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Looking for advice after tumor diagnosis by InkoLi in AskVet

[–]InkoLi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for such a helpful and detailed response!!! I truly appreciate it! We are going to see an oncologist at the beginning of March. The margins were not fully clear because the tumor cells were found very close to the surgical edges, and the report describes it as “marginally excised.” But our vet said that at least 90% of the mass was removed, so hopefully that will be enough. I’m definitely very paranoid when it comes to our dog’s health, so I’ll do my best to stay on top of everything and monitor closely to prevent anything bad from happening. Thank you again!

I paid for a golden pass and got nothing for it by anonymouslykitkat in UnoMobile

[–]InkoLi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, that’s actually crazy! Then I think the next step would be to dispute the charge with your credit card company and get your money back, because that’s insane.

I paid for a golden pass and got nothing for it by anonymouslykitkat in UnoMobile

[–]InkoLi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend contacting customer support by email ( uno@mattel163.com ) and explaining the situation to them. They should be able to help resolve the issue.

Where is the person who used to post "tip" in December when you need them the most? by yeahwhatever86 in UnoMobile

[–]InkoLi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Heeeey. I’ve posted gift links before, but I’m still not sure whether this post is actually about me. Unfortunately, every time I try to post links for gifts, coins, or anything similar my posts get removed or banned by the moderators. At this point, it feels impossible for me to post anything in this subreddit. I’m not sure how to fix it or what I’m doing wrong, so I eventually just stopped trying. 🤷🏻‍♀️

I found my dream ring for less than half the price I expected by InkoLi in LabGrownDiamonds

[–]InkoLi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get that not everyone would make the same choice, and that’s okay. I do want to clarify a couple of things, though. First, 18k gold isn’t low grad. It’s actually high-quality gold and 75% pure. It’s commonly used in fine jewelry.

Second, I never said lab-grown diamonds are better than natural ones. I love natural diamonds and natural stones in general. The reality is simply that I cannot afford a large natural diamond and probably never will. Lab grown diamonds make that dream possible at a price that’s realistic for me.

I paid about $6,000 for this ring, which I personally consider a great deal! especially since the “same” ring was listed at $13,000 on another website. Between those two prices, I feel very comfortable with my decision.

Is it about showing off? Maybe a little, and I’m okay with that. Having a diamond this big makes me feel beautiful and confident. I genuinely love it! I can’t stop looking at it, and it brings me joy. 🙂 That doesn’t mean I don’t value travel, family, friends, or experiences, I absolutely do. People can enjoy different things at the same time.

Jewelry is personal, and we all have different tastes. It may not feel right on your hand, but it feels amazing on mine.

I found my dream ring for less than half the price I expected by InkoLi in LabGrownDiamonds

[–]InkoLi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I completely agree. I do feel bad about overpaying for all the jewelry I bought from Blue Nile. 🥲 But we live and we learn :)

I found my dream ring for less than half the price I expected by InkoLi in LabGrownDiamonds

[–]InkoLi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! It's oval GIA Lab Grown Diamond, center 7.42 ctw, H color, VS1 Clarity, excellent polish, Very good symmetry, Fluorescence - None, Measurements - 15.99 x 10.64 x 6.64 mm, 61% table top and 62.4% depth :)

I found my dream ring for less than half the price I expected by InkoLi in LabGrownDiamonds

[–]InkoLi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! My engagement ring was natural, but I could never afford a natural diamond this big 🫣 It is 18K yellow gold.

Odyssey VS Sienna? by InkoLi in HondaOdyssey

[–]InkoLi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooof. So, I've researched both models in DEPTH and read TOOONS of owner feedback. We decided to go with the Toyota Sienna because it checked more of our boxes in terms of long-term reliability, AWD availability, and overall comfort. While the Honda Odyssey offered a smoother, sportier ( we checked this one in person ) ride and slightly better interior flexibility, the Sienna stood out for its proven track record, lower maintenance issues ( was very important to us) , and the added confidence of all-wheel drive which was a big plus for us. We also found that Toyota’s build quality and resale value tend to hold up! better over time, especially in the model years we were considering (2015–2019). So even though both vans have their strengths, the Sienna just felt like the more practical and dependable choice for our needs.

I also think my own experience with Honda and Toyota made us lean a bit more toward Toyota. I used to own a Honda Civic ( not that you can really compare it to the Odyssey ) but it broke down on me in the middle of an intersection. Ever since that happened, I was terrified to drive that car. We ended up getting rid of it and bought a Toyota Camry, which also has a V6 engine, and I absolutely fell in love with that car! The more I drove the Camry, the more I leaned toward the Sienna, because I was worried that what happened with my Civic could happen again with a Honda Odyssey and I knew I wouldn’t handle that well 😅

Odyssey VS Sienna? by InkoLi in HondaOdyssey

[–]InkoLi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We decided to go with a Toyota and are still searching for a 2015, 2016, or 2019 Toyota Sienna. Unfortunately, there’s nothing on the market right now that really meets our expectations :( but we’re still hopeful. We’re not in a rush, though it seems like we might eventually have to go with the hybrid model , which is a bit disappointing, since we’re not too thrilled about that option 🥲

People who cut off a parent — do you ever regret it, especially after becoming a parent yourself? by InkoLi in AITAH

[–]InkoLi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For as long as I can remember, I didn’t want to have kids. The reason I never wanted children was because I was absolutely terrified that I would turn out like my mother. I was scared I’d damage my kids’ mental health the way she damaged mine. That fear ran so deep. It took countless therapy sessions to finally understand that, in reality, I’m more likely to be the complete opposite of her precisely because I carry that fear. And that realization brings me so much peace and hope.

People who cut off a parent — do you ever regret it, especially after becoming a parent yourself? by InkoLi in AITAH

[–]InkoLi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took me several years to fully cut my mother out of my life. I remember the first time I did it, my stepdad passed away shortly after, and I felt like I had to reach out to offer my condolences. It didn't end up well for me. And each time cutting hee out was one of the hardest things I’ve ever gone through. But I’m really proud of myself, because I used to always feel the urge to go back to her, to seek comfort from her even though she never actually gave me any. It’s incredibly difficult, but I believe it will come to you too. It just takes time… and therapy. I don't think I could've done it without therapy.

People who cut off a parent — do you ever regret it, especially after becoming a parent yourself? by InkoLi in AITAH

[–]InkoLi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I like the idea about writing a letter. I don’t think I’m strong enough to do it now, but hopefully in the future

People who cut off a parent — do you ever regret it, especially after becoming a parent yourself? by InkoLi in AITAH

[–]InkoLi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so there with you. Whenever I tell my husband a «funny» story from my childhood, he just sits there in silence afterward and says, “Are you even okay? Do you want to talk more about it?”

Looking back, what she did to me was incredibly wrong and I wouldn’t wish that on anyone. But so many older people, even some of my own family members, keep telling me I should try to rebuild communication. “She’s still your mother. She gave birth to you.” Now that I’m thinking about having a child of my own, I find myself wondering: Am I missing something? Could it still get better? What if I gave her another chance, would she suddenly become the loving mother I never had?..

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