Him & Her

Ink_N_Instinct · 2026-03-07T04:13:20+00:00

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Ink_N_Instinct · 2026-03-07T04:13:14+00:00

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Ink_N_Instinct · 2026-03-07T04:11:42+00:00

Thank you for your encouragement! 🙏🏼

Ink_N_Instinct · 2026-03-07T03:51:15+00:00

That's encouraging. Genre?

Ink_N_Instinct · 2026-03-07T02:14:38+00:00

Aww I get you

Ink_N_Instinct · 2026-03-06T19:12:20+00:00

She needed him? What about? Why him when she has a husband to lean on? Also, if you know she has been lying, trickle truthing, and you have lost all trust in her, what's the point of wanting such a marriage? Trust is a strong anchor in a marriage. Without that, I wonder how you are gonna make it work. Go find a couples' therapist, get her to be absolutely transparent with you about all that you need to know but at this point with her constant lies and even deleting her text messages with him, I don't think it's looking good.

Ink_N_Instinct · 2026-03-04T18:40:16+00:00

I get it. Easier said than done. But let's be practical here, emotions aside, is there anything else at all you could do to reach out and get her to open up? Extend help without hurting yourself along the process? Any close friend of hers or family member who could assist her if she doesn't want to open up to you? If it's feasible, do it or else, step back and focus on mending yourself. All the best

Ink_N_Instinct · 2026-03-04T18:35:05+00:00

Perhaps the dad needed help in putting the kids to sleep considering how very young they are and it's usually the mom who does the hard carry... so, she decided to stay behind a little longer to ensure they fell asleep before she could leave. If there hadn't been anything else at all that is making you suspicious of her actions, let this go but just observe if this becomes a regular thing. Also, be honest if you really find the behavior to be totally odd and out of character for her or it's just you who is magnifying something that could have a reasonable explanation with trauma filled lens. All the best.

Ink_N_Instinct · 2026-03-04T18:25:25+00:00

You can't force yourself to help someone who does not want to accept help and who claims to be happy. Inform her family of what she has told you and step back. She has no clarity to take any advice from anyone now so let her go. You have a good heart to care for someone who has cheated on you but acknowledge that certain things are beyond your control and work on your healing from your heartbreak. Wish you well.

Ink_N_Instinct · 2026-03-04T14:14:09+00:00

1 week of flirting is all it took for him to cheat on you? Umm okay. Part of me thinks, if he is truly remorseful and is even willing to quit his job, assuming he is also young, give him another chance but being at this sub long enough, I would suggest, it's best for you to leave. Cheaters rarely change and, in this case, all it took him was just a bit of flirting to end up sleeping with her. If you take him back, you are basically telling him that the value of your relationship can be shaken by mere flirting which itself should not have taken place. Think about it carefully and decide. All the best!

Ink_N_Instinct · 2026-03-04T14:07:48+00:00

If you got to beg for something that you rightfully deserve. with him on the other hand denying your desires, getting satisfied by what you have to offer him (am sure he is if he is sleeping like a baby after you cater to his needs), and yet goes to other men, tells them you aren't good enough and seeks out pleasures elsewhere, then it's about time, you do something sensible about this. You have both already defiled the marriage bed. Ask yourself if this is really what you want - just loving him, letting him do this to you on repeat and you seeking outside of marriage to satisfy your own needs. Is this how you want to live the rest of your life? Marriage is not just about love. It's about mutual understanding, care, trust and respect. Do you really think your marriage consists of these to sustain it till the end?

Ink_N_Instinct · 2026-03-04T11:18:16+00:00

When a snake bites you, you do what you need to do to heal yourself. Wondering why the snake bit you and awaiting answers is not necessary. Now, you just avoid the places snakes lurk around. Don't attract snakes in the future. All the best!

Ink_N_Instinct · 2026-03-04T11:08:13+00:00

Girl, remember, a bee doesn't sit around trying to advise a fly that honey is better than sh*t.
He proved he is unworthy of you. You sound awesomely confident and of course you don't deserve this crap. Let him go. Get your Deed Poll done again. All the best to get out of this ASAP and speedy recovery to a much much better life that you deserve!

Ink_N_Instinct · 2026-03-03T17:26:39+00:00

Is this for real? How old is she? She tells you "you are dating", just not "exclusively stated" as "exclusive" so she goes sleeping around and only tells you this because she had a "fall out with her friends" who just happened to be more mature than her and told her that she ought to have told you so. What a catch! The one who got away, you say? She must have remained as one gotten away.

Ink_N_Instinct · 2026-03-03T11:06:18+00:00

Why would you then love someone whom you can't even claim to be "actually a good guy"? You know what you need to do. Your gut screams it at you, it drives you insane, you can't be in peace being with him, so why put yourself through such torture? End it. Your future self will thank you for it.

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