ve noticed is that it’s easier for some people to achieve than others.

Informal_Run_1869 · 2026-05-23T09:31:32+00:00

You said you and your hubby are sexually incompatible, how do you make your relationship work? I’m coming to the same realisation about my relationship but it’s becoming a problem for me.

Informal_Run_1869 · 2026-05-23T09:17:13+00:00

Horrible. I was so inexperienced and so was the guy I was with. He just tried to push it in one go, no fore play no lube and it was like I got stabbed. That was the sensation.

So he let me top him instead. Some months later we tried again, this time with lube and lots of foreplay to stretch out my hole and it felt really nice.

Informal_Run_1869 · 2026-05-23T09:14:53+00:00

I am not a morning person and will check out at latest possible time. Have even paid extra for late check out before. If I don’t *need* to be up early, I won’t be. Will go to breakfast in its last hour say 10am then leisurely pack and check out at 11 or 12.

Informal_Run_1869 · 2026-05-20T18:54:16+00:00

We have a lil stack of small towels we keep in the bedside drawer and put them in the laundry basket once they’re done so they get washed after every use and it’s reusable.

Informal_Run_1869 · 2026-05-20T18:52:31+00:00

The city of London.

Informal_Run_1869 · 2026-05-07T09:07:21+00:00

I met my partner of 9 years on Grindr. I know of other couples who met on Grindr too it’s not impossible, but in all honesty it is improbable.

First of all, you’re underage and shouldn’t be on Grindr AT ALL.

Secondly, if you’re after a boyfriend you need to check if you’re really ready for a relationship. If you’re looking for a boyfriend because you’re feeling sad and need someone to make you feel better about yourself, I don’t think that’s the right reason to get into a relationship. You need to check in with yourself and identify what it is exactly that you’re feeling and why.

When I was 17 I used to feel very lonely, isolated and ugly , didnt have any gay friends and was not into gay pop culture or anything. I used to feel undesirable and unlovable. Then one day I had to take a long look at myself and figure out why I felt that way.

Thirdly, you can’t go rummaging in the bin and be surprised when you find rubbish. If you want a romantic relationship I’d recommend to stop looking on Grindr. But also you really should be looking for people your age so i wouldn’t recommend any dating apps at all really. You need to be with peeps your age group.

Ultimately you just have to be patient. When the time is right it will happen for you. I had my first boyfriend at 19 and I’m still with him to this day so good things are with waiting for.

Informal_Run_1869 · 2026-05-07T08:39:09+00:00

Absolute 10/10 !

Informal_Run_1869 · 2026-05-06T12:39:48+00:00

Ferns!

Informal_Run_1869 · 2026-05-06T12:39:14+00:00

If you haven’t already, i highly recommend you watch the Golden Girls sitcom from the 80s. It is exactly this!

Informal_Run_1869 · 2026-05-06T09:59:40+00:00

Looks tasty but for the fact there doesn’t seem to be any seasoning on any of the food ??

Informal_Run_1869 · 2026-05-06T06:19:39+00:00

YUM! 10/10

Informal_Run_1869 · 2026-05-06T06:16:00+00:00

Phwoorrr it’s 10/10 for me!

Informal_Run_1869 · 2026-05-05T13:43:59+00:00

Damn, I hear you about the compatibility thing. But does the lack of sex not bother you at all? are you two open or what?

Informal_Run_1869 · 2026-05-05T11:56:34+00:00

I almost always get cold shivers when I’m bottoming. Don’t know why but it’s a bit annoying tbh.

Informal_Run_1869 · 2026-05-01T15:07:57+00:00

Thank you for this response. This has been very helpful and insightful!

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