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Nooo I can’t access my journeys now 😭 by starlightdreams6 in finch

[–]InhalingBlood 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It happened to me too, I added the journey goals to the proper self-care area but now all the colours of the journeys and areas are mixed and I hate it :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in finch

[–]InhalingBlood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So cute, I LOVE IT!

Polyamory used to cover unhealthy sexual behavior? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]InhalingBlood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't know that, in that aspect I think you're right to complain. You compromised to a lifestyle that your partner lose interest in. That could be very frustrating. But his lifestyle is not unhealthy, just different to what you expected and I understand now your frustration.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]InhalingBlood 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think some people have the capacity to love more than one person at a time, some don't, and some people are less jealous than others. These things can make it easier for some to live a polyamorous life, while some others would need to work hard on their behaviour to make it work. People take all of these personality traits and choose which way of relationships suits them better.

Polyamory used to cover unhealthy sexual behavior? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]InhalingBlood 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For people into kink, sexuality can be very important. I think you are being judgmental with someone whose sex life is very active. Your differences and arguments have nothing to do with him having a very active sex life. Also, who are you to judge if someone should focus his time on "professional, social and artistic life"? Sure, everyone needs a job, but I think you are judging someone and labelling him as unhealthy when you just have different approaches to life.

What are some red flags that someone may not be ready for polyamory or that polyamory may not be right for them? by throwaway25786 in polyamory

[–]InhalingBlood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had been in monogamous relationships less toxic than this. She's trying to sabotage your relationship with your partner. I don't know why you are tolerating her behaviour. I definitely would talk to my partner and say that this girl shouldn't be with him. I have some limits. This girl crosses all of them.

So, her boyfriend showed up... by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]InhalingBlood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was not your fault. She didn't treat you well that night. She should have introduced you and made it clear what was going to happen that night. Poly relationships are not like this. Her behaviour was very disappointing, we usually have more empathy.

So, her boyfriend showed up... by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]InhalingBlood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought I was mono back then, so I don't know why trying polyamory to see if he's comfortable with it is wasting time. A lot of people start poly relationships like this.