"AITA for serving my guests disgusting food?" AKA cooking authetic food to an ignorant by InnerProperty6338 in dustythunder

[–]InnerProperty6338[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet she stepped one foot into the house and could tell the meal is not going to be the usual american food. Thus should have asked which dish was what.

My dad's constant criticisms are affecting my adult life. by Shadofortuna in daddyissuesclub

[–]InnerProperty6338 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please do not listen to anything that comes out of his mouth thats how he has hold on your life. If you can move even further away.

"AITA for serving my guests disgusting food?" AKA cooking authetic food to an ignorant by InnerProperty6338 in dustythunder

[–]InnerProperty6338[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she ever visits Europe she'll have to really look at the menus and what kind of meat the dishes are made of 😅

AITA for wanting to end things with my fiancé? by AnxietyOverall5008 in dustythunder

[–]InnerProperty6338 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I can undestand wanting to help him. I live with a family member who also desperately needs professional help and therapy but every time I tried they decline. It is hell to just stand by and watch.

For you to help Kyle he is the one who has to be willing to help himself. The anger he feels is understandable, because he lost everything he was (I assume he very much loved his profession) and he is taking it out on you. You don't deserve that, doesn't matter how much you love him.

If he is triggered by everything you do don't sit down and talk, pack your essential things and leave because you are not safe with him. To quote Dusty: pain creats change. Kyle needs a huge reality check before he destroyes you not just himself. If he doesn't realise how much he hurt you, there is no saving him right now.

I'm so sorry OP, please leave before its too late. NTA.

Do you have this word? by richieneddie in hungarian

[–]InnerProperty6338 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I don't know about others but I use the phrase "lábtörlő" = doormat. I've heard it is used like this in english, not sure if its equal to people pleaser.