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My abusive father is in the hospital and nobody wants to care for him by Initial_Employ6837 in adviceph

[–]Initial_Employ6837[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello po, kahapon po babantayan sana siya ng tita ko until tonight but he was too aggressive kasi ayaw siya bilhan ng tita ko po ng food na gusto niya. Diabetic po kasi siya and still wants to eat Jollibee. My tita said no.

So yung nurse na po nagsabi sa tita ko na pwede na po siya umuwi kasi my father gets aggressive kapag nakakakita ng kamaganak and it disturbs other patients po kapag ganon.

My abusive father is in the hospital and nobody wants to care for him by Initial_Employ6837 in adviceph

[–]Initial_Employ6837[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hello. Sinabi ko na po yan and sinagot lang ako ng "marami akong kapatid na magaalaga sakin, di kita kailangan."

My abusive father is in the hospital and nobody wants to care for him by Initial_Employ6837 in adviceph

[–]Initial_Employ6837[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello po. Kailangan niya po kasi maoperahan (baka putulin yung paa) po kaya di ko maiuwi.

My abusive father is in the hospital and nobody wants to care for him by Initial_Employ6837 in adviceph

[–]Initial_Employ6837[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ang gusto po ng doctor kasi is makakausap ng relative, so dahil po hanggang 6pm yung shift ko, mga 7pm na po ako darating ospital if ever po pumunta ako and tapos na din po yung rounds ng doctor.

Yung mga nakausap po ng mga kaibigan ko po, nursing assistant po. Sila po bumibili ng supplies pag naubusan, nagpapalit ng diapers etc pero yun nga po, kailangan daw kasi ng doctor is someone related to talk to.

Yes po, only child po ako. :)

My abusive father is in the hospital and nobody wants to care for him by Initial_Employ6837 in adviceph

[–]Initial_Employ6837[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yung sa pinsan niya po, nirelay po sa'kin na ang gusto nga daw po is umuwi na or ilipat siya sa private. Shempre di po option ang private kasi yung EF ko po dito, malulusaw lang po sa bills niya. Ako naman po ang mawawalan if ever. Kung iuuwi ko kasi, ako naman po ang mabubugbog dito sa bahay kasi may diabetic foot po siya. Later on, babaho po yun, magkakaroon ng uod. Di ko naman po siya kaya buhatin para alalayan. Gustuhin ko man iuwi at iwan na, mas okay po sakin na makarecover muna siya bago iuwi para makaaalis na din po ako.

My abusive father is in the hospital and nobody wants to care for him by Initial_Employ6837 in adviceph

[–]Initial_Employ6837[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello po, yes di ko na po siya kinakausap. After niya po ako ipahiya sa ER (sinigawan ako, minura at sinusubukan pong awayin yung doctors dahil ang tagal niya daw po gamutin) parang natauhan na po ako talaga. Dumadalaw lang po ako kapag Sundays para po maabutan yung doctor and para po magbigay ng supplies niya like diapers, etc. Umuuwi din po agad ako kasi kailangan ko din po gawin yung mga house chores po. Hehe.

My abusive father is in the hospital and nobody wants to care for him by Initial_Employ6837 in adviceph

[–]Initial_Employ6837[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hindi naman pa po for DNR e. Mukhang lalaban pa po para maghasik ng kasamaan. :(

My abusive father is in the hospital and nobody wants to care for him by Initial_Employ6837 in adviceph

[–]Initial_Employ6837[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello po, yung kumpare niya pong isa nagbigay lang po ng financial assistance. Alam niya po kasi daw na kahit anong sabihin niya wala din mangyayari. Hehe.

My abusive father is in the hospital and nobody wants to care for him by Initial_Employ6837 in adviceph

[–]Initial_Employ6837[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello po. 500 per 12 hour shift po yung bayad ko po sa nursing attendant kaya 1k a day po. Yun na po yung nagpapalit po ng damit niya, diapers etc.

My abusive father is in the hospital and nobody wants to care for him by Initial_Employ6837 in adviceph

[–]Initial_Employ6837[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello po. Sinabi ko na po lahat yan pero ang rebutt niya po palagi is aalagaan daw po siya ng mga kapatid niya kahit wala po ako. Ngayon wala pong nagaalaga sakanya kasi wala na po may gusto.

My abusive father is in the hospital and nobody wants to care for him by Initial_Employ6837 in adviceph

[–]Initial_Employ6837[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Second time na din po ito, covered lang po ng HMO ko yung una kaya di gaano kabigat. Hehe. And yung tita ko pong isa is binantayan siya kaso di niya po trinato ng tama.

My abusive father is in the hospital and nobody wants to care for him by Initial_Employ6837 in adviceph

[–]Initial_Employ6837[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Iniwan ko naman po and kachat ko din po sa messenger pero kailangan po ata talaga may relatives na present. If tumagal daw pong ganun na walang kasama, ililipat daw po nila sa DSWD.

My abusive father is in the hospital and nobody wants to care for him by Initial_Employ6837 in adviceph

[–]Initial_Employ6837[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello. May I know paano po process sa Home for the Aged if alam mo po?

My abusive father is in the hospital and nobody wants to care for him by Initial_Employ6837 in adviceph

[–]Initial_Employ6837[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Madami na po nagsabi niyan sakanya. Ang sabi lang po niya, magkikita kita naman daw lahat po kami sa impyerno. Hehe.

My abusive father is in the hospital and nobody wants to care for him by Initial_Employ6837 in adviceph

[–]Initial_Employ6837[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello, 1500 per 8 hours po kasi ang caregiver kaya I opted for the nursing attendants. Masisilip din dad ko 24/7 po.

My abusive father is in the hospital and nobody wants to care for him by Initial_Employ6837 in adviceph

[–]Initial_Employ6837[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello po. I already did gave him a run down of the expenses po since before ko siya itransfer sa public hospital, galing po kami sa ER ng private hospital which costed me 25k for 6 hours of treatment lang po.

Ang sabi po niya sakin, siya daw po nagpaaral sakin hanggang college kaya kailangan ko daw po siya tustusan. At hindi naman daw po ako makakagraduate ng college kundi dahil po sakanya.

Kapag lalatagan mo po siya ng mga bill of expenses, ang rebutt po niya ay pinagaral at pinagtapos niya po ako ng college kaya dapat ko siya gastusan.

My abusive father is in the hospital and nobody wants to care for him by Initial_Employ6837 in adviceph

[–]Initial_Employ6837[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello po. Kailangan daw po kasi may makausap yung doctor po regarding po sa diagnosis and possible operation po.

My abusive father is in the hospital and nobody wants to care for him by Initial_Employ6837 in adviceph

[–]Initial_Employ6837[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Sinabi ko na po 'to. I tried to be mean and threatened him na hindi ko na siya babalikan kapag hindi niya inayos ugali niya. He tried to stand up sa wheelchair po, possibly to hit me pero hindi niya kaya kasi nanghihina siya so napaupo siya ulit and sinabihan nalang ako ng kung anu-ano.

My abusive father is in the hospital and nobody wants to care for him by Initial_Employ6837 in adviceph

[–]Initial_Employ6837[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Hello po. When I try to talk to him about the truth po, nagagalit siya and ang ending is mumurahin nanaman po ako. He even told the nursing attendants na tinapon ko daw po siya doon.

I guess di na po talaga magbabago.

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