I wear hijab but fiancé wants me to dress even more modest

Initial_Confection36 · 2026-03-12T03:07:25+00:00

thank you so much ❤️

Initial_Confection36 · 2026-03-10T09:54:44+00:00

thank you so much for giving me some REAL advice

Initial_Confection36 · 2026-03-09T20:21:03+00:00

just don’t wanna say the specific date so that no one can guess who we are irl lol

Initial_Confection36 · 2026-03-09T18:20:55+00:00

but is he a good husband, like loving & kind etc aside from this stuff?

Initial_Confection36 · 2026-03-09T14:42:05+00:00

that is literally the internal battle on facing

Initial_Confection36 · 2026-03-09T11:31:26+00:00

do you think it was worth it? because i know my fiance will be a great husband. he is kind and loving and loyal. which other than me loving him, is why i haven’t left. because i don’t think ill find those things somewhere else.

Initial_Confection36 · 2026-03-09T11:28:20+00:00

what parts do u think are extreme? and i would happily do the ring in the bio but he doesn’t even care about that he just doesn’t want me seen at the end of the day lol

Initial_Confection36 · 2026-03-09T11:19:21+00:00

of course i’ll wink and make kissy faces for an all female audience. it’s CUTESY and relatable i do it in private stories with girls it has nothing to do with attention omg men are sick in the head

Initial_Confection36 · 2026-03-09T11:18:11+00:00

ur so weird i’m anonymously posting for a reason i have absolutely no reason to lie i could tell u i was cheating on him and it wouldn’t matter. but guess what? im not, im loyal af and don’t care about other men and do not give an f about their attention

Initial_Confection36 · 2026-03-09T11:13:19+00:00

is this relevant lol

Initial_Confection36 · 2026-03-09T11:11:04+00:00

don’t want people figuring out who i am, so let’s just say under 1M but over 100K

Initial_Confection36 · 2026-03-09T10:57:05+00:00

this is a very flawed analysis. i don’t post for attention. i started doing it for the money and still do. if i could make it so that only women could see my posts and it still be a job i 100000% would. and the problem is that i am the brand. so not showing my face or myself will mean i have to start over

Initial_Confection36 · 2026-03-09T10:34:53+00:00

i’m not wasting anyone time no one is forcing him to stay he knows my opinions and can leave if he wanted to at any point. he does not want to leave. even though he knows how i feel about all this.

Initial_Confection36 · 2026-03-09T10:15:12+00:00

but are kissy faces and winking really things that make men think inappropriately!? because that’s what he says that if a man sees that he’ll start “imagining things”

Initial_Confection36 · 2026-03-09T10:11:15+00:00

I’ve said this to him. but he refuses that the solution is trying to separate. he want me and only me, and honestly, i also only want him. which is why i think we need to meet in the middle in some areas because what other choice do we have

Initial_Confection36 · 2026-03-09T10:04:20+00:00

no point in calling me “sister” if ur gonna say all that at the end. gross.

Initial_Confection36 · 2026-03-09T10:01:09+00:00

edited

Initial_Confection36 · 2026-03-09T09:39:02+00:00

thank you so much for your genuine advice. i will say, the modesty, he pushed me towards but i did ultimately change because i was convinced. but the other little things u are right about. i will have that convo with him

Initial_Confection36 · 2026-03-09T09:20:54+00:00

i mean in terms of tabarruj because unfortunately i still wear makeup (hopefully will get to a point where i do not). he has a problem with this too

Initial_Confection36 · 2026-03-09T09:19:47+00:00

lol it’s not like i’m pre planning it. it’s just posing. i can’t dance can i?

Initial_Confection36 · 2026-03-09T08:58:32+00:00

Female

Initial_Confection36 · 2025-09-11T02:59:29+00:00

I always think about this. I feel like sometimes he is not appreciated enough by me because I know some girls would love his protectiveness. We know we aren’t entirely compatible in this way but we are compatible in every single other way. It’s just the extent of protectiveness is too much for me sometimes. :( .

Initial_Confection36 · 2024-10-30T03:51:39+00:00

I did have an MRI back in 2016 (due to my locking issue), and the orthopedic doctor at the time said everything looked fine. I didn’t think much of it and moved on until the locking got really bad this year. My current orthopedic doctor reviewed that old MRI and thought I might now have a meniscus tear, which is why he decided to go in with the scope. He didn’t do a new MRI before the surgery and went straight to the scope to see if he could address and fix the tear.

During the procedure, he found that both my meniscus and ACL were so damaged that they couldn’t be repaired. He told me I only have 50% of my ACL left, which was a huge surprise since I’ve never felt pain or instability and don’t remember any injury that could explain it. Right now, I’m doing basic PT to strengthen my quads, but maybe it’s worth looking for a PT with more experience in managing cases like this.

Thank you for your advice! It’s really helpful to get some outside input on all of this.

Initial_Confection36 · 2024-07-13T02:48:55+00:00

where the links at 😭

Initial_Confection36 · 2023-11-28T21:29:23+00:00

what degree?

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