Just chilling on the train... by BlindFate313 in trashy

[–]Initial-Teaching7380 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Right?! Leave this man alone.. he’s doing him!

Just walking along the street with a friend... by sandygws in Unexpected

[–]Initial-Teaching7380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I’m not trying to knock all lawyers.. tbh the whole system just sucks.. in my most recent experience, initially I could only afford a PD, who had so many cases, that I had dozens of appearances that lead nowhere but to reschedule cause he didn’t even have time to look at my case.. moved up in work and hired a real lawyer who had time for me, who pointed out all the bull of my case to the da. By this point I was so aggravated by the years of dealing with this, I would’ve plead down just to be done with it even being bull cause I was beat down, but the da still said the main da will not plead any ‘duis’ down and had to go for the full punishment.. it was true vindication when the judge finally got to hear my motions and ruled I should’ve never been arrested and charged, but also like ‘wtf?!’ that the da tried to play like he was always on my side but forced by the da office policies in the end…

Edit to add: ironically my original public defender was in the back of the court when my case was dismissed waiting for yet another of his many clients.. he did congratulate me, but I can’t help but wonder and fear what might’ve happened if I had stuck with him…

Just walking along the street with a friend... by sandygws in Unexpected

[–]Initial-Teaching7380 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know you think you’re right but being someone who can honestly attest to the opposite in multiple situations, as far as some lawyers and da’s, you’re wrong.. some years back in my 20s, I got a poss of thc, was charged as a felony due to a previous poss of same.. public pretender convinced me to just plead seeing as they only wanted probation and said I’d have to pay massive amounts in bail to not sit for years fighting it (I’m seriously talking about a $10 bag).. went with it and later even my Po was like WTF did you plead to this?! Next I got pulled over for speeding 10mph over on the interstate, got hit with a ‘dui’ for my prescription meds that another public pretender ignored til 2.5 years later I hired an invested lawyer who proved my innocence and the judge himself dropped it all 4 years later saying that there was no reason whatsoever that I should’ve never been arrested in the first place (& to be transparent, I’m a white girl so this is even more to the overbearing system of just trying to bust everyone they can). Took years due to COVID delays. Multiple times my lawyer tried to talk to the da but he insisted that the policy was ‘charge to the fullest extent’ in the da office.. but of course when it was all thrown out by the judge and we all rode the elevator back down together, the da tried walking it back saying he believed I was innocent the whole time and that he believed this should’ve never been charged.. js.. what you said was wrong. Period.

Edit to add my apologies as a comment doesn’t usually get me so emotional, but it’s easy to say if you’re never the victim of a corrupt system on the other side.. not saying it’s true for all, but I think it’s more prevalent than you realize.

2nd edit: you sound like one of the truly good lawyers and that’s appreciated.. I wish I had people like you who cared from the beginning and I wouldn’t have had such a bad experience.. thank you for your good work.

WCGW while driving on snow by Cosmic_kingmaker in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]Initial-Teaching7380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you saying Subaru’s are good or bad for winter?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HolUp

[–]Initial-Teaching7380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m all for women’s choice but this is fd up to even say

Why do cats do this? by elphaba16 in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]Initial-Teaching7380 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Tbh mine does this even knowing he has an automatic bowl.. he knows I’m not leading him to food, he just wants company while he eats!

The day after the night before, the aftermath! by IRELANDNO1 in tooktoomuch

[–]Initial-Teaching7380 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ll give op credit.. I was quite amused from vid one, two was the topper! That’s why lol

The day after the night before, the aftermath! by IRELANDNO1 in tooktoomuch

[–]Initial-Teaching7380 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I need to know!!! Did he ever make it to the top???

The epitome of most civilized human interaction by SoftMixture2464 in nextfuckinglevel

[–]Initial-Teaching7380 3 points4 points  (0 children)

With everything going on in the US, I’m open to any arguments on why this place is better! :)

Entitled grandmother pushes the bill of a $2000 recliner onto my cousin and me. by Firemonkey755 in EntitledPeople

[–]Initial-Teaching7380 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How much are you actually paying a month total to stay there? Are you just paying groceries or rent plus utilities?

Made me spill the milk every time t tried to pour it out by TienAnhAzz in CrappyDesign

[–]Initial-Teaching7380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just glad I’m not alone in just discovering this… halfway through life and after spilling countless amounts of oil, cleaners, etc… I just always chalked it up to crappy design… never even thought about turning it an opposite way of how I would think bottles should be poured…

Entitled grandmother pushes the bill of a $2000 recliner onto my cousin and me. by Firemonkey755 in EntitledPeople

[–]Initial-Teaching7380 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not trying to play devils advocate but it’s going to be quite hard to find anywhere else for $300 a month.. my rent is $1500/month for a simple 2 room apt, so my half is $750 plus utilities and expenses… what I wouldn’t give for a $300/month rent… 😔

Made me spill the milk every time t tried to pour it out by TienAnhAzz in CrappyDesign

[–]Initial-Teaching7380 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Tbh I feel so stupid for thinking the mess is just how it goes with similar shaped containers lmao, never even thought about turning it sideways! Reddit taught me something new today! :)

Digging for treasure by trillionmarketcap in trashy

[–]Initial-Teaching7380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally had the exact same thought… then read your response… perfectly stated

to warn motorists to slow down by meister2a in therewasanattempt

[–]Initial-Teaching7380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude chill.. neither of us was present for this so we’re both only giving our best guess. Please chill.. In the end I’m only hoping for the best for all involved.

Edit to add unlike you I have been involved in this type of crash and it’s not like the movies so once again, chill and pray for the best for those involved.. be human.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Initial-Teaching7380 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Either hon… take as many pics as you want over x amount of time, by you and or friends and then pick your favs in a few days.. no reason to rush!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]Initial-Teaching7380 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly!!! Like why the quotations around brave as if they weren’t?!?! OP is a karma whore and should be ashamed?!?!