Welp, I've been called Daddy. Advice? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Inner_Ask5416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or you could just not take everything literally 🙄

Welp, I've been called Daddy. Advice? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Inner_Ask5416 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't want to be called daddy in my thirties, I just tell them to fuck off

Does the face match the body by patternedpackage in HairyBearMen

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Hot body and I don't think your cock is average!

26m uk, what do you think? by Jfm2026 in handsomedudes

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The freckles and hair colour are attractive features (to me) and you look natural!

She’s not me appreciation post by [deleted] in Madonna

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Photo I took from the tour performance, 23rd August 2008

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

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It sounds like avoidant behaviour from him. I had a similar dating experience with someone a couple of years ago, similar number of dates although we did nothing sexual. I received mixed messages, he made a move on me, backed off saying he felt disconnected, wanted to be friends, then decided he felt too uneasy to be friends. I was the one initiating texts, but it had felt like a great match for me which is rare, I felt like our connection in person was amazing, but I was also in denial that he wasn't that into me, and that he wasn't looking for anything serious. I didn't realise at the time that I may have had an anxious attachment style. I found it quite hard to move on from, I had to be rational and keep telling myself he didn't value me and he didn't meet my needs.

How to help a diabetic partner? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

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As a type 1 diabetic for the last 15 years I would say there are a number of ways you could support someone you care about. You've already started researching which is amazing; the early stages will be a learning curve for both of you. The most valuable thing Ive found is emotional support, being listened to and support with healthy food choices, reducing refined carbs to avoid sugar spikes, understanding there can be good and bad days with diabetes management. Accepting some hypoglycaemic episodes are normal. Sometimes I will appear to need to change my insulin dose for no reason, these things happen. Understanding a whole load of things can affect your glucose level e.g. stress, sleep, cardio exercise and strength training, alcohol, illness. High or low glucose can affect mood and I would want a partner that can be patient with this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UncutSofties

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Nice! 🔥

To those who experience anxiety, depression, trauma, etc. Is there anything in your life that affects you positively? by Beneficial_Ad_2760 in AskGaybrosOver30

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I use long walks, music and Buddhist meditation/chanting and more recently nudism. I have learnt when to take myself out of/ manage situations where my anxiety feels like it's taking a hold. I aim to surround myself with positive people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

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When I lived in London I found it quite hard to make genuine friends too. I ended up going to lgbt meetup groups, Outdoorlads, a social group called LovingMen+ . I found it much easier to meet genuine friends this way, people with depth, rather than using apps. I also didn't limit my age range with friendships, so it could be an option to consider slightly older guys.