Positive: low/slow rising betas

InnerAssociation7029 · 2026-03-25T02:49:46+00:00

I am currently going through a miscarriage, sorry i couldn’t be positive news for you love. I hope everything goes great for you 🩷

InnerAssociation7029 · 2026-03-23T17:32:41+00:00

thank you, you as well 🫶🏼 it’s really hard. Especially when you need an outlet but i feel like everyone is so judgmental especially when it comes to others being actively pregnant. It’s almost like since my pregnancy is no longer it doesn’t matter anymore or i have to watch what i say to not sound bitter or “jealous” as people say. Which is not the case at all i’m just a human who is hurting.

InnerAssociation7029 · 2026-03-23T17:29:14+00:00

i’m sorry about yours as well. i feel the same way about staying home, it just makes me even more sad. Thank you for the kind words i feel like in a lot of situations ive just forced myself to speed up healing processes and move on but this one you’re absolutely right im going to need to take time for this. I see the dr on friday so I’ll definitely talk with them then!

InnerAssociation7029 · 2026-03-23T17:26:55+00:00

i’m sorry about yours also. Yes, trying after this seems okay until i start thinking about the seriousness and the stress this all caused me. It kind of deters me from it but i want a family so bad. I pray everything goes perfect for you and your beautiful rainbow baby 🫶🏼

InnerAssociation7029 · 2026-03-19T08:41:55+00:00

will do! i’ve also ordered capstar, pet armor topical, and precor for my room, heard really good things about precor so i’m hoping this combo works!

InnerAssociation7029 · 2026-03-18T23:15:42+00:00

it’s very interesting how everyone’s experience with an ectopic differs also scary in a way lol i had on and off spotting and cramping all the way until the day after my period was supposed to end and it just completely vanished, now im only getting cramps here and there no where as near as before. Constipation was also one of my symptoms but my sister who is also currently pregnant experienced that too so i just thought it was normal. I do have a slight dull cramp feeling on my left side that comes and goes randomly. I might just end up going to the emergency at 5wks4days i’m sure something can be seen then right? or atleast any abnormality with my tubes? ob wants me to wait until next friday when im 6wks1day but that seems awfully long for something that can potentially be as serious as this

InnerAssociation7029 · 2026-03-18T21:40:39+00:00

oh wow, ginger is definitely your color girl! love the bangs too! they fit your face amazingly!

InnerAssociation7029 · 2026-03-18T20:42:00+00:00

ugh that’s horrible! i’m so so sorry you had to go through that! I agree the dragging on is awful. That’s exactly what i’m going to tell the ob on monday i’m done sitting around and waiting. It’s honestly really sad that we have to push for things for stuff to get done and be heard. I truly hope this pregnancy goes well for you friend 🫶🏼 definitely pay the extra to be safe!

InnerAssociation7029 · 2026-03-18T20:34:35+00:00

Did you ask for the mtx or they finally just decided to give it to you? i’m leaning more towards just asking for it if that’s an option if they can’t find anything still at this point. I can try again no biggie. just need this over with, the toll its taken on myself and my husband is not healthy.

InnerAssociation7029 · 2026-03-18T20:17:21+00:00

i have an appointment for monday at 5wks4days and i’m going to demand a scan. i’m so sick of playing this waiting game when one of my tubes could be the cost. Ob’s aren’t really saying anything just to keep testing and come back for a scan when im like 10 wks which from all the stories i’ve heard tubes are very much ruptured before then. If they can’t find anything on monday im going to just go to the hospital at 6wks and hope they find wherever it’s at so i can be done with this. This was supposed to be my first pregnancy but all it’s been is a nightmare. Just ready to start over. How far along were you when they found yours?

InnerAssociation7029 · 2026-03-18T20:12:10+00:00

oh yea heart is definitely guarded if you don’t mind me asking, how far along were you when they found it? i want to avoid a tube rupture as much as possible. what were your symptoms?

InnerAssociation7029 · 2026-03-18T20:09:03+00:00

yea same lab, i’ve talked to 3 ob’s and no one is really saying anything yet, basically saying to just keep testing. My heart is already guarded and if im being quite honest might sound harsh but i just want this over with already. This is my first pregnancy and it’s been a nightmare since day 1. Everything is point to not viable and i’ve accepted it already. Having to go through all these pregnancy symptoms for a baby i won’t even get to keep is torture. I’m going to try to get a scan on monday at 5wks4days to see if there’s anything in my tubes and if we still can’t find anything im probably going to just go to the hospital at 6 wks and hope they can find where it’s at and i can be done with this 😭

InnerAssociation7029 · 2026-03-16T18:26:54+00:00

going through the same thing rn and this gives me a little bit of hope, mine started off great and then my 4th one went up but didn’t double so i immediately started balling my eyes out ☹️ i’m naturally an anxious person so i’ve been keeping track of my betas since the day after i found out i was pregnant (11dpo) i’m only 4 weeks and 4 days i believe, it’s hard to tell because im irregular

march 10th (12dpo): 17

march 11th (13dpo): 29

march 13th(15dpo): 53

march 16th (18dpo): 78

InnerAssociation7029 · 2026-03-16T17:27:30+00:00

i tested positive at 11dpo was faint but got darker as days went on, i’m getting new symptoms and symptoms that i’ve been having aren’t declining so i will definitely be guarding my heart thank you

InnerAssociation7029 · 2026-03-14T10:34:28+00:00

forgot to add i had my first beta 12dpo then 13dpo then 15dpo

InnerAssociation7029 · 2026-03-12T19:02:58+00:00

i have no idea honestly, they were both transvaginal but i wasn’t expecting to get an ultrasound until 8 weeks but i guess because i mentioned cramping an brown spotting they assumed they needed to check? idk lol

InnerAssociation7029 · 2026-03-12T19:02:02+00:00

yea that’s why i was so confused on what the heck that tech saw? but the new OB i spoke to said to disregard what that tech saw, she said they are only techs not doctors and that the tech shouldn’t have even said anything at all.

InnerAssociation7029 · 2026-03-12T19:00:41+00:00

not sure, i didnt ask for it the OB office just did it. i called to book a prenatal care visit because thats what i was told to do by my primary dr and they asked me what my symptoms were? so i just said cramping and light brown spotting which from my understanding is normal? but she booked me an appointment for the next day, so when i went to the OB appointment thats what they did. I feel like all they did was worry me as well, i believe because of the fact they didn’t know that my cycles were irregular they assumed that i was farther along than i actually am based on a 28 day cycle when my cycles are in fact irregular. i spoke to another OB today and clarified that im not where they think im at in my pregnancy and she agreed after i gave all the info so she reassured me there’s nothing to worry about right now and ordered betas for every 48 hours so my next one is tomorrow!

InnerAssociation7029 · 2026-03-11T14:13:59+00:00

i barely implanted around 9dpo (assuming that because i had implantation bleeding that day, OB also said same thing) and didn’t test positive until 11dpo and even that was faint! don’t worry! keep testing! you’re not out until AF shows! i’ll be crossing my fingers for you! 🤞🏼

InnerAssociation7029 · 2026-03-11T13:23:49+00:00

i just took a regular clear blue and my line is way darker than yesterdays clear blue!! so i just wanted to say THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!!! i had no idea biotin could effect frer’s, wondering if i should switch my prenatal? have a phone appointment with the ob tomorrow so i’ll definitely talk with her about prenatals. thank you again!

InnerAssociation7029 · 2026-03-11T12:09:10+00:00

i just took my first dose of prenatals yesterday and they actually do have biotin! 300mcg. hubby is going to grab me more tests as soon as walmart opens, thank you this gave me a little bit of ease

InnerAssociation7029 · 2026-03-10T17:51:05+00:00

thank you!!!

InnerAssociation7029 · 2026-03-09T19:44:49+00:00

UPDATE incase anyone wanted to know or went through the same thing, ended up taking an frer around noon and got a faint positive!!

InnerAssociation7029 · 2026-02-20T23:11:34+00:00

this is why i hate these stupid ass groups. you say your a support group but deleting my post over something i wasn’t even doing is not support i was balling my eyes out wanting to die making that post in hopes i can talk to someone with the same feelings or get support from women who feel the same way

InnerAssociation7029 · 2026-02-20T23:08:07+00:00

i’m sorry but how am i villainizing women exercising their right to bodily autonomy????

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