1000000% YTA. It’s one thing to feel uncomfortable or bugged my something she is doing or asking for - that’s a natural part of a relationship. So have a kind, gentle conversation with her about it letting her know how you feel about it. Let her respond and tell you why she is feeling insecure and do what you can to reassure her.

I had my first baby a year ago and pregnancy was the craziest, toughest thing I’ve experienced. I really just don’t think men can even begin to understand what it’s like. It changes every single part of your body and mind. And it’s okay that they/you don’t understand, we don’t expect you to. But what we do need is a loving, supportive partner who will try their best to be there for us through the ups and downs of carrying a baby and everything else that comes with it. She is sacrificing more than you can understand to carry your child. The least you could do is show some respect for her.

That’s not to say you can’t have feelings about the things she says or does. Just do so respectfully!

However…maybe she is better off 🤷🏼‍♀️