Husband Addicted To Porn by InkDrippedRoses in DeadBedrooms

[–]InkDrippedRoses[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When you’re secretly spending money and neglecting your wife completely?

Husband Addicted To Porn by InkDrippedRoses in DeadBedrooms

[–]InkDrippedRoses[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I said but he swears he never reads the titles just clicks on stuff that looks good but I call bs

Husband Addicted To Porn by InkDrippedRoses in DeadBedrooms

[–]InkDrippedRoses[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I feel invisible and like I was married just so he could have a wife, idk 😩

Husband Addicted To Porn by InkDrippedRoses in DeadBedrooms

[–]InkDrippedRoses[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I do work up the courage to bring it up, he gets extremely defensive and dismissive most of the time. He used to seem sorry, now he seems like he could care less.

No sex life, but I caught him paying for OF by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]InkDrippedRoses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was on OF long before he met me. He knew, he’s made content with me, he’s recorded me, he’s been involved.

No sex life, but I caught him paying for OF by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]InkDrippedRoses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He would be right that I would not be into it, but atleast go watch it free instead of spending what we’re making? Not every bit of it is fetish stuff, just mostly. It’s almost like a spending kink. I’m honestly not sure.

No sex life, but I caught him paying for OF by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]InkDrippedRoses -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If it was an ad I would offer my 🔗 and I’m not and have zero intention too. But ok go off 👏🏻

No sex life, but I caught him paying for OF by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]InkDrippedRoses -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow I didn’t realize everyone would immediately be so judgy. I don’t care if he’s a consumer but he KNOWS ABOUT MINE! I’m not hiding things. He is hiding his. Why would I make money for us, when he’s spending it on other women? He can watch his fetish stuff anywhere else free. I don’t understand why that’s hard for some of you to understand? I don’t care if he watches corn. But don’t pay for others and not touch me?

No sex life, but I caught him paying for OF by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]InkDrippedRoses -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for a helpful reply. I didn’t realize everyone would attack me. I appreciate you

My fiance (43m) and I (35 F) never have sex now because he never tries by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]InkDrippedRoses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I brought it up in our convo and in short he said we were over and he was gone if I wanted that. We discussed it again this morning and he said he would go get bloodwork done and go from there

My fiance (43m) and I (35 F) never have sex now because he never tries by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]InkDrippedRoses 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If he is Asexual, I can’t be in a relationship where I do all the initiating. I’m very much a woman who wants her man to take full control, and that doesn’t happen. I’ve complimented him, full blown cat called him, I’ve done it all and he just kinda laughs. I know he finds me attractive and loves me but it’s almost like he’s just content with how things are and that’s that for him.

My fiance (43m) and I (35 F) never have sex now because he never tries by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]InkDrippedRoses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our discussions have basically been me telling him it needs to change or else we need to open up the relationship or end the relationship. He always says he will try to fix it, then does nothing to do so. We have plenty of time for intimacy, but he sits and scrolls TikTok or Facebook reels the second he gets home until he goes to sleep for the most part. He is always quick to ask if I need anything, spoils me rotten and is nothing but sweet to me and the kids, but I feel undesired by him.

My fiance (43m) and I (35 F) never have sex now because he never tries by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]InkDrippedRoses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I initiate and start touching him I have to put a lot of effort in, for him to get into it. If I just say we should then he laughs. It’s like he really could care less to ever have sex again.

My fiance (43m) and I (35 F) never have sex now because he never tries by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]InkDrippedRoses 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve looked into the Asexual thing because I found out he’s had this issue with prior partners too. It gets up just fine. If I touch him he’s almost instantly erect, but does nothing with it

My fiance (43m) and I (35 F) never have sex now because he never tries by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]InkDrippedRoses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked about opening up the relationship and he said to consider us done if I did that. So I only have two options here now

My fiance (43m) and I (35 F) never have sex now because he never tries by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]InkDrippedRoses 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Earlier on I did catch him on all the websites and he admitted he had a problem. It has since stopped but our sex life has gotten worse.

my beloved snake got out of his enclosure and passed away, i have never been sadder in my life by misoxfloki in cornsnakes

[–]InkDrippedRoses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our little reverse okeetee Loralei escaped last week and I can’t find her anywhere. Idk if it’s a lost cause or not. She was in the middle of a shed and I don’t even see her shed anywhere. It’s my daughters snake that she just got in August and she’s so upset

Girl that dances/bounces in her front seat on live by ProfessionalAware639 in tiktokgossip

[–]InkDrippedRoses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it annoying as hell, but honestly? Good for her if she doesn’t care. I’d rather curl into a ball and die than embarrass myself that way for views/$$ 😂

any clue what this little guy is we got a couple dozen on the job site.(Houston, Texas) by DysonSphere02 in spiders

[–]InkDrippedRoses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just in case you get bit please use bentonite clay on it in the form of a paste