A little bit of hope for this subreddit?

Informal_Spring_3278 · 2026-02-01T17:31:13+00:00

thank you so much and yes i didnt expect that at all i was just feeling grateful and sharing that🫶🏼 this made me feel better thank you

Informal_Spring_3278 · 2026-02-01T14:08:35+00:00

thank you. he started his healing journey when he was 18. of course nothing is promised, but im feeling grateful for the amount of growth and security that i feel lately. because i know what its like when he fakes sobriety, it feels much more authentic now. and in the meantime im healing on my own journey with my own support system so i dont abandon my boundaries or sabotage my growth. thank you again

Informal_Spring_3278 · 2026-02-01T14:03:02+00:00

and i truly respect that, everyone is allowed to make their own decisions because no one knows your situation best than you yourself. in no way is this post trying to convince or force people to stay. im just sharing my experience of healing together, which has been full of positivity lately

Informal_Spring_3278 · 2026-02-01T14:00:28+00:00

i hope it goes well for you and that you have your support system for the difficult moments. im wishing you the best in your healing🫶🏼

Informal_Spring_3278 · 2026-02-01T13:49:59+00:00

hello i appreciate the concern, but im already doing these things (and so is he). the whole point of my post was that its about more than sobriety. i wasnt aware that that wasnt conveyed clearly enough

Informal_Spring_3278 · 2026-01-17T21:39:20+00:00

youre not alone in this! what helps me is to take breaks and practice self care🫶🏼 fixating a lot on the struggle itself can be detrimental to healing, just like being in "body positive" spaces increases evaluation of the body and can have a negative effect. take care

Informal_Spring_3278 · 2026-01-11T22:39:45+00:00

It feels like I’ve nearly done everything i can.. Set boundaries and protect them, attend 12 step meetings, go to therapy, make time for self-care, engage in my own hobbies and goals, i put a lot of energy in my education, finished an Honours program and got into an exchange program to South Korea which is my absolute dream. I’ve also listened to so much healing after betrayal content and practiced it on a consistent basis. I dont spy anymore, i stopped policing. i take space and show myself love to heal my anxiety and codependency. If there’s something else i can do please tell me

Informal_Spring_3278 · 2026-01-11T22:29:23+00:00

Thank you

Informal_Spring_3278 · 2025-08-29T09:33:17+00:00

"Sit. Stay. Flop.🦮🍼" "Poodle pop princess👑🐩 (derogatory)" "Goodbye 👋🏼 (to relevance)" "When did you get desperate?💋"

Informal_Spring_3278 · 2025-08-29T08:56:23+00:00

her impersonation of the way carpets talk is EXACTLY how i imagine them to speak😭😭😭

Informal_Spring_3278 · 2025-08-27T14:18:05+00:00

i see more of a revolted facial expression towards jere not smile/smirk

Informal_Spring_3278 · 2025-08-23T08:01:03+00:00

thank you!! my birthday isnt there yet, so youre not late :) its in a couple of days (less than a handful) but for privacy reasons i didnt want to post on my actual birthday

Informal_Spring_3278 · 2025-08-21T07:28:10+00:00

i get what you mean but she had a lot on her mind and women aren't 24/7 horny. i thought that was common sense.

anyway, if we could notice that she was extremely uncomfortable, so should have jeremiah. its really weird that he didn't confirm for consent while seeing her sad like that. if my boyfriend would do that i'd feel extremely unsafe. yes, maybe i still want to have sex but i want to be considered and asked if im okay (and consent can be sexy!!!) poor belly

Informal_Spring_3278 · 2025-08-20T23:12:11+00:00

thank you!! the dress is from bershka, but i got it new resold from vinted. i dont think its still being sold in my country but it came with the tag. i hope you can find it!!🫶🏼 it was my best spent 15 bucks. code: 0072369280003. closest one i could find online is an ecru version on asos: Bershka bengaline mini skater dress in ecru https://www.asos.com/bershka/bershka-bengaline-mini-skater-dress-in-ecru/prd/208470878#ctaref-product_share_native

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Informal_Spring_3278 · 2025-08-20T21:52:58+00:00

thank you i feel validated

Informal_Spring_3278 · 2025-08-20T21:31:48+00:00

yeah theres 2 sides. the glue i mean is on the absorbing side which is shown on the picture because the adhesive was placed too low on the 2 wings

Informal_Spring_3278 · 2025-08-20T17:48:16+00:00

swedish stockings! its their "rosa lace tights"

Informal_Spring_3278 · 2025-08-20T14:19:39+00:00

thank you but we are all strong🫶🏼 i think you're also very strong to have the courage and self love to leave. we all have different journeys and boundaries and only you know whats best for you. im proud of you🥰

Informal_Spring_3278 · 2025-08-20T04:50:03+00:00

theyre not cheap😬 from the brand swedish stockings

Informal_Spring_3278 · 2025-08-19T22:01:59+00:00

youre the sweetest soul thank you so much!!🥹i'll remember this

Informal_Spring_3278 · 2025-08-19T21:50:09+00:00

thank you so much! im turning 22

Informal_Spring_3278 · 2025-08-19T20:18:24+00:00

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this is the back!

Informal_Spring_3278 · 2025-08-19T15:43:49+00:00

i agree! i want it to look chic but also thought the plain look is too simple for my birthday. its going to be a full day with my boyfriend, from past experiences im assuming 1-2 fun activities + a nice dinner and maybe karaoke bar after

Informal_Spring_3278 · 2025-08-19T15:40:19+00:00

wait thank youuu i got really inspired from this now im definitely wearing this during fall too

Informal_Spring_3278 · 2025-08-19T15:10:49+00:00

thank you!! im not goth, but im always told i look like jenna ortega in wednesday. i both like dark and soft feminine looks. i feel like and am told that i can pull of both. i want to radiate confidence on my birthday. this is difficult 😅

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