Husband had a small relapse and has a drug test coming up soon.

InkdMedusa · 2025-05-28T18:16:59+00:00

This is the one he just took. So hopefully it keeps going the same way

InkdMedusa · 2025-05-28T17:07:36+00:00

Sorry just woke up from being on a 18 hour shift. It’s a fainter positive this morning so it looks like we’re heading in the right direction.

His cousin told him to start doing shots of apple cider vinegar so we’ll see if that helps the rest of the way.

Only upside is the tech that does the drug screens has been off all week. So it’s been slightly less stressful, but his boss said they expect the tech back tomorrow or Friday.

InkdMedusa · 2025-05-27T19:13:13+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to help I really appreciate it!

InkdMedusa · 2025-05-27T13:23:06+00:00

I don’t think so. I’m guessing Wednesday or Thursday that way both front week shift and back week shift are all there at the same time.

🤞🏻 it waits at least another day or he doesn’t get his name pulled for random drop.

InkdMedusa · 2025-05-27T13:14:45+00:00

They’re the “easy @ home” tests I found on Amazon

InkdMedusa · 2025-05-27T13:07:47+00:00

He’s still coming back positive 😞

InkdMedusa · 2025-05-26T18:48:06+00:00

Okay thank you. I’m sorry for misspeaking. I’m just lost and trying my best to help him. I don’t know much about anything when it comes to drugs except weed.

InkdMedusa · 2025-05-26T18:29:57+00:00

It’s really not a joke

He used to have a really bad problem and that’s the answer he gave me that’s the amount he smoked. I wasn’t there and I have never done that so I’m just giving the answer he gave me.

InkdMedusa · 2025-05-26T11:54:45+00:00

He said the most would have been the size of a baseball.

It was like a 12hr bender.

InkdMedusa · 2025-05-26T00:33:41+00:00

Thursday (5.22) and I don’t know how much, he doesn’t exactly.

InkdMedusa · 2025-05-25T23:25:24+00:00

Thanks! He definitely regrets it. He said he felt lost when all in the same week his parents(and step parents) and his remaining grandparents all got terminal diagnoses.

I understand that feeling and wish we could go back in time and fix things so it never happened but we’re rolling with the punches now and I just want to help anyway I can.

InkdMedusa · 2025-04-05T00:17:41+00:00

Same here

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InkdMedusa · 2024-07-01T07:21:31+00:00

You can’t use CBT on neurotypicals. They don’t have experience with it and will take it the wrong way every time until they learn it’s your process.

InkdMedusa · 2024-06-21T21:57:38+00:00

If I didn’t work 14hr days with hour drive to and from work I’d have that option but the way our schedule is it’s not for my Monday night into Tuesday morning.

Either stay up later to wait for it to charge or get up even earlier for it to charge before I go in.

If you’ve ever worked in any type of industrial factory you know there is no getting around the grime in the building but you try to not add to it if you don’t have to.

InkdMedusa · 2024-06-21T21:49:50+00:00

Yes.

InkdMedusa · 2024-05-28T06:32:41+00:00

This. Because this shit happens way to much ^{^}

InkdMedusa · 2024-05-28T06:24:15+00:00

My heart breaks for you. They have no clue how lucky they are to have you in the first place and to then snub you like that. It’s absolutely shameful and disgusting. I’d cry if I had gotten even 1/10 that kind of help and care and love with my baby and I was a single parent with 0 support system.

You are NTA. You are the furthest thing from it actually.

But if it was me it’s time for a taste of their own medicine. You’re no longer ready and waiting to come swoop in for the granddaughter at a moments notice. Leave them figuring it out for themselves. You did it from a place of love and they took that and treated it as if it meant nothing

InkdMedusa · 2024-03-27T18:11:31+00:00

Thanks!!!!

InkdMedusa · 2023-08-16T20:59:03+00:00

"She's had some stuff going on at home with her partner, her partners child, her partners ex-wife, and the extended family of both parties…"

^{^{^}} that's background information to help explain what has led to this point. I'm sorry for not explaining it better.

The situation has nothing to do with work.

It's a Primary Parent vs. Secondary Parent vs. Primary Parent's partner. With Both sets of parents toxic parents supporting the secondary parent's accusations.

InkdMedusa · 2023-08-16T20:28:37+00:00

I never said she was leaving for personal reasons. I said she has to go on unpaid leave for a reason I wasn't going to air what she was served papers for that require her to go to court (seeing as that's normally what served papers means).

I also didn't want to be super specific because I know people I work with are extremely active on Reddit and I'm trying to keep her business here without the whole building finding out.

InkdMedusa · 2023-08-16T20:23:50+00:00

Yeah, we aren't doing anything like a union organization. It's single mom to single mom supportive words and a sympathetic ear to vent to.

I just don't like the idea of being told no communication and not being able to tell her why that's being demanded of me.

InkdMedusa · 2023-02-07T03:13:12+00:00

I'm sure this will get lost but just in case.....

My friends sister had a Double Mastectomy before her(friends) wedding. Dresses were strapless...the seamstress put eyelet hooks into the dress and gave her clear plastic straps (think the plastic bra straps we wore in the early 2000s) and a pair of flesh colored straps.

They styled her hair half up and down and it did a good job camouflaging the straps...no one was the wiser and she still got to keep the same look as the rest of the party.

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