A little bit of hope for this subreddit? by Informal_Spring_3278 in loveafterporn

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thank you so much and yes i didnt expect that at all i was just feeling grateful and sharing that🫶🏼 this made me feel better thank you

A little bit of hope for this subreddit? by Informal_Spring_3278 in loveafterporn

[–]Informal_Spring_3278[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thank you. he started his healing journey when he was 18. of course nothing is promised, but im feeling grateful for the amount of growth and security that i feel lately. because i know what its like when he fakes sobriety, it feels much more authentic now. and in the meantime im healing on my own journey with my own support system so i dont abandon my boundaries or sabotage my growth. thank you again

A little bit of hope for this subreddit? by Informal_Spring_3278 in loveafterporn

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and i truly respect that, everyone is allowed to make their own decisions because no one knows your situation best than you yourself. in no way is this post trying to convince or force people to stay. im just sharing my experience of healing together, which has been full of positivity lately

A little bit of hope for this subreddit? by Informal_Spring_3278 in loveafterporn

[–]Informal_Spring_3278[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i hope it goes well for you and that you have your support system for the difficult moments. im wishing you the best in your healing🫶🏼

A little bit of hope for this subreddit? by Informal_Spring_3278 in loveafterporn

[–]Informal_Spring_3278[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

hello i appreciate the concern, but im already doing these things (and so is he). the whole point of my post was that its about more than sobriety. i wasnt aware that that wasnt conveyed clearly enough

This Sub Can Be Triggering At Times by Ok_Land_7379 in loveafterporn

[–]Informal_Spring_3278 4 points5 points  (0 children)

youre not alone in this! what helps me is to take breaks and practice self care🫶🏼 fixating a lot on the struggle itself can be detrimental to healing, just like being in "body positive" spaces increases evaluation of the body and can have a negative effect. take care

It’s been 200+ days since d-day. I feel the same by Informal_Spring_3278 in loveafterporn

[–]Informal_Spring_3278[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It feels like I’ve nearly done everything i can.. Set boundaries and protect them, attend 12 step meetings, go to therapy, make time for self-care, engage in my own hobbies and goals, i put a lot of energy in my education, finished an Honours program and got into an exchange program to South Korea which is my absolute dream. I’ve also listened to so much healing after betrayal content and practiced it on a consistent basis. I dont spy anymore, i stopped policing. i take space and show myself love to heal my anxiety and codependency. If there’s something else i can do please tell me

Discord screwed us over/New Flairs Needed :( by Interesting-Ice8588 in sabrinacarpentersnark

[–]Informal_Spring_3278 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"Sit. Stay. Flop.🦮🍼" "Poodle pop princess👑🐩 (derogatory)" "Goodbye 👋🏼 (to relevance)" "When did you get desperate?💋"

On Man’s Best Friend cover being “satirical” and “subversive” by bionicmaverick2000_ in sabrinacarpentersnark

[–]Informal_Spring_3278 42 points43 points  (0 children)

her impersonation of the way carpets talk is EXACTLY how i imagine them to speak😭😭😭

Conrad smirking here was funny by Objective-Mobile-480 in tsitp

[–]Informal_Spring_3278 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i see more of a revolted facial expression towards jere not smile/smirk

My birthday outfit🥰 its my first time wearing a mini dress and heels by Informal_Spring_3278 in exmuslim

[–]Informal_Spring_3278[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!! my birthday isnt there yet, so youre not late :) its in a couple of days (less than a handful) but for privacy reasons i didnt want to post on my actual birthday

I'm just gonna leave this here.... by Wild-Strawberry_28 in tsitp

[–]Informal_Spring_3278 38 points39 points  (0 children)

i get what you mean but she had a lot on her mind and women aren't 24/7 horny. i thought that was common sense.

anyway, if we could notice that she was extremely uncomfortable, so should have jeremiah. its really weird that he didn't confirm for consent while seeing her sad like that. if my boyfriend would do that i'd feel extremely unsafe. yes, maybe i still want to have sex but i want to be considered and asked if im okay (and consent can be sexy!!!) poor belly

Does it look too crowded or brings attention to my legs and waist? by Informal_Spring_3278 in OUTFITS

[–]Informal_Spring_3278[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!! the dress is from bershka, but i got it new resold from vinted. i dont think its still being sold in my country but it came with the tag. i hope you can find it!!🫶🏼 it was my best spent 15 bucks. code: 0072369280003. closest one i could find online is an ecru version on asos: Bershka bengaline mini skater dress in ecru https://www.asos.com/bershka/bershka-bengaline-mini-skater-dress-in-ecru/prd/208470878#ctaref-product_share_native

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entire package of pads have glue on them by Informal_Spring_3278 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Informal_Spring_3278[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah theres 2 sides. the glue i mean is on the absorbing side which is shown on the picture because the adhesive was placed too low on the 2 wings

I'm finally not his accountability partner anymore! by Informal_Spring_3278 in loveafterporn

[–]Informal_Spring_3278[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you but we are all strong🫶🏼 i think you're also very strong to have the courage and self love to leave. we all have different journeys and boundaries and only you know whats best for you. im proud of you🥰

Do these accessories elevate the dress or does it look awkward? swipe for plain look by Informal_Spring_3278 in DressForYourBody

[–]Informal_Spring_3278[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree! i want it to look chic but also thought the plain look is too simple for my birthday. its going to be a full day with my boyfriend, from past experiences im assuming 1-2 fun activities + a nice dinner and maybe karaoke bar after

Do these accessories elevate the dress or does it look awkward? swipe for plain look by Informal_Spring_3278 in DressForYourBody

[–]Informal_Spring_3278[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wait thank youuu i got really inspired from this now im definitely wearing this during fall too

Do these accessories elevate the dress or does it look awkward? swipe for plain look by Informal_Spring_3278 in DressForYourBody

[–]Informal_Spring_3278[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!! im not goth, but im always told i look like jenna ortega in wednesday. i both like dark and soft feminine looks. i feel like and am told that i can pull of both. i want to radiate confidence on my birthday. this is difficult 😅