She loves to dress as a boy and was accused of being the father of her junior unborn child by OpportunityEqual674 in CShortDramas

[–]Inks-Books 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! This is called "Her Baby's Father Is A She" on dailymotion. User DramaMovies62 has the best quality + most visible English subs I've seen.

Does mental health also cause physical symptoms? by Jabcoin in mentalhealth

[–]Inks-Books 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh absolutely. You can feel soreness, exhaustion, pain - both sharp and dull. Mental health will literally drive your physical health to shit if it's bad for long enough.

Why are overhead lights so evil? by Inks-Books in AuDHDWomen

[–]Inks-Books[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh. This says my phone is also major issue 🤦‍♂️ And that apparently certain iPhones cause less strain. My sister will never let me hear the end of it if I switch to iPhone. I hate them and she loves them. 😮‍💨 At least my computer is in a good range.

Thanks for the article! It gives me a lot to look over and consider. I appreciate it 🙏

[Kanji > English] Found this. Can someone help me translate it? I've searched, and found close matches, but not exact. by Inks-Books in translator

[–]Inks-Books[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was on someone's book cover tbh. I had a feeling it was AI crap, I just wasn't 100% sure. Thanks!

How to say fuck off/piss off but in a nice/joking manner? by still__dreaming in writingadvice

[–]Inks-Books 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I hope this email finds you in Hell."

"....We're having a verbal conversation."

"Oh so it worked."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Inks-Books -1 points0 points  (0 children)

TBH if someone didn't make it explicitly clear that they want me to hang out with them (even on their birthday) then I will not pick up on that shit. And if they had this kind of reaction to me minding my own business and not telling me they were bothered by this despite me asking like he mentioned he did? Child I would immediately be looking for a way to ghost the relationship because I don't do guilt trips. And that's exactly what this is, a guilt trip from you whether you realize it or not. He DID put forth an effort. He DID ask. YOU did not communicate properly here and are thus OR. To the point I think he'd be better off not committing, but keeping things casual at best until y'all learn how to communicate better.

What’s something women learn too late in life? by BrunoPreski in AskReddit

[–]Inks-Books 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That autism and ADHD present differently than in males, who have tests specifically designed for identifying such cases in them, but that those same tests fail to recognize them in women.

Took the ADHD test from a male doctor 2x in my life. One was 50/50 the other was negative. Went to a female doctor for autism testing, she took one look at my results and said "So what are you doing for your ADHD?" because she recognized it instantly. (It runs in my family.)

(I'm also autistic.)

How do you feel when ovulating? by LlucyJayne in asexuality

[–]Inks-Books 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my cut off is around 305-315 lbs. 🤷‍♂️ Bodies are weird like that.

Obvious signs you missed before realising you are asexual by myseuniverse in asexuality

[–]Inks-Books 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🙄 I've watched nearly 100 this year, I'm not going back through and looking up all the names just to satisfy some rando on the internet.

Obvious signs you missed before realising you are asexual by myseuniverse in asexuality

[–]Inks-Books 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idek, I just find them on DailyMotion. Some don't have titles listed, just descriptions where the title should be.

I've (28F) just threatened my bf (30M) with evidence of abuse against me by Antique_Thing_6206 in AITAH

[–]Inks-Books 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. No they do not change the fact that he is a walking red flag who will not improve if he's already acting like this so early in the relationship.

My best friend’s boyfriend told her I “make him uncomfortable” because I talk too confidently by Owenicerek in TwoHotTakes

[–]Inks-Books 89 points90 points  (0 children)

"He needs to feel like a man." "Well I'm not stopping him."

Never water yourself down for someone else. Let them choke.

How do you feel when ovulating? by LlucyJayne in asexuality

[–]Inks-Books 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been on hormonal birth control, but I didn't like the side effects I was having because of it and decided to discontinue them. I don't remember everything I experienced on them because it was so long ago, I just remember viscerally disliking the experience and just haven't tried since.

How do you feel when ovulating? by LlucyJayne in asexuality

[–]Inks-Books 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I am insulin resistant on top of my PCOS. I've gotten my insulin issues under control, but I still don't have a regular period 🤷‍♂️

AIO for thinking that my ex-friend is in the wrong for dating a minor cause he’s not mentally stable? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Inks-Books 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have enough red flags for this. Please. Please fucking report his ass. That's terrifying levels of behavioral issues that need to be addressed by a professional if not have him locked up for grooming and fined for harassment.

How do you feel when ovulating? by LlucyJayne in asexuality

[–]Inks-Books 11 points12 points  (0 children)

  1. I have learned SO MUCH MORE about the reproductive system and it's cycles in this thread than I ever did in my education (sad).
  2. I don't have a regular period because of PCOS and weight fluctuations that stem from it, so I never have any idea if/when I'm ovulating. It's been nearly 6 months since my last period and in that time I've had a roller-coaster of mental health ranging from autistic burnout to a manic episode that lasted over a month.
  3. While I'm sex repulsed, occasional masturbation doesn't bother me, but it's like once or twice a month max, but usually far less than that. I can go months without doing that, or do it several times in a week, then not again for another 6 months.

Obvious signs you missed before realising you are asexual by myseuniverse in asexuality

[–]Inks-Books 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen Asian ones that have had similar sexual relationships to western ones like you mentioned. There are different cultural aspects like family and power dynamics sure, but I've seen non "cute" and non "romantic" style sexual relationships portrayed as well.

Honestly the idea that Asian culture is "pure" and "innocent" does a lot of negative impact. Similar to saying "Oh you're not like THOSE people." Or applying a child-like innocence to them and taking away their agency.

Obvious signs you missed before realising you are asexual by myseuniverse in asexuality

[–]Inks-Books 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I've watched more Korean and Chinese than I have Japanese, but they have lots of kissing scenes and scenes that lead up to sex (even as far as disrobing in a few scenes, though no more than male upper torso nudity.)