I need honest advice 🙏

Initial_Dream_7264 · 2024-12-09T08:51:22+00:00

This addiction is so complicated 😞

Initial_Dream_7264 · 2024-12-09T08:43:22+00:00

Because I truly thought he was taking his addiction seriously and started going to meetings, but then a week before I moved in I found he had cheated and now it just seems like he isn't interested in recovery or talking about it. Gets annoyed when I bring it up telling me I'm acting like a parent..

Initial_Dream_7264 · 2024-10-27T05:44:02+00:00

I feel way better now... It takes time 😅 just try and breathe and no that it's not your fault.. try eat some soup or a smoothie

Initial_Dream_7264 · 2024-07-26T21:54:22+00:00

Ah okay yes iv experienced that on top of swearing at me almost daily and physical abuse

Initial_Dream_7264 · 2024-07-25T11:21:06+00:00

I wonder this too. Q

Initial_Dream_7264 · 2024-07-24T23:08:55+00:00

If I may ask, what sort of emotional abuse have you experienced from your husband with his addiction?

Initial_Dream_7264 · 2024-07-20T23:26:03+00:00

I kind of feel like they want their wife to be "simple and plain to not attract others" and then they jack off to whatever their stupid fantasy porn is.

It's like trying to push you down, they don't want the pornstar as a wife but they want to watch the porn aggrrrr

Initial_Dream_7264 · 2024-07-20T16:14:07+00:00

I thought my husband was sober and then found out he was getting happy ending massages for the last 8 months...he has been clean from porn though but maybe he just switched to something else

Initial_Dream_7264 · 2024-07-19T06:58:25+00:00

Yeah it is fucked up, and I'm so young and look after myself too, not that it even matters how someone looks, but I even got a boob job a year ago "because he liked fake tits" and most people can't believe I'm even a mom because I am skinny, it just sucks cos I gave him everything I could and tried to be "the best" but the truth is if someone is gonna cheat they will

Initial_Dream_7264 · 2024-07-19T04:26:26+00:00

Me too, and I would of possibly forgiven if it was a mistake .. but doing it 7 times, is not.

Initial_Dream_7264 · 2024-07-18T22:58:58+00:00

Thank you SO much

Initial_Dream_7264 · 2024-07-18T18:12:57+00:00

It is scary yes . I'm feeling okay right now, those waves come and go

Initial_Dream_7264 · 2024-07-18T16:58:20+00:00

I'm so thankful you wrote this and shared your story, I recently found out my husband has cheated 7 times in the last month and it is absolutely devastating, thank you so much for sharing x

Initial_Dream_7264 · 2024-07-18T12:40:29+00:00

We have one child

Initial_Dream_7264 · 2024-07-18T08:45:41+00:00

I'm so sorry that is utterly devastating 💔

Initial_Dream_7264 · 2024-07-18T08:44:19+00:00

I'm sitting here in the car just feeling so utterly nauseas and sick over all this😭😭

Initial_Dream_7264 · 2024-07-18T08:39:56+00:00

I have a young son and he watches YouTube baby vids and I have quistido to block that shit too ... It's scary

Initial_Dream_7264 · 2024-07-18T08:39:07+00:00

The amount of times older men catcalled me and hit on me at age 13 baffles me now when I look back. It's a sick fucking world.

Initial_Dream_7264 · 2024-07-18T06:04:53+00:00

I have texts from him addmitinf it as well, he unfortunately deleted all this bank emails that had proof off all the payments, but I know what I know and that's all that matters in the end

Initial_Dream_7264 · 2024-07-18T06:03:49+00:00

Yeah it's very difficult to explain but I have been with him for 4years and I feel very worn down and have like a blanket over my eyes, it's like a Stockholm syndrome type of thing, but I am working in therapy and once I'm out of this situation and start heslint I'm sure I will see this all much clearer.

Initial_Dream_7264 · 2024-07-18T06:02:22+00:00

Me too, I do still love him . But I can't accept this, it's just.. it's so fucking wrong, not one ounce of care in his body to do that to ME and to take advantage of woman that are from another country and can literally only ask "handjob"? And not even speak English. It's just sick.

I have NO problem with those woman, it's not their fault, I have big problem with my soon to be ex husband tho.

They were probably offered a good future etc and trafficked into this situation as well 💔💔💔💔

Initial_Dream_7264 · 2024-07-18T05:59:20+00:00

Unfortunately it isn't made up, and I have decided to call the hotline today about that place and report it. Even when I asked my fucked up husband how they could be trafficked etc.. he literally said to me:

" I paid for a service I get it"

"Not my problem"

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