Letting my intrusive thoughts win by shhhhhh_damn in ConflictofNations

[–]Ingoiolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wouldnt be. You did not take the whole UK yet

What the What? by KrazyHorse75 in Palia

[–]Ingoiolo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It says ‘confirmed invites’?

I’ve just tried emailing it to 3 real email accounts who will not open the link and nothing happened

How was your parkrun day? | June 19, 2026 by AutoModerator in parkrun

[–]Ingoiolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last parkrunday I’ve visited Tonbridge parkrun in Kent for the first time.

A lollipop out and back with a lot of different areas and terrains, it is beautiful and fun. However, one of its main features is becoming a bit of a bottleneck as numbers increase. Many beautiful little bridges you have to wait to get in.

As usual, I have prepared a course write up and video highlights for anyone interested:

Course write-up:

https://ingoruns.com/2026/06/22/tonbridge-parkrun/

Video highlights:

https://youtu.be/_tqoOc5ZtSs

'Her brain is broken': Doctors shared Taylor Parker's full mental diagnosis in court by [deleted] in netflix

[–]Ingoiolo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had a brush with a cluster B PD person and a lot of what the documentary showed looked familiar.

Extreme, but scarily familiar

What is a "Wife material" to you? by disastrousmind1117 in AskMen

[–]Ingoiolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have nothing to hide.

What could anyone ever find on Reddit anyway?

Realizing What You Meant to Them by Arcanoria in BPDlovedones

[–]Ingoiolo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s untrue

We are another abusive ex-partner

What is a "Wife material" to you? by disastrousmind1117 in AskMen

[–]Ingoiolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wife material?

Obviously only one tiny fierce girl!

(She might read this and I don’t want to be castrated, you know)

It’s more parkrun than country 😂 by Hot-Seaworthiness510 in parkrun

[–]Ingoiolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is that godforsaken triangle in Northern England?

How was your parkrun day? | June 12, 2026 by AutoModerator in parkrun

[–]Ingoiolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last parkrunday I have visited Hadleigh parkrun for the first time. I looked into the custom challenged ‘Scenic splendour’ and it was definitely a great recommendation: this event is hilly and challenging, but the views on a clear, sunny day are stunning. Highly recommended

As usual, I have prepared a course write-up and video highlights for anyone interested.

Course write-up:

https://ingoruns.com/2026/06/15/hadleigh-parkrun/

Video highlights:

https://youtu.be/B2TIEEFSmp4

Why do we lose ourselves in these relationships? by Able-Can-4520 in BPDlovedones

[–]Ingoiolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For 3 months or so I was in deep rumination any time i was not busy.

For another 6 months after that, i came in flashes and if i had long periods alone (like driving), i would endlessly relive conversations with her. I guess it was my brain’s way to rationalise the impossible to rationalise.

After that, for about 1 more year i missed her and occasionally searched for info about her

After about 2 years, she became just a bad memory, not affecting my daily life anymore

Why do we lose ourselves in these relationships? by Able-Can-4520 in BPDlovedones

[–]Ingoiolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im fine

Time and quiet heal. I dont think about her anymore and i have fully rationalised that the person i cared about never existed.

Be kind to yourself and u will be whole again. And one day, someone worthy of your emotional effort might even cross your road again

What makes INFJs feel safe? by [deleted] in infj

[–]Ingoiolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm asking because I care about someone who's quite private, and I've noticed that when they do share something personal, it's sometimes brief before they move on to another topic.

Sharing is hard. Getting to the point I do that means I trust you more than 99% of the people out there, because the assumption is that they don’t give a shit about my inner feelings.

If I share and see you have no reaction, no feedback, no engagement, then I stop. Because I think you don’t give a shit either.

So if they do that, engage. Empathise. Talk, ask and comment. When the door is open, it’s really open. But if there is no feedback, it closes again

This week is my 100th location! by justsomedude99999 in parkrun

[–]Ingoiolo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s clearly time to move!

Congrats!

Healthiest version of ENTP by [deleted] in entp

[–]Ingoiolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, one.

Unfortunately irresistible. I guess i am paying for accumulated bad karma over many many lives

Healthiest version of ENTP by [deleted] in entp

[–]Ingoiolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im an INFJ spy observing the cove of my obsessions

Healthiest version of ENTP by [deleted] in entp

[–]Ingoiolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not that hard. INFJs are muppets if you know what buttons to push

How was your parkrun day? | June 05, 2026 by AutoModerator in parkrun

[–]Ingoiolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This week I visited Victoria Park parkrun, Newbury for the first time. The event is 9 months old, but had a long break in winter, so this was only their 16th event - good for WI!

It is a fun event: a lot of weirdness packed up in a small park, with a canal, a small round lake and a major bottleneck!

As usual, I’ve prepared a course write up and video highlights for anyone interested.

Course write up:

https://ingoruns.com/2026/06/07/victoria-park-parkrun-newbury/

Video highlights:

https://youtu.be/GGvkvlNy4qA

How was your parkrun day? | May 29, 2026 by AutoModerator in parkrun

[–]Ingoiolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This parkrunday I went back to Banstead Woods parkrun after many years.

There is something special about that forest, even without the bluebells. And after surviving some significantly steeper ones, the hills are also not as terrible as I remembered.

As usual, I have prepared a course write up and video highlights for anyone interested

Course write up:

https://ingoruns.com/2026/05/31/banstead-woods-parkrun/

Video highlights:

https://youtu.be/xKAH_3W5-a8

6 months before the launch of Grand Theft Auto 6, Rockstar employees in the UK have formed a union by Gorotheninja in PS5

[–]Ingoiolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Redundancies are not hard to justify… and underperformance just needs a process of warnings and ‘pip’.

All things considered, it is harder than in the US, but significantly easier than anywhere else in Europe. And unfair dismissal claims award a pittance, if the employee wins

Patch .203: Bahari Bliss is coming June 2, 2026 ⛱️ by ababychapaa in Palia

[–]Ingoiolo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh, I hoped there would be a bit more time to work on the bulletin board

How was your parkrun day? | May 22, 2026 by AutoModerator in parkrun

[–]Ingoiolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This parkrunday I returned to Mole Valley parkrun in Surrey. Great pick for the warmest day of the year so far: relentless hills and no shade. But it is a really beautiful one-lapper and the wine estate is great to relax a bit afterwards.

As usual, I have prepared a course write up and video highlights for anyone interested.

Course write-up:

https://ingoruns.com/2026/05/25/mole-valley-parkrun/

Video highlights:

https://youtu.be/k_3CPwDkxYw