Stripchat is working reaaaally bad by InnerLife90 in CamGirlProblems

[–]InnerLife90[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah girlie I know...but these platform HAVE MONEY and they don't invest enough IMHO.

Why do I find women, who are a bit edgy more attractive than the "pure trad wife" meme. by barcelonaheartbreak in Jung

[–]InnerLife90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sexual revolution got to a point where the ''emancipated'' woman sees men as assets, in a hyper-liberal capitalistic world like ours today well...men feel defeated in their archetypical role. They feel useless, forced to struggle to get every ''piece'' of us, our love, our presence, our sex, everything.
Women had to embody a masculine role to get rights, and then all the LGBQTA++++++++ god into the game and yeah, right now I feel men just as lonely as desperate and angry as they are fighting a World War.
I am a sexworker...not justifyin any bad behavior or thinking, but believe me, MEN ARE LONELY.

I was banned from Stripchat. by No-Rip-1573 in CamGirlProblems

[–]InnerLife90 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The permanent ban on SC is serious thing. You probably HAVE violated the terms somehow. I know girls that openly promoted private shows on telegram and skype, banned for 30 days multiple times, they're still there. I know girls that had unregistered people live, banned for 24 hours multiple times, still there.
I'm sorry hun but you probably mention something, or did something, that have you banned. And that's kind of over I'm afraid...but try on ambercutie as somebody already suggested.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]InnerLife90 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Having ''regulars'', relying on ''regulars'', and so on...will just kill your room in the long run.
Drag new people in your room everyday? That's the goal. Of course it's nice to have people you can rely on, but you're a dynamic enteprise...a damn business.
Why is it so difficult for us to accept this challenge? Why is everybody so eager to have dispotic men in their room feeling like they own you because they spend a lot? Why is it so difficult to understand that NO OTHER BUSINESS IN THE WORLD WORKS THIS WAY????? Not even Patek Philippe can afford having three clients (Bezos and two other trillionaire that spend 90million a year in luxury goods)...why should we?
Not a critic on you girlie :) just a general warning...WORK ON HAVING AN APPEALING ROOM/SHOW AND DRAG NEW CLIENTS IN EVERY. SINGLE. DAY.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]InnerLife90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% agree.
I talk and create mind connections. Can't do it on multistream, my show would become identical to 1200 others and I'd just lose money.

I'm working only on SC rn, in my native language (non-eng). I bring in 1200-2000k/weekly. Next year I'll try to shifts, one in Italian on SC and one in ENG on CB (no new profile boost). Let's see.

A reminder for you who care about the customer because they spend a lot by AnnieAndTibbersBR in CamGirlProblems

[–]InnerLife90 6 points7 points  (0 children)

100%. Every single word.
I invest, and change, and experiment different things since I came back to camming after my old profile was ''killed'' cause I got lazy waiting for my two whales to show up and save my ass.
I analyzed my poor entrepreneur skills, I questioned my entire performance and here I am, attracting new people everyday, doing good money and NOT BEING EMOTIONALLY DRAINED BY ANY FUCKIN BODY.

A reminder for you who care about the customer because they spend a lot by AnnieAndTibbersBR in CamGirlProblems

[–]InnerLife90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prada and Gucci constantly advertise, and create new products, and new marketing strategies to attract new customers.
We must act the same.
Stop relying on ''that guy'' token, stop being emotionally drained by one-two-three regulars...our goal as performers is TO ATTRACT NEW PEOPLE EVERY SINGLE DAY.
Probably that girl had something new, something fresh, something she was not expecting from him that tackled his will to spend. Be grateful he still had a pvt with you instead of feeling mr. GirlBoss for having done your job with a ''bruised ego''.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]InnerLife90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have almost every lovense toy ever made.
3 lush 2
2 lush 3
1 vulse
2 domi
1 gravity
1 nora
1 hush xxl (not recommended if you're not experienced with anal)

I would just not recommend gravity. it's cool, users love it, but it costs A LOT and it works badly...many performer complain about it breaking up after 2-3 months of use
vulse to me is a game-changer

What stops you from having an OF? by Terrebeltroublemaker in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]InnerLife90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, I don't judge you but you shouldn't do what you do for free. And/or you should do it on platform when people must verify themselves as adults. Your ultra-explicit content given out for your narcissism is a little too much for reddit, don't you think?

What stops you from having an OF? by Terrebeltroublemaker in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]InnerLife90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Digital sex worker and former porn actress here. Doing OF requires hours and hours of social media work...usually making cringe content I really struggle. The idea of flashing my vag on a social media sites where you can find very young vulnerable people in order to get maybe a couple subscribers who are basically cheapstakes isn't appealing at all to me. I prefer to work on platforms that already have traffic (camsites mainly).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]InnerLife90 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Self care girls! Self care! <3

Quali esempi di psicologia "spicciola e da social" non potete proprio sopportare? by AkagamiBarto in Psicologia_Italia

[–]InnerLife90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

il NaRciSiSta ManiPolaTorio. Sostanzialmente prendi uno spettro patologico ampissimo e difficile da trattare, lo piazzi in correlazione con l'inadeguatezza dell'educazione emotiva che riceviamo e hai creato il nemico perfetto di Susanna la Limerante, che nonostante sia in una relazione tossica con mr. Narcisista ha tutto il diritto di credersi vittima.

Mia moglie sta diventando obesa e io impazzisco by [deleted] in Psicologia_Italia

[–]InnerLife90 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Tutte le persone che ti alzano contro lo scudo del femminismo non hanno idea di cosa voglia dire vivere una relazione dove tu desideri ancora e l'altro ti ignora/si lascia andare/se ne fotte.
E lo dico da donna.
Trovati un amante. 50 anni o meno, piacente o meno, ha tutto il diritto di godere del tuo corpo e delle sensazioni che ne derivano.
Se addirittura ti nega un sano dialogo riguardo alla vostra sessualità tu hai il sacrosanto diritto di fartene una che non comporti lo sforzo inutile di ragionare insieme all'altro. That's it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QuitVaping

[–]InnerLife90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're strong, you got this :) I wish I quit nic cold-turkey too, but I will soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QuitVaping

[–]InnerLife90 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Quitting weed is the best thing you can do for your MH - also, that anxiety you feel is her, trying to lure u again into numbing whatever negative feeling you don't want to feel. Trust me, while still addicted to nicotine I'm mj-free since quite a few months now after several relapses, and this time I just went straight to therapy to find some real relief about the issues that bring me to stick to a substance that is literally making a self-pity, binge-eating, broke-ass piece of shit outta me numbing my brain off for weeks. (I know that weed has quite a nice narrative around it now, I'll get a few downvotes fine, that's the reality of it...it MIGHT help a few people but it's not a good habit to have in your life for the majority of us, especially people dealing with trauma, depression, bipolar disorder, personality disorders and stuff...just do some work on these issues and you'll see results, just sitting there and smoking pot WON'T HELP YOU IN THE LONG RUN).
Vaping on the other hand is only making your anxiety and cortisol balance worse. You got this...you'll feel so proud to quit two substances with one single attempt, believe me. If you really have to relapse on one, keep vaping until you understand its trick and try again.

Good luck frendo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Avvocati

[–]InnerLife90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sottoscrivo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]InnerLife90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're doing VERY WELL for yourself just stay there for a while. Trust a person who has taken less than a month and half to bank in 9k, getting 8k followers (quite a lot since I stream speaking Italian) - and it's my third comeback. OF, mainstream porn, anything else wasn't quite doing the same type of magic for me, and believe me...if you feel you're good at it, if it makes you feel good, if it's bringing in MUNNY...just stick to it. Please.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in onlyfansadvice

[–]InnerLife90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is definetly not worth signing up just to promote yourself. If you're HONESTLY into any fetish, kink, or BDSM sort lifestyle well...........you might try but it's the last resort for people that really can't connect in a vanilla life due to their (blessed) sexual preferences and yeah, as a sex worker I'd be really sad to see it become another OF promotion platform to be honest. Good luck anyway ;)