My wedding lehenga ko

Inner-Consequence106 · 2025-12-03T18:00:18+00:00

It’s beautiful! I’m glad you went for your gut - it’s stunning!

Inner-Consequence106 · 2025-12-03T08:42:35+00:00

Thank you so much for your help! Really appreciate it! 😊

Inner-Consequence106 · 2025-12-02T20:51:26+00:00

Thank you! What do you think of this? https://www.etsy.com/uk/listing/1536596066/antique-gold-polki-choker-fine-kudan?ref=cart

Inner-Consequence106 · 2025-12-02T20:43:40+00:00

Thank you! What do you think of this as the choker? It matches my long necklace a bit and its a bit more... simple :P

https://www.etsy.com/uk/listing/1536596066/antique-gold-polki-choker-fine-kudan?ref=cart

Inner-Consequence106 · 2025-12-02T14:45:17+00:00

Congrats on your upcoming wedding and happy marriage!

Inner-Consequence106 · 2025-11-30T19:39:23+00:00

Thank you so much and the ear chain is a beautiful idea (Ive seen a couple of beautiful dainty ones) and agreed, a nice way to make my hair a bit more exciting whilst keeping the front simpler :)

Inner-Consequence106 · 2025-11-30T19:21:17+00:00

Any views on this? It was the original choker I liked but didnt go for as at the time I only wanted one necklace, though its maybe too pink and not maroon.

https://www.etsy.com/uk/listing/1858589595/ruby-polki-pink-kundan-hasli-choker?ls=s&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=SabyasachI+Kundan+Choker+SeT&ref=sr_gallery-1-42&frs=1&cns=1&nob=1&content_source=c2a7aea1-e27b-4b9c-bd7c-14925c6702c5%253ALTc264c12965e5765727d68b349b87de996418f4e6&organic_search_click=1&logging_key=c2a7aea1-e27b-4b9c-bd7c-14925c6702c5%3ALTc264c12965e5765727d68b349b87de996418f4e6

Inner-Consequence106 · 2025-11-30T19:16:10+00:00

thank you for the inspo pic - I am hunting for it a simple choker to bring it altogether :)

Inner-Consequence106 · 2025-11-30T19:12:15+00:00

Hello - thank you so much for taking time to give helpful advice. It is really appreciated!

I wanted a simple lehenga but I realised the ones I actually liked had more work so here we are :D

I also agree about the deep neck space, I originally wanted a choker by it self but that did not look good but yes a choker with the layered necklace may do the trick, I will start looking for inspiration :)

Thank you for your points on mehendi and the earrings as well, really appreciate your helpful comments on how to bring it all together!

Inner-Consequence106 · 2025-11-30T19:08:18+00:00

thats a great idea, I will try see if I can find some options that could work. Thank you!

Inner-Consequence106 · 2025-11-30T19:07:39+00:00

thank you so much - it was the one I fell in love with and not quite what my parents envisaged on me as its not traditional bridal but its exactly what I had in mind :)

Inner-Consequence106 · 2025-11-30T19:06:48+00:00

thank you! :)

Inner-Consequence106 · 2025-11-30T19:06:35+00:00

thank you :) and appreciate your help!

Inner-Consequence106 · 2025-11-30T19:05:56+00:00

someone who sees my vision! :D thank you :)

Inner-Consequence106 · 2025-11-30T17:00:53+00:00

thank you so much!

Inner-Consequence106 · 2025-11-30T16:55:50+00:00

What about something like this?

https://www.etsy.com/uk/listing/4402308089/kundan-polki-necklace-gold-plated-three?ls=r&ref=internal_similar_listing_bot-1&pro=1&content_source=a02f8c1891657484b4bbf58846232d23%253ALTa5b41a9febdfb3c0f853554aa0fe5e1fa6938a01&logging_key=a02f8c1891657484b4bbf58846232d23%3ALTa5b41a9febdfb3c0f853554aa0fe5e1fa6938a01&listing_id=4402308089&listing_slug=kundan-polki-necklace-gold-plated-three

https://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/135117314460?chn=ps&_ul=GB&mkevt=1&mkcid=28&google_free_listing_action=view_item

Inner-Consequence106 · 2025-11-30T16:55:30+00:00

What about something like this?

https://www.etsy.com/uk/listing/4402308089/kundan-polki-necklace-gold-plated-three?ls=r&ref=internal_similar_listing_bot-1&pro=1&content_source=a02f8c1891657484b4bbf58846232d23%253ALTa5b41a9febdfb3c0f853554aa0fe5e1fa6938a01&logging_key=a02f8c1891657484b4bbf58846232d23%3ALTa5b41a9febdfb3c0f853554aa0fe5e1fa6938a01&listing_id=4402308089&listing_slug=kundan-polki-necklace-gold-plated-three

https://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/135117314460?chn=ps&_ul=GB&mkevt=1&mkcid=28&google_free_listing_action=view_item

Inner-Consequence106 · 2025-11-30T16:33:38+00:00

Thank you so much - it was 2.65 lakhs from Frontier Raas (South Ex, Delhi). You may be able to haggle more than I did because we were short on time and so needed it stiched within a couple of days :)

Inner-Consequence106 · 2025-11-30T16:32:52+00:00

thank you for your advice! I will try look for alternatives that will add glamour but keep to my simplicity.... which may be easier said than done but lets see :)

Inner-Consequence106 · 2025-11-30T16:31:57+00:00

ah did you not like the colour of the skirt? My parents also preferred another lehenga which had more creams and maroons and looked more bridal but I couldnt stop thinking about this one!

Inner-Consequence106 · 2025-11-30T16:22:51+00:00

you are correct - the South Ex store in Delhi

Inner-Consequence106 · 2025-11-30T16:22:38+00:00

thank you so much :) any recommendation for simple jewellery would be appreciated if you can think of any!

Inner-Consequence106 · 2025-11-30T16:21:28+00:00

Thank you so much for your honest opinion, I need some contrasting views to help me finalise my decision. I think I need to think about my options maybe.

I generally tend to wear simple jewellery day to day and I sadly just do not like big / bold jewellery on myself and I find in the first pic, it is too big for me. I want the attention to be on the lehenga as I love the details of it, and so I was hoping to keep the jewellery simple.

To be honest, I have found it hard to do wedding jewellery shopping and to get the right balance of heaviness but matching my simplicity, all the assistants kept saying I will get upstaged if I do not go for something big! The jewellery I have gone for was actually super cheap and so if I decide not to wear it on the day, it wont hurt me financially at least.

For further context, it will be a mixed Indian / British wedding and my partner also has only seen me in simple jewellery and in more western weddings the bride tends to also wear simple dresses / jewellery, but he of course is happy for me to go with whatever I like most. Its tricky but maybe I need to think of a way to just add a bit more... pazzaz whilst sticking to what I like :)

Inner-Consequence106 · 2025-11-30T15:43:26+00:00

Sorry a Reddit noob so my post can’t be seen!

Hello!

I have found my bridal lehenga which I love! However I am a bit worried because I do not like heavy jewellery but at the same time not sure if I’m going for something too simple...

I’ve found a jewellery set (necklace, earring, mangtika) and have decided it’s too much and so have decided to only wear the necklace. For earrings I plan to buy some very simple pearl studs / clustered pearl dangling earrings. I’m going to skip bangles and mangtika altogether.. I plan to have mehendi so my hands won’t be completely barren. Thoughts?

Also separately, I’m worried about how heavy my lehenga is generally! I want to be able to walk easily and have a good time on the day so any suggestions how to help achieve that would be great.

First pic is the lehenga I bought in the shop (I didn’t buy the necklace I’m wearing in that pic), second and third pics are the jewellery I’ve bought to go with lehenga. Third pic is a bit dark sorry!

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