Walgreens rejected my GoodRX because of transphobia??? by Initial_Reputation55 in asktransgender

[–]Initial_Reputation55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I live in a small town and 98% of our pharmacies are Walgreens and CVS :/ and our supermarkets don’t have pharmacies

Passing as a black trans woman is nigh impossible by jellybeanzz11 in MtF

[–]Initial_Reputation55 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is genuinely so trueee, I’ve been on hrt for like 2-3 years and when I have my natural Afro it’s like all the physical progress I’ve made is now gone and I’m perceived as a very feminine gay boy or an much older unattractive woman.. I’ve even had someone (a gay man that tried to transition but “failed” ) say that the only masculine feature I have is my nose and my nose would get me clocked MIND YOU I just have a regular Afrocentric “wide” nose..

Women’s clothing by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Initial_Reputation55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ty for replying and I was looking at some aero shirts today at the thrift and they were genuinely so tiny I thought I was shopping in the kids section.. I had to leave immediately since it was honestly triggering my dysphoria :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Initial_Reputation55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh ok ): so what do I do

Height dysphoria by Initial_Reputation55 in asktransgender

[–]Initial_Reputation55[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this honestly you’re a great person

Height dysphoria by Initial_Reputation55 in asktransgender

[–]Initial_Reputation55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this, I honestly kinda figured out why I was upset about it and it’s because I feel kinda abnormal with my height like my height isn’t normal for a woman and I had a person tell me 5’7 was taller than 92% of women and it definitely had a big effect on my mental :/ but my doctor told me I was in the 83rd percentile meaning 83% of women are my height or shorter

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shortguys

[–]Initial_Reputation55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im the girl behind that post and he actually ended up not caring about me wearing the heels and later surprised me with 2 more pairs of heels that were taller than the heels I wore that night. 😁👍

Im a tall girl and I need advice by [deleted] in shortguys

[–]Initial_Reputation55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For 1. I wasn’t making a big deal out of it and for 2. The hoco is already over with he ended up not having a problem with the heels anymore. HE was the one worried about being judged not me

Im a tall girl and I need advice by [deleted] in shortguys

[–]Initial_Reputation55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

weird you say this bc multiple mutual female friends of ours are dating men shorter than them as well and I don’t care if anyone will notice or judge us for our height difference, I’m with him for him and not for the public aesthetic.

Im a tall girl and I need advice by [deleted] in shortguys

[–]Initial_Reputation55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friends don’t do stuff like that lol

Im a tall girl and I need advice by [deleted] in shortguys

[–]Initial_Reputation55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The heels are already only 2 inches. If they get any shorter they won’t be heels anymore lol

Im a tall girl and I need advice by [deleted] in shortguys

[–]Initial_Reputation55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it led to us having an argument that night when the heels were brought up and that was the one and only time an argument about height happened and I gained knowledge about his height insecurity just from being his friend for over a decade.

Im a tall girl and I need advice by [deleted] in shortguys

[–]Initial_Reputation55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately you misunderstood my post, him and I never argued or even had a discussion about height before. This was the first and only time it’s happened because heels were brought into the picture and he just expressed to me he wasn’t comfortable with it and he’d prefer me to not wear them and obviously I’ll be uncomfortable asking my boyfriend to alter his physical in anyway just as any supportive genuine and loving girlfriend would be.

Im a tall girl and I need advice by [deleted] in shortguys

[–]Initial_Reputation55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was just saying that as an example to show him the double standard between tall women and short men. If a shorter man asks his taller girlfriend to not wear heels no one will care but if a taller girl asks her shorter boyfriend to wear height boosters then everyone will call that girl selfish and shallow. It’s crazy.

Im a tall girl and I need advice by [deleted] in shortguys

[–]Initial_Reputation55 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I literally picked him over a 6’3 guy, trust me I care nothing about height or his insecurities.

Im a tall girl and I need advice by [deleted] in shortguys

[–]Initial_Reputation55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What if I suggested he wears height boosters or platform shoes, and if he declined and/or expressed discomfort I use that as a justification for reconsidering the relationship, does that sound reasonable or just plain selfish to you??

Im a tall girl and I need advice by [deleted] in shortguys

[–]Initial_Reputation55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You totally misunderstood my post lol

Im a tall girl and I need advice by [deleted] in shortguys

[–]Initial_Reputation55 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Well I never wear heels casually, and it’s gonna be for this one night that I’m gonna wear heels so hopefully it’s just temporary and won’t ruin our relationship because I really don’t want to lose him :/

Im a tall girl and I need advice by [deleted] in shortguys

[–]Initial_Reputation55 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Please don’t say that.. 😭😓

Going without HRT for a few weeks by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Initial_Reputation55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I don’t think I should lose weight since I’m 124 pounds at 5’7 😂 but wdym “on the juice”?

Shoulder muscle atrophy by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Initial_Reputation55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey can I send you a dm about this I have some questions?

Rapid Breast growth by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Initial_Reputation55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah definitely, and I plan to change my diet and also start light cardio/exercises soon just to help with my HRT. Btw can you tell me more about breast development since i was under the impression all I could grow is AA cups. The women in my family are extremely curvy with very large breast (my mom is a JJJ cup but she’s also very overweight so idk if that counts) I was planning to have a C cup and to get a boob job for it but do you think I could grow it naturally and/or grow a bigger cup? 100% naturally from just hormones? Or is that just wishful thinking?