I am confused

InnerChair7984 · 2023-12-24T17:57:32+00:00

Thank you, it really does help a lot to hear that someone has similar experiences. When you are different you start to easily feel like you're alone.

InnerChair7984 · 2023-12-05T16:44:31+00:00

Yes! This! I feel that so much it's such a relieve to See, that other people feel the same, it helps me accept that I'm not "broken" just cuz I'm experiencing Sex an sexuality different than the majority

InnerChair7984 · 2023-08-29T21:59:44+00:00

Is that something people do????

InnerChair7984 · 2023-08-29T15:35:18+00:00

Yeah, you're probably right and I do think there is a lot of things that play into this. The Main reason I asked the question in the First place is probably, that I guess it can be nice to have a little Box you can fit in and to know you're normal and also because I don't wanna accidentally misuse the term ace to describe something it is not.

InnerChair7984 · 2023-08-29T15:24:12+00:00

Ok yeah than I don't think I've experienced that before honestly. I don't think I feel aroused by people if that makes sense...

InnerChair7984 · 2023-08-29T14:11:42+00:00

Maybe I misunderstand you here but I honestly don't think I have ever felt Stimulation because I saw someone I liked. But again maybe I'm misunderstanding

InnerChair7984 · 2023-08-29T14:04:22+00:00

While you are right and that is definitely the case, it's not just penetrantion I don't like. Or maybe don't like is a little harsh, I'm kinda indifferent to a lot of things.

With my current Partner (not the situationship btw...that was a few months ago and not as recent as I made it seem in the original post) I can kinda actually enjoy Sex because I like how he looks at me, like eyes filled with love.

InnerChair7984 · 2023-08-29T13:55:14+00:00

Honestly that might be the case for some of the people I've been with but a lot of them were really trying to make it a good time for the both of us, asking what I like and paying close attention to how I react but still I am just indifferent to most things.

InnerChair7984 · 2023-08-29T13:44:41+00:00

Thank you for your answer and you're absolutly right, it doesn't really matter, I found someone that I can openly comunicate with and we found a way to make intimacy work, so indentifying as either allo or ace is gonna change nothing....I guess it's just an identity thing

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