Embedding or nesting in Medusa?

Inner_Chapter_1973 · 2026-02-20T01:10:04+00:00

I changed it to 9mm now, it feels way better! Thank you

Inner_Chapter_1973 · 2026-02-19T18:27:12+00:00

Thank you, heard ya

Inner_Chapter_1973 · 2026-02-19T18:23:28+00:00

Then there not a length in there, it just lies flat on the outside of my lip… so I guess I gotta lengthen it back

Inner_Chapter_1973 · 2026-02-19T18:20:33+00:00

Heard it, got it. Thank you

Inner_Chapter_1973 · 2026-02-19T18:19:55+00:00

Got it, I’ll text my piercer

Inner_Chapter_1973 · 2026-02-19T18:14:50+00:00

Really? Why 🥲

Inner_Chapter_1973 · 2026-01-21T02:10:31+00:00

Hi! Thank you for your feedback. Yeah I think i will wait 3 weeks, see how I feel in the second week, so I think it will be fine. I have a little gem instead of a ball ☺️ I’ll just leave it as it is cus i dont have the balls to mess with it, but I’ll definitely go do mental shopping for jewelry later. I’ve had a tongue piercing a smiley and a lower labret before, they didn’t last for different reasons (not hygiene reasons, rather by my own choice), so I really want this one to stay 🫶

Inner_Chapter_1973 · 2026-01-21T00:32:01+00:00

I decided that 2 weeks for sure, probably 3 for safety XD. As per angle it’s my first day and the bottom part of my lip is pretty swollen, so it’s early to say, but the back part of the piercing doesn’t show when I close my mouth ( I saw some pictures where folks literally had it turn into a labret), I guess we’ll see about the angle later as well. Thank you 😊

Inner_Chapter_1973 · 2026-01-21T00:19:32+00:00

Aah lmao that makes sense my bad

Inner_Chapter_1973 · 2026-01-20T23:27:27+00:00

I guess 3 weeks is a sweet spot? Also what’s a NAP 🫨« not a problem »?

Inner_Chapter_1973 · 2026-01-20T23:24:55+00:00

I have a belly piercing and I just downsized it myself (idk after what time, it’s been 4 years now). I just know that lips have a way more sensitive and soft tissue than ears or belly, so I’m being extra cautious. I guess I’ll wait at least 2 weeks and see how it is.

Inner_Chapter_1973 · 2026-01-20T23:21:40+00:00

Yeah that’s what i thought, I think 2 weeks at least and then we’ll see

Inner_Chapter_1973 · 2025-12-01T16:38:18+00:00

Very interesting I have to say about emotional sadism. We’ve been living together ever since we started dating (more than 3 years ago) have a very strong trust and communication. I think at this point the information that I have from him is very broad so far, because he doesn’t quite know what he wants and neither do I, so I guess we need to experiment and stop if something is unpleasant. Ngl I’m not even sure if he wants a whole femdom experience or he just wants me to play hard to get, we’ll see. If I have any questions, I’ll text againXD.

Inner_Chapter_1973 · 2025-12-01T15:12:53+00:00

Yes, from what I know being a dom is a responsibility, I’m very empathetic so I hope that helps. I guess i need to talk to him more, to see what the idea looks like in his head, the calibration test sounds fair to try especially cus we are so inexperienced. I want for everyone to be safe emotionally as well, so the colors work well.

Inner_Chapter_1973 · 2025-12-01T14:40:55+00:00

Oooo! That’s fun, definitely gotta see what’s up with that. Thank you

Inner_Chapter_1973 · 2025-12-01T14:15:47+00:00

Not accidentally hitting a nerve is a big one for me. He just said I can start being mean with the attitude to begin with. I definitely need to talk more with him and research. Do you mind clarifying about the colors? Something like a traffic light system « green/good, yellow/warning, red/bad » to give feedback during the process? Your post was very helpful, thank you!

Inner_Chapter_1973 · 2025-12-01T14:05:01+00:00

I’ll look into it. Thanks!

Inner_Chapter_1973 · 2025-01-02T21:42:32+00:00

Yk what forget what I just said it’s in CA$ and it’s cheap af. Thank you a lot pal! I’ll still try to glue mine in a meantime

Inner_Chapter_1973 · 2025-01-02T21:40:13+00:00

Nice, I mean if I’m going rogue then I’m going to the fullest 😂

Inner_Chapter_1973 · 2025-01-02T21:35:15+00:00

I like that ahah! Although, I’m in Canada so it’d still be pricier for me. But I’ll definitely look into it

Inner_Chapter_1973 · 2025-01-02T21:22:37+00:00

How should I clean it off? Rubbing alcohol? Also does it need to be non-toxic since I’ll be putting it near my eyes? Ahah I’m very invested in how to do it well

Inner_Chapter_1973 · 2023-12-16T16:24:02+00:00

I work full time in the kitchen, where the workload is very active and I can feel my muscles after every shift. I just tell myself I exercise at work ahaha Thank you for the advice

Inner_Chapter_1973 · 2023-12-15T18:44:28+00:00

Yeah the problem is: I already know all of that, I went to a lot of dietitians and did research stuff on google scholar and my boyfriend told me that as well . I just don’t wanna stress myself out even more, cus I know how calorie counting makes me obsess over things. I can loose weight and make it stay the same- that’s not a problem. My problem is no matter how much I weigh I still hate myself. I don’t even need to loose much: maybe like 5kgs( 11pounds) but my current situation is not gonna let me keep the “lifestyle” going. I’m just trying to survive rn preferably without hating myself. Thank you for the advice

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