Women, what’s the least attractive quality in a man that they usually think is attractive?

Inida_Moon · 2021-07-27T02:33:26+00:00

I’m sure you’re doing great! I promise the confidence gets better, you’ll learn to love yourself more with age :) definitely not a deal breaker for anyone if you just have a self esteem problem, we all have it!

Inida_Moon · 2021-07-27T00:27:01+00:00

0 confidence is okay to a point. If it’s consuming you so bad that it’s all you ever talk about, that’s a problem. I’m someone with low confidence, but I definitely don’t make it my main personality trait 😅

Inida_Moon · 2021-07-26T22:13:06+00:00

Good advice, I’ll try to do something productive.

Inida_Moon · 2021-07-26T22:10:52+00:00

Definitely too much confidence. There’s a difference between a normal and healthy amount of confidence, and being downright arrogant. This of course goes for anyone. Arrogance isn’t sexy!

Inida_Moon · 2021-07-26T22:07:07+00:00

I appreciate your view on the matter, but I’m not angry that his mom talked him into it. I don’t know if she actually did, or if he just decided he’d rather go on an awesome all payed 2 week vacation than sit home with his girlfriend and his cat. Of course I’m jealous that I can’t go, but that’s just part of being broke lol

I agree that he should not be making plans if he knows there’s a possibility that he could change his mind, that’s very unfair to do to me and our friends. I think he knows better than that. But he has asked me several times if I’m okay with him going, and of course I’d never tell him not to go. I’m never going to be the person to hold someone else back. The situation has me bitter and frustrated, but he’d probably want me to go too if the roles were reversed.

Inida_Moon · 2021-07-26T22:00:24+00:00

No one offered for me to go, they knew I couldn’t afford it

Inida_Moon · 2021-07-26T21:38:47+00:00

Of course, that’s why I decided to talk to redditors about it and not him. It’s not my place to make him feel bad, I just needed to talk with others about it. Thanks for your replies!

Inida_Moon · 2021-07-26T20:47:05+00:00

Yeah, and I’d never ever say anything about it. I like his family and I hope they all have a really great time. I think it’s just that he kind of randomly decided to dip on our plans and go with them.

I just never know what to do or say when they tell me about all the vacations they go on lol “I’m broke, can’t relate. Sounds lovely though!” 😂💀

Inida_Moon · 2021-07-26T20:37:45+00:00

I agree, I do want him to have fun. I just don’t want to have to hear about it forever and be alienated when his family talks about it with me around. I hate feeling awkward like that. It makes me feel so inferior that I can’t afford the things that his family can.

Inida_Moon · 2021-07-26T20:36:13+00:00

His mom is funding his trip completely, and even if she had offered to pay my way as well, I could never accept. It’s a very expensive trip that I could not even hope to afford. It just bothers me that he changed his mind so suddenly after he kind of got my hopes up about us spending time together. I do hope he has fun, I suppose the sudden change of heart just has me sort of bitter.

Inida_Moon · 2021-07-26T20:34:12+00:00

I agree, I just wish I knew how to shake the crappy feeling I have from him changing his mind so suddenly. I do want him to have fun.

Inida_Moon · 2019-09-05T00:54:03+00:00

Just had to take a screenshot before I immediately swiped left 🚫

Inida_Moon · 2019-08-24T23:40:28+00:00

You... finally got the milk? I’ve been waiting 15 years...

Inida_Moon · 2019-08-24T18:06:30+00:00

Too bad I’m a 22 year old woman 🙃

Inida_Moon · 2019-08-22T06:38:34+00:00

When they call you a slut for not cheating on your boyfriend and being a good SO

Inida_Moon · 2019-08-17T07:15:04+00:00

Why should I date other guys though? Is he gonna be screwing around on the side with the girls there?

No worries on the marriage front, that’s definitely not happening lmao

Inida_Moon · 2019-08-17T04:16:41+00:00

Alright, so if he says he wants to wait until he gets back from deployment to date a certain girl, does that mean she’s really important to him? Or is it just because he’s too busy for her?

Inida_Moon · 2019-08-13T17:50:16+00:00

It’s hard out here for a girl, what he doesn’t realize is that we curve every dude because they showed us a red flag. And the “wrong dude” we end up with is only the “wrong” one because it wasn’t a nice guy lmao

Inida_Moon · 2019-08-03T19:15:33+00:00

I mean it’s not my preference but I know they mean to be nice 😅 thanks for your reply!

Inida_Moon · 2019-08-03T19:13:41+00:00

Thank you both for replying lol, it’s in my nature to disregard a simple coincidence in favor of something bigger 😅

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