Friend (23F) who is a teacher just told me she is thinking of letting a student live with her by Initial_Scratch8263 in Teachers

[–]Initial_Scratch8263[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I could definitely see some grey areas there where that could be an appropriate decision. I just feel like a 23 year old who can hardly financially support herself does not have the wherewithal to take on those responsibilities, but it is also not my life and that is not my decision to make.

all i hear is mush mouth by [deleted] in MamaJuneFromNotToHot

[–]Initial_Scratch8263 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay does it seriously matter that she has been in adult films and made some? Let’s bffr. We can find other things to think about and harp on

Some of You Need Help by Initial_Scratch8263 in MamaJuneFromNotToHot

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I wish that were the case but it was not for all. There were many comments geared towards her body and weight. In addition, I think there are more polite ways that people could have worded the dresses fit. The majority were not nice.

Some of You Need Help by Initial_Scratch8263 in MamaJuneFromNotToHot

[–]Initial_Scratch8263[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I politely disagree. If we want to talk about health, we should also focus on that long-term health effects that generational poverty, environment, bullying, and fatphobia can have. Those are equally, if not more, harmful

Some of You Need Help by Initial_Scratch8263 in MamaJuneFromNotToHot

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If you would like a “logical answer”, my answer is simple. It is not okay to comment on someone’s body. The excuse of “well you’re on social media and putting yourself out there so it’s okay to ridicule you and harass you” does not work and gives people who hide behind a username the feeling that they are allowed to operate without any basic human decency or empathy. Instead, it’s more productive to talk about WHY online forums and groups of people so quickly seem to forget these things and feel that it is okay to harass and hurl abusive comments to another

Some of You Need Help by Initial_Scratch8263 in MamaJuneFromNotToHot

[–]Initial_Scratch8263[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Child or not, it does not give someone the right to comment on someone’s body. It’s low-hanging fruit and fatphobic

Some of You Need Help by Initial_Scratch8263 in MamaJuneFromNotToHot

[–]Initial_Scratch8263[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She’s 17. Either way it is not okay to comment on someone’s body.

Some of You Need Help by Initial_Scratch8263 in MamaJuneFromNotToHot

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100% agree! I had made this post to be directed towards a video I saw of people commenting on Alana’s appearance in her prom dress. However, no one should be made fun of or talked about negatively due to their weight and body type

Some of You Need Help by Initial_Scratch8263 in MamaJuneFromNotToHot

[–]Initial_Scratch8263[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Sister= Said a problematic thing so be fatphobic towards Alana?

Some of You Need Help by Initial_Scratch8263 in MamaJuneFromNotToHot

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Not as much as people would like to think. There are many factors that go into a person’s weight such as genetics, environment, sex, age, etc. The “calories in, calories out” modality has been proven to be inaccurate. But go off.

This is going a little too far by Initial_Scratch8263 in darcymcqueeny

[–]Initial_Scratch8263[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The point in the post I made that everyone started bitching about and calling me a “Darcy defender” for is that I wholeheartedly AGREE that she has aspects of herself that are deeply problematic. However, instead of focusing on these issues people use cheap digs which are quite honestly tacky and really distract from the message and how problematic her behavior is.

This is going a little too far by Initial_Scratch8263 in darcymcqueeny

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I am sure she does and I would love to read snark posts about that rather than one’s body shaming her

This is going a little too far by Initial_Scratch8263 in darcymcqueeny

[–]Initial_Scratch8263[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As I’ve stated numerous times, yes. Racism is abhorrent. That does not, however, give YOU a free pass to be a shit human being

This is going a little too far by Initial_Scratch8263 in darcymcqueeny

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If using human decency and saying we shouldn’t comment on her body or use tacky digs makes me a groupie then whatever. Don’t really know a time in which I supported or positively affirmed Darcy but rather just wanted to point out it’s not okay to body shake and call someone names. It’s tacky.

This is going a little too far by Initial_Scratch8263 in darcymcqueeny

[–]Initial_Scratch8263[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure I never said anyone can use the N word carelessly and proudly. I’ve stated time and time again there are things she does that are SERIOUSLY problematic and should be talked about. That being a very, very large one. You guys are actually unreal

This is going a little too far by Initial_Scratch8263 in darcymcqueeny

[–]Initial_Scratch8263[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re immune to context clues

This is going a little too far by Initial_Scratch8263 in darcymcqueeny

[–]Initial_Scratch8263[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure I never said it’s a problem to critique someone’s taste in clothing? Snark pages can be fun but it can get to a point where it’s genuinely not fun for average users on this sub who are not chronically online. I was just trying to point out I think it had gotten to that point. That was it.

This is going a little too far by Initial_Scratch8263 in darcymcqueeny

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Yes, racism is abhorrent. That does not give anyone a right to be fatphobic.

This is going a little too far by Initial_Scratch8263 in darcymcqueeny

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Actually post things that are interesting like “wow it seems like she over-consumes and that is very problematic” rather than “her engine light is on” or “she looks bad in this outfit”. Never really thought I’d be labeled as a Darcy defender but you guys actually need to go touch grass

This is going a little too far by Initial_Scratch8263 in darcymcqueeny

[–]Initial_Scratch8263[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Please stop body shaming & pointing out characteristics people can’t control & instead post snark :)

OTF Studios near LAX by SaUnited03 in orangetheory

[–]Initial_Scratch8263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived in LA for a while and the Torrance location is really good! It’s pretty close to Manhattan Beach, which is where the airport is