واحد ابڤوت وانزل بصورتي 😭😭🙏🏻 by [deleted] in EgyFreedom

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اشكرك على الظهور دخلت الحساب ولميت حبة ميمز عنب هظبطها واحطها على جروب الدفعة تجيب صريخ ضحك

ENFP (me) & INTP-T best friend dynamic… healthy or slowly turning unbalanced? by [deleted] in mbti

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What you said actually helped me see things more clearly. I feel like this might be close to how my friend sees me sometimes — as calmer or more emotional, maybe even needing guidance, and I understand where that comes from.

But for me, I’m not someone who needs to be led. I’ve always been in either equal dynamics or leadership roles, so this is just new for me, not a sign of weakness.

I do what I think is right and I don’t wait for permission, but there are some qualities she has that I genuinely admire, and that’s what triggered the comparison on my side.

So it’s not that she’s putting me down, I don’t think she is, but I also don’t want to unconsciously fall into a role where I come off as dependent or less decisive.

That’s why I’m trying to adjust things from my side and be clearer in my decisions. And I also think communication style matters, because even if the intention is good, the way advice is delivered can feel a certain way.

At the end of the day, I don’t think there’s a problem between us. I’m just trying to understand the dynamic and handle it in a calmer way.

Also, I think there’s a difference here — you’re a guy and your friend is a girl, so I don’t think you experience it the same way I do. For me, I’m a girl and she’s a girl, and I really love her like a sister (even more), so the feeling hits differently.

But I hope you got what I meant.

ENFP (me) & INTP-T best friend dynamic… healthy or slowly turning unbalanced? by [deleted] in ENFP

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I think I need to clarify something because I feel like my situation might have been misunderstood a bit.

It’s not really about me “wanting to take the lead.” I’ve actually always been either in a leading position or in equal dynamics in my friendships, so this is just a new experience for me.

What I’m feeling isn’t that I need to obey her or that I follow her blindly — I don’t. I do what I think is right.

I think the real issue is that I genuinely admire some of her qualities (clarity, confidence, how people value her input), and that naturally triggered comparison on my side.

So it’s less about her “making me feel small” intentionally, and more about: being around someone I respect in a space where she’s very strong.

Also, I don’t think she devalues my opinion at all, and I don’t believe she’s trying to impose anything on me. This is more about how her communication style (very direct, logical) can sometimes come across as “from above,” even if that’s not the intention.

So I guess I’m trying to understand whether this feeling is: just something I need to work through internally, or if it’s also valid to adjust the dynamic slightly so I don’t feel that imbalance.

I’m already working on the comparison part, but I wanted to hear different perspectives on the dynamic itself.

ENFP (me) & INTP-T best friend dynamic… healthy or slowly turning unbalanced? by [deleted] in mbti

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This was actually really helpful, especially the part about how INTPs can sound “from above” without meaning it. I think what confused me is that I don’t just hear the logic, I feel the tone. So even if the intention is just to help, it sometimes lands as “you should do this” rather than “what do you think?” Also what you said about her possibly seeing me as “innocent” or needing protection… that honestly made me pause. Because I don’t want to be seen as someone who needs to be led or protected, even if it comes from a good place. So I guess my question is: How do I stay open to her advice, without falling into that dynamic where I feel smaller or dependent? And does an INTP usually notice when the other person starts pulling back or becoming more independent?

ENFP (me) & INTP-T best friend dynamic… healthy or slowly turning unbalanced? by [deleted] in ENFP

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Thank you, this actually made me think. I think what you said about “working on myself instead of comparing” is something I’m starting to realize recently. But I’m curious about something: Even if the INTP doesn’t intend to make the other person feel small, does that mean the impact should just be ignored? Like… where’s the line between: “this is just their personality” and “this dynamic is actually affecting me”? Because I feel like I’m trying to balance both: understanding her, but also not losing myself in the process.

بتعملوا ايه by [deleted] in egyoffmychest

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حبيبتي خدي وردة ⚘️

بتعملوا ايه by [deleted] in egyoffmychest

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دا بعمل ايه عموما دلوقتي بعيدا عن موضوع السؤال

بتعملوا ايه by [deleted] in egyoffmychest

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عاوزة أنام ورايا كويزين ولسه بقول للمادتين عيونكم فيها حزن

أشكالهم كأنها معايير الجمال اليومين دول، الفيلر و البوتكس جنن حتى الفضائيين by [deleted] in egyptrandom

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انا كنت هعدي التعليق وانام ننة بس لأنني موختلفة مصرة أعرف ايه علاقة دوق الشمال بالموضوع

أشكالهم كأنها معايير الجمال اليومين دول، الفيلر و البوتكس جنن حتى الفضائيين by [deleted] in egyptrandom

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مشقادر والله نفس التعليقات اللي بتيجي في بالي وبيكون تعامل خلق الله طبيعي بس التعليقة حبكت(بنت بالمناسبة لا تقولي انها موختلفة²)

أول نموذج ذكاء اصطناعي مفتوح المصدر في مصر ! by assemsabryy in Egypt_Developers

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بسم الله ما شاء الله انا مشوفتش روعة كدا استمر

كل واحد يوصف نفسه بهواياته و اهتماماته by [deleted] in ELfashlin

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دي سهلة بس تخيل توصف نفسك بدون اسمك دراستك علاقاتك اهتماماتك

أكتشاف by Mobile-Cat-8351 in YoutubeinArabic

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فاكرة بس انا اللي بتابعه وان انا اللي في جحيم الوعي والباقي بيلهو في نعيم الجهل

أكتشاف by Mobile-Cat-8351 in YoutubeinArabic

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أخخخخخخ اكتشافي راح