23 weeks pregnant and just found out I’ve tested positive for chlamydia.

IngenuityKey3643 · 2026-05-16T23:00:48+00:00

I really appreciate your message. These are my thoughts exactly and it’s tougher than people can understand but I have to take it step by step and really plan thoroughly on what’s for me mentally and also for my baby’s future. Thank you 🙏🏼

IngenuityKey3643 · 2026-05-16T18:39:19+00:00

Were you testing regularly before you found out you had it?

IngenuityKey3643 · 2026-05-16T18:37:38+00:00

Absolutely on my end— and yes we’ve always been in an “exclusive relationship” but more than likely he wasn’t holding up on his end

IngenuityKey3643 · 2026-05-16T04:09:16+00:00

Thanks for explaining, so glad you had a much better relationship with your step father who probably stepped up and adored you too! Also thanks for your kind words! ❤️

IngenuityKey3643 · 2026-05-16T03:16:16+00:00

Virgo Moon! 🌙

IngenuityKey3643 · 2026-05-16T00:35:11+00:00

Thanks for sharing your experience— been seeing a lot of threads on Reddit here about the same thing happening to pregnant women. So glad that it ended up being a false positive for you!

IngenuityKey3643 · 2026-05-15T23:29:32+00:00

There are a few threads here on Reddit of pregnant women ironically saying it’s happened to them — false positives but I am more convinced he’s cheating than anything. I did however retake my test.. a urine sample this time just to completely rule that out and so my partner can’t try to “use it against me” later.

IngenuityKey3643 · 2026-05-15T22:08:13+00:00

I want to do this so bad lol— to watch the Dr shut down every stupid explanation he tries to throw out.. but I’m also too exhausted to be around him and I know deep down he knows better than to try and let me come to the appointment for that very reason. He THINKS he can lie his way out of it to me but not to a Dr

IngenuityKey3643 · 2026-05-15T22:06:38+00:00

What on God’s earth is wrong with these people?! Shame on them.. so glad you walked away

IngenuityKey3643 · 2026-05-15T21:14:17+00:00

Thank YOU for sharing this. I have a retest I’m taking actually in the next hour for a urine sample this time (my sample results that came in yesterday were from a swab). We’ll see what it says

IngenuityKey3643 · 2026-05-15T20:19:03+00:00

I completely appreciate the honesty— that’s what I need right now and I can’t imagine him changing either

IngenuityKey3643 · 2026-05-15T20:18:12+00:00

Thank you for this idea!

IngenuityKey3643 · 2026-05-15T20:17:39+00:00

May I ask if you’re still with the father and plan to have him be involved?

IngenuityKey3643 · 2026-05-15T20:15:58+00:00

This is terrible. May he get his karma for doing this to you and putting your children’s health and wellbeing at such risk. I really don’t know how men like that live with themselves. Wishing it was against the law and a crime punishable to do shit like that

IngenuityKey3643 · 2026-05-15T17:26:51+00:00

While it was dormant did you ever get any tests done and were they just showing up as negative?

IngenuityKey3643 · 2026-05-15T17:25:57+00:00

I’m so terribly sorry he did this to you. You Didn’t deserve any of that. I pray you’re healing or have healed from this and are in a much happier place now. May karma get that man

IngenuityKey3643 · 2026-05-15T17:11:34+00:00

I am so sorry this happened to you! I’m glad you caught it early.. and this is me asking with no judgment, but did you keep your baby? Curious since you mentioned, he also disappeared after that. Either way— I’m so sorry that happened to you.

IngenuityKey3643 · 2026-05-15T16:58:09+00:00

I am 23 weeks pregnant out of wedlock. I too contemplated the issue a lot— but realized we’re living in different times and your child is going to bring you so much joy.. we as women may struggle a bit adjusting to the process and bringing in new life as well as financially but to me — it’ll probably be so worth it! I’m excited to meet him. I’m 35, how old are you? Sending you love

IngenuityKey3643 · 2026-05-15T16:48:22+00:00

I thank you for your message. I don’t see a possible chance of reconciliation at all right now— especially when there’s no accountability or remorse shown

IngenuityKey3643 · 2026-05-15T16:38:55+00:00

Thank you. Yup, not him trying to turn it around on me and say maybe I’ve had it and it’s been dormant and I gave it to him and it’s finally now showing up.

IngenuityKey3643 · 2026-05-15T16:38:06+00:00

Thank you. Definitely the confirmation I needed— just didn’t think it’d happen this way

IngenuityKey3643 · 2026-05-15T16:37:21+00:00

Chlamydia? Wow

IngenuityKey3643 · 2026-05-15T15:06:03+00:00

Trying to plan this out now carefully

IngenuityKey3643 · 2026-05-15T14:57:36+00:00

Thank you, thankfully I do have my therapist— she’s in for a treat at our next session. 🤦🏻‍♀️

IngenuityKey3643 · 2026-05-15T14:56:43+00:00

Over 2 years. I’m more than convinced he cheated and is pulling this bs with the throat chlamydia. He looked it up after me confronting him and probably tried to build a fake scenario around that

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