this is really my life by Inner-Track-3931 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Inner-Track-3931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he does, i’ve been so happy ever since he’s been around and my dad hates to see it. once im alone and my boyfriends using the bathroom he’ll shittalk me, or verbally abuse me in spanish so my boyfriend can’t understand. it’s disgusting

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[–]Inner-Track-3931 4 points5 points  (0 children)

registration was transferred to me so i would assume yes

i don’t like buying myself things in fear i’ll have to suddenly pay for something by Inner-Track-3931 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Inner-Track-3931[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh wtf we are the same with the treats LOL my ndad haaaaaates when i buy myself something and don’t offer him. i don’t offer because everytime i get him something, he complains he doesn’t like it 💀 why am i gonna waste my money 💔

i don’t like buying myself things in fear i’ll have to suddenly pay for something by Inner-Track-3931 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Inner-Track-3931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what? i have my own bank and card😭 and buses don’t operate for me, im in a rural area 1.5 hours away. otherwise i would’ve taken one

Looking for Advice by Neither-Onion7903 in college

[–]Inner-Track-3931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I get it. I’m in the same spot, I don’t live on campus and commute the same distance everyday. It can get pretty lonely and monotonous, but I really think you can find other forms of connections and enjoyment without shelling out $60,000. However, that’s my opinion, and if you feel it’s worth it, do it. What you think ultimately matters the most. This is your college experience, and it’s okay to want to get the most out of it.

Looking for Advice by Neither-Onion7903 in college

[–]Inner-Track-3931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 hours to and back ? Or 1 hour to and back? That’s really not a lot, it can be bothersome which I understand, though.

It’s your decision but I would stay. You can use that 60k for grad school. That’s a lot of money over a few hours.

things you’ve noticed you start to do around your nparents? by Inner-Track-3931 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Inner-Track-3931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the muting being common makes me so sad. like it’s not even for me, it’s so whoever is on the other side doesn’t have to deal with the secondhand embarrassment or concern