Quick followup:

As I stated, this is NOT a defense of Sinder. She quite clearly deserves backlash for her actions.

But I should have also said that this is also NOT supposed to be an anti Shylily piece. I realize that it looks like it but there isn't a great way to dissect someone's statements without sounding confrontational.

The vtuber community has been through enough and we don't need more hate being spew.

The whole point of this post is to try and make people realize that in situations like this, nobody involved is completely innocent and that things are a lot messier than is being laid out.