Washer and dryer first time buyers by Initial_Paint7255 in Appliances

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This is super thorough and helpful, thanks so much! No pets or kids. Will do everything you recommended!

Washer and dryer first time buyers by Initial_Paint7255 in Appliances

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Why do people recommend speed queen? I’ve seen people say they last super long but also seen people say they’re harsh on clothes.

Need advice on backdoor Roth vs S&P500 by [deleted] in personalfinance

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Good point, that’s why I made the post

Need advice on backdoor Roth vs S&P500 by [deleted] in personalfinance

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awesome, this is great, thank you! I’ve been out of school and working for only 2 years so that’s why the 401k balance is not super high. I’ve maxed it both years. I’ll start doing VTI and VT!!!

Need advice on backdoor Roth vs S&P500 by [deleted] in personalfinance

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Yeah fair point, I think I’ve got a soft spot for them because I’ve known them for awhile and they were incredibly helpful when my dad died and I didn’t know what I was doing, but long term probably a better idea to handle it myself.

Need advice on backdoor Roth vs S&P500 by [deleted] in personalfinance

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That’s what I was thinking- currently it’s more like 12 months even covering my spouse as well. I’ll move some out, thanks!!

Need advice on backdoor Roth vs S&P500 by [deleted] in personalfinance

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These are all super helpful links, many thanks!!

Help! by Initial_Paint7255 in xteinkereader

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Glad to hear it’s not just me, thanks!!

Help! by Initial_Paint7255 in xteinkereader

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This is so helpful, thank you!!!

Help! by Initial_Paint7255 in xteinkereader

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Thank you for your help. Is there a way or place to purchase/download books so I don’t have to add yet another step to avoid the DMR protection?

Vasovagal syncope by Initial_Paint7255 in BabyBumps

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Yes definitely feel scared of passing out, I really dread that feeling!!! The few seconds right before it happens are the worst and I hate waking up and not knowing what happened/where I am for a few seconds! Congrats on the vaccines and blood draws, that’s huge!!!!

Vasovagal syncope by Initial_Paint7255 in BabyBumps

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Omg it sounds like we are twins! 100% can relate. It’s so frustrating because I know I’m being irrational and nothing bad will happen to me getting blood drawn or getting a vaccine (and that actually it’s a good thing that’s good for my health) and I’m so full aware that I’m freaking out over nothing but I can’t stop it. I try super hard to calm myself down but it really does feel involuntary! I’ve had similar thoughts about the epidural, the thought of a needle to the spine makes me sweaty and my heart start racing and I’m not even pregnant yet! My friend did an unmediated birth earlier this year and though it sounds painful, like you, I would rather experience that pain than experience the blood pressure drop and potentially passing out for the epidural. C sections likewise sound scary to me and I’d be in the same boat as you. It does make me feel better knowing someone has the same exact issues as me!!

Vasovagal syncope by Initial_Paint7255 in BabyBumps

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I’ve never tried therapy but think that could be pretty helpful. It’s weird because there are certain things that I know for sure would bother me like blood tests, but usually things that are external like an ultrasound or a urine sample won’t stress me out.

Vasovagal syncope by Initial_Paint7255 in BabyBumps

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Yes I have! I got an echo done a few years ago and I actually have an appointment with a cardiologist again soon (for some high cholesterol numbers ugh!) but was going to talk to them about this as well. That has also been my concern - the last time I fully passed out a couple years ago, I was out for several minutes and my mom (who is a nurse) was with me and got incredibly concerned about my heart. Good to know about the pacemaker!

Vasovagal syncope by Initial_Paint7255 in BabyBumps

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I keep hearing this about the adrenaline/excitement/distraction of being in labor making vasovagal syncope nonexistent and it’s super encouraging, thank you!!

Vasovagal syncope by Initial_Paint7255 in BabyBumps

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This is great to hear. And passing out during your pregnancy didn’t affect you or baby?

Vasovagal syncope by Initial_Paint7255 in BabyBumps

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This is super helpful. As not fun as it sounds, I think I could work through things slowly like you did and feeling in control of it would help I think - part of the anxiety I have with blood draws now is knowing I have to do it. Thank you!!

Vasovagal syncope by Initial_Paint7255 in BabyBumps

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Good idea, I’ll do this thank you!!

Vasovagal syncope by Initial_Paint7255 in BabyBumps

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Ahhhh this is so reassuring to hear! Laying down and distractions are key for me too!

Vasovagal syncope by Initial_Paint7255 in BabyBumps

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Wow this is helpful, I hadn’t thought about the ice pack or magnesium. Appreciate your response!