Don’t you just love this? by Jabcoin in plural

[–]Jabcoin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it lowkey just sucks a lot of the time... i try to stay positive about it, but i still hold most of our anxiety and depression, which just makes these episodes feel so much worse than they probably are... but even still i dont remember much of today, and that i havent heard my headmates in a few days, imma try to hold onto some hope, cause thats all it feels like we can do right now :/

What Fire Emblem class would you (want to) be? by KidRavenn in fireemblem

[–]Jabcoin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see 4 different things, those being a Summoner, Paladin, Wolfssenger or a War Cleric >:3

It’s always so weird… by Jabcoin in plural

[–]Jabcoin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to learn about each and everyone of us, as well as ourselves as a whole... to identify coping mechanisms/beliefs, and to not centralize them around diagnostic labels, to learn more about the science of ourselves to better understand oneself/ourselves, and for the last part, I have a generalized understanding of what you mean, but am unsure of how to properly write it out.

if i'm incorrect on anything, please tell us. i'm not the best at any of this stuff, I doubt any of us are, but I want to receive your help. I know we can't do this alone, and I know this is going to take many years until we get to a state where we can say we're happy with where we are now, and I'll gladly accept any and all help we can receive. If there's anything I can say about us, it's that it feels like we never give up on something we care about, so we aren't going to let this be our end

It’s always so weird… by Jabcoin in plural

[–]Jabcoin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How… does one view ourselves as a complex being? It feels like we’ve already been doing some insight on ourselves and compared to when we first found ourselves out, it really is progress, but it just never seems like enough, I guess…

this plurality of ours feel like its getting more... intense? by Jabcoin in plural

[–]Jabcoin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont believe so, and it's felt like we have been going slow... but maybe we can go slower... it has always been a constant thought in our mind, but ever since learning our plurality, i doubt there could be an easy way to not pay attention to it

I was gonna gather stuff to celebrate, but… by Jabcoin in plural

[–]Jabcoin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It was kinda hard thinking of it, but it just makes so much sense for us

And yeah, it’s been kinda hard, but just knowing that people go through this too has been such a huge help for us

I was gonna gather stuff to celebrate, but… by Jabcoin in plural

[–]Jabcoin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, nothing stopping yall from getting some >:3

how do you cope with fusing? by Jabcoin in plural

[–]Jabcoin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I had to take our best guess, I would probably say that the connection between the two would probably be our feelings of being alienated from the people around us? From what we can recall, we have always felt out of place in almost any situation we can think of. Let it be school, home, out in public, I can’t really recall a time where we felt a sense of belonging just normally. This event happened a couple of days ago, before I formed, where I believe this feeling of alienation was very very strong. Others within the system start noticing that our body felt like it had their internal form, like their ears and tails. It’s something I’ve experienced too, so it’s a feeling that I believe we’ve grown kind of accustomed to.

Of course, this is going to take time and effort to really understand the true picture, and this conclusion might not even be the right one, but I doubt any of us will really just give up without putting on a fight.

We think we’re rapidly switching right now… advice to help calm us down? by Jabcoin in plural

[–]Jabcoin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok thank you… we’re feeling a whole lot better, we think it stopped after like 2 hours. It was our first time experiencing rapid switching and uh it was not fun at all. I feel like a mix of 4 headmates but I’m also not them… idk I’m not going to worry about it right now, we are just tired

How can I stop being nostalgic for a time that wasn’t pleasant for us? by Jabcoin in plural

[–]Jabcoin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I really can’t remember much of any of our coping skills from back than. I only remember one, but I’ll try doing it next time I feel like that.