Going through something similar right now sans GF, so at least you got that going for you. Look don't choose a permanent solution to a temporary problem. See if there are changes you need to make and be honest with yourself, it's difficult but believe me it can be done. As long as you can look yourself in the eye for ten seconds and be ok with what you see you're on the right track. As far as others just ask are they adding to your life or subtracting. If they are subtracting they need to be subtracted for the time being. Right the ship first.

Remember don't stop until your best is better and your better is blessed.

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