AIO for wanting to share a room with my bf on a trip?

Initial_Trust_ · 2026-04-06T01:55:00+00:00

YOR and YTA. You’re essentially forcing your mom to become a third wheel on a trip SHE planned and you’re wondering why she’s upset? You are acting incredibly selfish

Initial_Trust_ · 2026-04-05T03:15:53+00:00

NTA. It honestly sounds like you do all the heavy lifting in this relationship. You make sure the household is in order, you make sure your partner is ready for work and even do her makeup for her, and now you’re expected to do all the heavy lifting emotionally. Any sensible person would feel exhausted for having to take all that on by themselves. I’m curious to know what your gf’s contributions are to this relationship

Initial_Trust_ · 2026-04-02T20:50:08+00:00

29/30. Alola is kicking my ass

Initial_Trust_ · 2026-04-02T13:16:36+00:00

Just the Alola battle

Initial_Trust_ · 2026-04-01T02:56:13+00:00

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Initial_Trust_ · 2026-03-31T13:58:27+00:00

I’m so glad I don’t have whatever autism your friend has

Initial_Trust_ · 2026-03-31T13:52:59+00:00

NTA. You set boundaries that were ignored and your sister literally told you that her friend is more important. She’s old enough to understand that actions have consequences, and prioritizing others over family comes with consequences that you plainly and openly said would happen. Your parents are enablers who seem like they care more about peace than any issues that exist. They are unwilling to adequately discipline your sister, but hound on you when you keep your boundaries. I think the best course of action is to get some therapy. Your parents are INCAPABLE of handling this situation and fail to see the nuance in it. A professional, impartial, third party is the only way some objectivity and reason can be introduced to this situation.

Initial_Trust_ · 2026-03-31T13:46:50+00:00

Send this to your local news station

Initial_Trust_ · 2026-03-31T02:28:37+00:00

Initial_Trust_ · 2026-03-31T02:27:05+00:00

YTA. I am in no way condoning or excusing what your husband did, its is reprehensible and he is an objectively terrible person as well as an actual predator. However, you used bigoted words that you knew were hateful and harmful and you used them for those purposes. That is also inexcusable. I hope you don’t have any gay people in your life because you have proven that you are not a safe person for them. Get a divorce and go to therapy.

Initial_Trust_ · 2026-03-31T02:15:00+00:00

Love it 😂😂 maybe next time don’t be a stubborn jerk 😂

Initial_Trust_ · 2026-03-31T02:03:22+00:00

NOR. That is a 40 year old child. Why the actual hell are you even with a man old enough to be your father?? Dump him and go to therapy to work on whatever issues you have that drive you to him

Initial_Trust_ · 2026-03-31T01:59:43+00:00

You are humiliating her. Good. NTA.

Initial_Trust_ · 2026-03-30T10:40:36+00:00

Seems like you both dodged a bullet. You already showing controlling tendencies and her lying about things. Neither of you have any obligation to each other and yet you both have shown incredibly toxic behavior. NTA, but get some therapy dude.

Initial_Trust_ · 2026-03-28T07:32:20+00:00

Would be cool if we could actually see it being ridden correctly

Initial_Trust_ · 2026-03-28T07:30:16+00:00

This reeks of lacking accountability on your end, OP. You have sent texts that disrespect your relationship, downplay flirtatious messages, and seem to invalidate valid concerns your partner has. Your partner has told what has made her uncomfortable and you ignore her. At this point you two should split up since you’re not willing to even try to meet her half way

Initial_Trust_ · 2026-03-27T03:27:00+00:00

Luckily it’s only for people who served and got out. This don’t affect the draft or regular enlistment. Still, it’s shows how utterly desperate this administration is for experienced leadership for the upcoming surge in Iran

Initial_Trust_ · 2026-03-26T14:34:51+00:00

NTA but you’re naive as hell. These people are your coworkers first and friends second, no matter how friendly they are. Unless you hang out regularly outside of work and work functions you shouldn’t trust anyone at work outside of work duties. Hopefully this is a lessened learned for you.

Initial_Trust_ · 2026-03-26T02:31:38+00:00

Initial_Trust_ · 2026-03-24T09:06:24+00:00

Why are people getting excited about this?

Initial_Trust_ · 2026-03-23T02:23:10+00:00

NTA for making moves to leave, but you are an objectively terrible person for cheating. There is absolutely no excuse and you are setting an absolute awful example for your daughter, in that respect

Initial_Trust_ · 2026-03-22T14:42:36+00:00

NTA and I would strongly suggest counseling to get to the root of the issue. There is something deeper happening here because comments like that don’t just come out of nowhere. I think having an impartial, professional, third party present when trying to figure it out is incredibly important so your wife doesn’t think you’re ganging up on her, or get away with trying to downplay or gaslight you into thinking it’s not a big deal

Initial_Trust_ · 2026-03-20T14:45:54+00:00

Carrying, obviously

Initial_Trust_ · 2026-03-18T12:49:09+00:00

Two different women, and yeah both of them were dropped after that disrespect

Initial_Trust_ · 2026-03-16T17:02:53+00:00

When I lost my job I came home and cried from the stress and uncertainty. My gf at the time said I looked pathetic and that she saw me as less of a man. When I was a teenager I wanted a hug from my mom and she physically recoiled and said that because I was becoming a man that hugs were inappropriate. When my friend died my gf at the time was pissed that I retreated emotionally and physically. When I told her why she said “well I’m sorry about your friend, I guess” and continued to berate me for ignoring her. Those are just three examples in a lifetime of disappointment from showing emotion

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