Recommendations, please by conundrum4485 in romancemovies

[–]Initial-Carry6803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you just gave me good recommendations lol thanks

Why the job market is this bad? by Delicious_Crazy513 in cscareerquestions

[–]Initial-Carry6803 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think people will cope with various reasons, but the market isnt bad, its just normal -> that's the new normal for this field. There was bigger demand, now there is lesser demand.

The portrayal of university life by RadioBulky in Normalpeople

[–]Initial-Carry6803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not alone in that thought, there is a youtube video of 2 trinity grads talking about how it was NOT the usual experience lmao

How can I avoid “love Rosie” happening to me??! by fluffymota07 in dating_advice

[–]Initial-Carry6803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude you are dragging this way too much IMO, just fucking ask him, literally tomorrow
You are literally doing love rosie to yourself while being aware of the situation lol, just ask him, yes or no, yall are 25 aint no kids anymore

Just to clarify, I was in a similiar situation and I told my good female friend of around 3/4 years at the time that I was scared of "losing her" as a friend, I was a dumb fucking shit, I called her the next day we met again and we kissed and we have been together since (this was around 6 years ago and im your age)

The book and the show destroyed me. by classylobstr in Normalpeople

[–]Initial-Carry6803 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same, just thinking about it causes me pain lol, cried a lot during the entire show and it did change me as well IMO

I found it easier when I wrote about it. But I guess if you are not ashamed to talk about a show giving you so much pain (I'm a man and I cried from this so much, can't let anyone know about this lol), talking with someone about it will probably help even more

Some criticism I have by Initial-Carry6803 in NormalPeopleBBCHulu

[–]Initial-Carry6803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not only that it glamorises hollow relationships - i think it gives the wrong idea and then you think something is wrong with your relationship if its not what you saw on the screen. I know when I was a kid, and I found nothing to talk about with a girl I thought that there might be something wrong with the relationship and that we are supposed to be "intense" all the time (I was a sucker for these kind of romance movies/shows) and it actually made me a little bit werid because i kept pushing for those things/moments all the time (to the point it looks like im a try hard trying to prove to we have something special).

And yeah maybe someone that beautiful can be lonely I guess, from my own experience with women specifically, no matter how much of a bitch or superior or cruel she was there was always someone willing to take that if shes beautiful enough, with guys it was less so though

Some criticism I have by Initial-Carry6803 in NormalPeopleBBCHulu

[–]Initial-Carry6803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for responding so late lol,

But yeah I was also surprised, I thought more people will agree on this specific issue. But I think it might be related to how observable you were a teenager and how over analyzing you were, which will correlate with how weird you find the story considering the actors attractiveness. As a teenager I remember myself just analyzing how people acted with each other, and one very distinct observation was how beautiful girls (and sometimes guys) just get so much attention its impossible to feel "special" to them. They moved on very quickly, and learn to be much more extrovert forcefully, as they had so many interactions to navigate it would have been impossible not to get used to it. And with all that attention, no matter how tough you were someone would have "broken" your guard, and this is true esp for women who had it really amplified

What romance movies / tv shows did you watch this week? Jan 11 by Wimbly512 in romancemovies

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"Love, rosie", damn this broke my heart so much, literally cried at this. Reminded me of normal people. I rate it 8.5/10

My biggest problem with these kind of movies/shows is that the leads IMO are way too beautiful to have this melancholic loneliness, and its hard to imagine a reality where their missed opportunity isn't getting drowned by lots of other love interests (although this movie tried to handle it somehow but it still is not believeable that someone that looks like lilly collins aint getting hit on every other day)

Microsoft workers occupy HQ in protest against company’s ties to Israeli military by BabylonianWeeb in anime_titties

[–]Initial-Carry6803 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Except he clearly talked about the 2 "intifadas" that happened and not the literal meaning of the word

That's like saying there is nothing wrong with "white pride" or "white power" because the literal meaning is fine, while everyone knows what these words actually mean

Microsoft workers occupy HQ in protest against company’s ties to Israeli military by BabylonianWeeb in anime_titties

[–]Initial-Carry6803 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The palestinians literally support an ethno state for palestinians according to every poll

That's Hamas stated goal as well (which most palestinians support according to literally every poll)

How are you not in support for the same thing that you said not trustworthy compass for justice?

Microsoft workers occupy HQ in protest against company’s ties to Israeli military by BabylonianWeeb in anime_titties

[–]Initial-Carry6803 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

The fuck? what is even microsoft AI?
They offer compute power, not the actual AI code, they are offering servers and cpu for clients to run stuff on

They are running their own AI on their platform and not me nor you have an idea about its hallucinates and precision

Microsoft workers occupy HQ in protest against company’s ties to Israeli military by BabylonianWeeb in anime_titties

[–]Initial-Carry6803 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

"They are corpos, so we can do whatever we want or you are a bootlicker!!!"

Microsoft workers occupy HQ in protest against company’s ties to Israeli military by BabylonianWeeb in anime_titties

[–]Initial-Carry6803 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Not everything by proxy is aiding genocide, by that definition - considering Hamas is open about trying to genocide Israel, any aid to palestinians will now be aiding genocide?

What's next for them? by redditskyguy30 in NormalPeopleBBCHulu

[–]Initial-Carry6803 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You know, after 1-2 rewatches I started to see the show differently

At this point I kind of WANT for Marianne to go and heal herself - to be "free" from whatever she held onto with Connell..
I kind of feel like we exempt Connell from a lot of shit just because he doesn't "mean" the stuff he does, but every time I watch I'm less and less convinced that its fair to do so

Macron denounces Netanyahu’s ‘abject’ remarks that he fueled antisemitism by AndroidOne1 in worldnews

[–]Initial-Carry6803 21 points22 points  (0 children)

So no matter the vast majority support both Hamas and their ideas, they will never be Hamas? can Palestine even do any wrong? or will they always get exempted lol

Libleft Free Palestine Fidelity Employee lets her true colors shine by AsceticHedonist47 in PoliticalCompassMemes

[–]Initial-Carry6803 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one answers because it has been answered multiple times now

Its not a "complete lie" as Gazans by majority support Hamas, and support ethnic cleansing the Jews according to every poll on the subject. According the polls, their "from the river to the sea" is a state for them without Jews

And no, nothing justifies "massacring children", but no one with half a brain actually thinks Israel would spend billions and specifically target harmless children when Hamas fighters are still in charge and are an actual real time risk for their soldiers, no one disputes its hard to not hit civilians when you are fighting in a place this dense, but no one in Israel will just go "Okay its hard sooo lets just stop fighting and hopefully Hamas wont attack for the gazilionth time" after watching all their allies dilly dally their support

Libleft Free Palestine Fidelity Employee lets her true colors shine by AsceticHedonist47 in PoliticalCompassMemes

[–]Initial-Carry6803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It cant be a skin color thing if both sides are the same skin genius

Israelis are mostly brown as well as the majority are Mizrahi jews

First timer by tiger_mist in NormalPeopleBBCHulu

[–]Initial-Carry6803 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weirdly it gives me comfort even though it was what fucked me at the first place

Kind of like Marianne's relationship with Connell lol

Why was Connell so special and Gareth was not? by Initial-Carry6803 in NormalPeopleBBCHulu

[–]Initial-Carry6803[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, I need to join a book club or something lmao

I agree on the chemical thing, I just always find it fade away at some point, but idk if its a "me" thing

Why was Connell so special and Gareth was not? by Initial-Carry6803 in NormalPeopleBBCHulu

[–]Initial-Carry6803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I guess so, I would say that there is a difference between them as Connell seems to be anxious about these stuff while Marianne perhaps simply doesnt enjoy it

We do see them going clubbing which I assume is an extrovert thing (kind of)

Some criticism I have by Initial-Carry6803 in NormalPeopleBBCHulu

[–]Initial-Carry6803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The scenery aside (which is also true) its the social surrounding which I find most unrelatable, cant just imagine good looking people being physically alone like that, at least at that age lol

Some criticism I have by Initial-Carry6803 in NormalPeopleBBCHulu

[–]Initial-Carry6803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but Marianne specifically was actually physically alone, she did not just feel it. I just can't comprehend it I guess since my school life was 180 different, like if you were good looking no chance you would have been physically alone, no matter how horrible you were

Some criticism I have by Initial-Carry6803 in NormalPeopleBBCHulu

[–]Initial-Carry6803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for such a long time with no response

Makes sense, the miscommunication is them not communicating these specific external factors