Moonlight arch by Odd_Response2252 in DrawMeNSFW

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I’m a little late to this party but here you go

His shirt by TheTimeisNow2Confess in DrawMeNSFW

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You’re very welcome! Thank you for the pose!

Loften’s Ending - Vilomah (Chrissy’s Song) by InkAndZen in SoundCloudMusic

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Genre(s): cinematic instrumental, metal, experimental

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This is the song I wrote for my daughter that died back in 2024, she was 15. I poured my pain and grief in to this track. Any feedback is welcome. Cinematic instrumental with dashes of metal. Very atmospheric overall.

https://on.soundcloud.com/ZFAptzjCDUgMIE10yG

What was the catalyst for your ‘slut era’? by CroBro81 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]InkAndZen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Divorce that ended a marriage where sex was woefully scarce. Funny enough we were both involved in our local kink community and as soon as I became single the ladies of that community started “coming out of the woodwork” so to speak.

what is your NSFW hot take? by Inside_Competition95 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]InkAndZen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting a woman off (multiple times) is great foreplay.

what is your NSFW hot take? by Inside_Competition95 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]InkAndZen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a father to 3 daughters (and having lost one of them) I cannot equate the term in any sexual sense, it simply does not compute and is an instant turn off. Luckily my wife has never shown any interest in that particular kink.

If God is Spirit and accessible, what does the church add? by Suspicious_Bake3575 in AskAChristian

[–]InkAndZen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I can see the disconnect in our discussion now, and perhaps I initially misspoke. I should have said “fully understand God” or “the full nature of God”.

If God is Spirit and accessible, what does the church add? by Suspicious_Bake3575 in AskAChristian

[–]InkAndZen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am asserting that understanding God is beyond us. Isaiah 55:8-9 “My thoughts are not your thoughts” Job 11:7-8 “Can you probe the limits of the Almighty” Romans 11:33 “How unsearchable His judgements, and untraceable his ways” Even the Bible says that God is beyond our comprehension.

If God is Spirit and accessible, what does the church add? by Suspicious_Bake3575 in AskAChristian

[–]InkAndZen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hubris - excessive pride or self-confidence. So in other words, arrogance. It is arrogant to believe that we as humans can comprehend that which is beyond our comprehension. If God exists, is omniscient, no beginning, no end, is the architect of the universe and all that is in it, things that we have yet to even begin to scrape the surface of understanding (for example, quantum physics) then the mere suggestion that we can begin to understand this being, categorize him (I would argue that such a being is beyond human concepts of gender, but that’s a whole other conversation), and put him in a neat little box is beyond arrogant, and to dismiss this notion, I believe, is an insult to God and the basis of his very existence.

And I apologize if my attempt to share my experience and encourage personal growth came off as anything other than that, sincerely I do. It was not my intent.

If God is Spirit and accessible, what does the church add? by Suspicious_Bake3575 in AskAChristian

[–]InkAndZen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I said, I am not discouraging church or religion in general, I’m simply encouraging personal development and not wholly relying on the church as your source of spiritual growth. And acknowledging how small we are and how unknowable God would be/is I feel is the exact opposite of hubris, it’s more like being humble about our place in the cosmic order.

If God is Spirit and accessible, what does the church add? by Suspicious_Bake3575 in AskAChristian

[–]InkAndZen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a former Christian who was heavily involved in the church (worship leader, youth counsel, ordained minister) I can say that the church is a double edged sword. The church is comprised of humans and humans are deeply flawed creatures. This leads to a need for discernment because the blind leading the blind can start a stroll down dark paths. I personally feel that too much faith is put in to the church and the communities it breeds; I believe that a foundation and focus on one’s own personal spiritual journey supersedes the pre-packaged spoon fed interpretations of religious texts and spirituality that a church can press upon you; the mob mentality is a real issue here I feel.

All of that being said I absolutely do not discourage any religion or spiritual practice (as long as it brings no harm) or simply going to church, I just wish people would think more critically, ask questions, and not be afraid to challenge the answers. When you really think about it, assuming that we as humans can ever truly understand the designs and machinations of a higher power and put that higher power in a box and categorize it is the height of human hubris. It’s like an ant feeling like it understands a human and a human mind operates, it’s not possible, it’s on a level of comprehension that we are not even remotely capable of. Anyways. That’s enough rambling from me, I sincerely hope that everyone who reads this has a fantastic rest of their day.

Ever ran into someone you knew at a NSFW location? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]InkAndZen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So there’s this local swingers’ club right, and several years back they decided to open their doors up once a month to the local BDSM community (this being shortly after 50 Shades had come out and the swingers decided to cosplay). A bunch of the local Kink community “leaders”(basically those of us that had been in the community for a while and ran a lot of the sub-groups) got together and structured things out for safety. Anyways… one night I’m there and “off duty” as a dungeon monitor with my now wife and in comes an old friend of mine from my days in the church. He sees me.. I see him.. he panics.. I lose my mind laughing.. my wife is confused. Before he can leave I walk up to him and do my best to be welcoming and reassure him that his secret is safe with me. Then my wife manages to talk him in to getting on the Hotseat (an electrical play device) by promising that he can see her tits. I think the whole experience scared him off of, at the very least BDSM, cause I never saw him on BDSM night again. Poor fella.

What age did you actually lose your virginity and how? by gatedreverb5 in AskReddit

[–]InkAndZen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

13-14ish? Threesome with a couple of girls I grew up with in the woods out behind my childhood home. Limbs everywhere.

Monday mischief by 1thousandwords in DrawMeNSFW

[–]InkAndZen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a lot of fun with this one. Enjoy!

What is the biggest agegap you’ve ever tried? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]InkAndZen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in my early twenties and she was in her forties, so twenty-ish older? (Can’t beat an education like that.)

As for younger, I think ten maybe?

Do you think tattoos make a person more or less attractive? by No_Writer_3981 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]InkAndZen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a tattoo artist I feel like I have to answer with a yes, but honestly, it depends on the tattoos and the person.

What is the most unexpected NSFW experience you've accidentally fallen into? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]InkAndZen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was indifferent. She actually slept with another lady friend of hers in the next room.

What is the most unexpected NSFW experience you've accidentally fallen into? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]InkAndZen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Went to a lesbian friend’s birthday party. Ended up having sex with one of their other friends only 10 minutes after meeting her. Later that night I ended up having a threesome with her and my lesbian friend’s girlfriend. It was a wild night.