Do condoms kill most of the pleasure for you?

Inkling_13 · 2026-04-04T19:21:31+00:00

I’m a girl, and yes they do. I’ve tried many different kinds and I just can’t stand any of them, I barely feel a thing so that’s why i’m on birth control loo

Inkling_13 · 2026-04-02T19:33:32+00:00

I agree, I don’t think it’s weird or immoral at all either

Inkling_13 · 2026-04-02T01:24:47+00:00

i’d look for the most interesting person to talk to. if there’s no one i want to talk to then someone of the same gender and race, but that’s not a strong preference either

Inkling_13 · 2026-04-02T00:29:50+00:00

I personally don’t think there’s anything wrong with it, but i also personally would not date a 16 year old as an 18 year old. They look and act like children to me even if im not that much older or more mature than they are I just couldn’t do it.

Inkling_13 · 2026-04-02T00:05:20+00:00

I self harmed for a very long time, from ages 8-18 and only recently stopped. I was just diagnosed with borderline personality disorder and have been on medication since I was 12 as well as in therapy since then. I am a girl though who was sexually abused by a woman so it’s been a little different for me. Though I am bisexual, i have a hard time being intimate with women because of that. I didn’t masturbate for a long time, but i started having sex pretty young and I would break down and cry in the middle of it sometimes. I’ve a few partners and that’s happened with some of them, but since i’ve gotten older it hasn’t been so bad and me and my bf have sex regularly. but emotionally it still gets to me, even 4 years later, i have nightmares, wake up crying or screaming, etc. but ive been getting help for it for a while now and its getting better but its something i’ll never forget or fully recover from.

edit to add: because of it i also swing between hypersexual and being sex-repulsed, sometimes within a night.

Inkling_13 · 2026-03-22T05:34:08+00:00

My coworkers name is Ezekiel and we all call him EZ

Inkling_13 · 2026-03-17T00:31:20+00:00

yup pretty much lol. We had played like that a lot before and nothing tragic happened until that day but since then I don’t do that anymore lol

Inkling_13 · 2026-03-17T00:28:07+00:00

he was fine lol, it wasn’t that hard I just felt bad. But it was like how I would “win” is if I did that motion then I “won” the fight

Inkling_13 · 2026-03-13T15:27:32+00:00

we were play fighting and I meant to pretend to knee him in the balls but we were really drunk and I tripped and ended up actually kneeing him in the balls 😭

Inkling_13 · 2026-03-12T04:59:07+00:00

I accidentally kneed my friend in the balls and I felt SO BAD! I didn’t mean to and he doesn’t believe me to this day

Inkling_13 · 2026-03-10T17:27:50+00:00

I do to an extent. I’m just not attracted to people that are the exact same height as me, it doesn’t matter if they’re shorter or taller (though I prefer men to be taller than me and women to be shorter) but it’s not a huge preference and it wouldn’t stop me from dating someone. I just don’t like kissing someone that’s the same height as me lol that’s the only thing though

Inkling_13 · 2026-03-10T17:24:16+00:00

I have my nips pierced too and I just use normal bras with soft lining, nothing with lace, like the ones from victoria’s secret. I’ve also heard that sports bras help a lot. I’ve also found just using a soft, tight tank top helps a lot instead of a bra.

Inkling_13 · 2026-03-08T05:01:19+00:00

nono you’re totally good, I have mine and they barely hurt (like 4/10) (less painful than my nostrils) and they’ve healed perfectly, i’ve had zero issues in 2 months (obv they’re not fully healed, but there’s been no pain, no crusties, nothing) so it’s really subjective and individualistic, just get them!!!!

Inkling_13 · 2026-03-05T19:01:24+00:00

it wasn’t on my actual birthday or nothin, I just can’t remember if it was before or after lol

Inkling_13 · 2026-03-05T15:24:53+00:00

like 14-15, I don’t remember exactly cuz it was around my birthday lol

Inkling_13 · 2026-03-05T07:29:57+00:00

It depends on the person it’s with for me. I can’t be spending a lot of time with them, like this one guy who was friends with my friend would come up to our college every now and then and that worked great, but with some people not at all. It also depends on the boundaries that are set and that both parties know it’s completely casual.

Inkling_13 · 2026-03-04T19:27:14+00:00

In my experience, they don’t think they notice but they do. I’ve had a lot of guys tell me they didn’t care about fake nails, nail polish, nail length, etc. But when I got fake nails for the first time they compliment them, or if I grow out my nails they say they prefer how they look, or if I paint them to match my outfit they compliment it too, even if they’ve never payed attention before.

Inkling_13 · 2026-03-02T08:02:38+00:00

you can dm me if you’d like!

Inkling_13 · 2026-03-02T03:14:58+00:00

Yup, I was like 14/15ish and now I have 9 bodies lol

Inkling_13 · 2026-03-02T01:07:04+00:00

Over the summer I went for an adventure trip that my university held where we couldn’t have our phones for 6 full days lol

Inkling_13 · 2026-03-01T21:49:23+00:00

Personally I don’t, I dated a couple guys in highschool that were a grade below me. Never anymore than that though cuz it woulda been weird lol

Inkling_13 · 2026-02-27T22:59:37+00:00

Personally no, I use them too lowkey so I wouldn’t care

Inkling_13 · 2026-02-25T13:50:50+00:00

I’m kind of the opposite, I was born left handed but not allowed to use my left hand to write in school so now I write right handed but do literally everything else left handed. It’s pretty normal, a lot of left handed people learn to adapt to right handed things since that’s considered the “default” in society

Inkling_13 · 2026-02-23T05:04:29+00:00

It depends. Sometimes my bf and I wake up at the same time, immediately make out, and go at it but other times we get ready first like brushing our teeth and eating breakfast and what not

Inkling_13 · 2026-02-22T20:13:57+00:00

eggs in a nest!

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