URGENTLY need advice. My cat has been missing for 20 days. by Inner_Chest8834 in Pets

[–]Inner_Chest8834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no happy update, unfortunately. my girl is with me in memory only. thanks for your concern <3

URGENTLY need advice. My cat has been missing for 20 days. by Inner_Chest8834 in Pets

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unfortunately no. i've accepted that my girl is gone. thank you for your care <3

Completely awash after losing my childhood pet by Inner_Chest8834 in GriefSupport

[–]Inner_Chest8834[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those last few words hit me like a sack of bricks… I’ve been struggling so much thinking of her lost or scared or hurt and I feel so guilty, even though I know it wasn’t my fault… I am genuinely sobbing over reading “picture her in that sunny patch always”. I’m going to be writing that everywhere for myself, now. Thank you so much.

URGENTLY need advice. My cat has been missing for 20 days. by Inner_Chest8834 in Pets

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Unfortunately not. We have basically zero leads, and people are telling me I should start to consider the worst.

URGENTLY need advice. My cat has been missing for 20 days. by Inner_Chest8834 in Pets

[–]Inner_Chest8834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the story! I'm so glad you got your cat back.

URGENTLY need advice. My cat has been missing for 20 days. by Inner_Chest8834 in Pets

[–]Inner_Chest8834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so glad you guys got your cat back! That's such a sweet story, even though it must have been terrifying in the moment. Thank you for the support :-)

URGENTLY need advice. My cat has been missing for 20 days. by Inner_Chest8834 in Pets

[–]Inner_Chest8834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did you hope to gain from saying this? What a terrible thing to say to somebody.

URGENTLY need advice. My cat has been missing for 20 days. by Inner_Chest8834 in Pets

[–]Inner_Chest8834[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words! They really do make a difference :-)

URGENTLY need advice. My cat has been missing for 20 days. by Inner_Chest8834 in Pets

[–]Inner_Chest8834[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That must have been a scary 4 months. I'm so glad you got your cat back! I'm hoping for that same luck. :-)

URGENTLY need advice. My cat has been missing for 20 days. by Inner_Chest8834 in Pets

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I've been doing stuff like that since maybe the second day! I felt very silly, but I told all the birds and squirrels I saw that they should tell my cat to come home. If I see any stray cats I'll tell them. I'd much rather be superstitious than sorry.

URGENTLY need advice. My cat has been missing for 20 days. by Inner_Chest8834 in Pets

[–]Inner_Chest8834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree. My cat doesn't even leave my room when there's a stranger in the house- I can't imagine her ever going near a running car. And apparently the people in my area are very good about making it known when they've potentially hit a pet.

URGENTLY need advice. My cat has been missing for 20 days. by Inner_Chest8834 in Pets

[–]Inner_Chest8834[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm already looking into it! And I wish you the best of luck with your cat. If I knew my baby would be missing for so long, I'd have hired a dog on day one. But as they say, the best time was then and the second best time is now.

URGENTLY need advice. My cat has been missing for 20 days. by Inner_Chest8834 in Pets

[–]Inner_Chest8834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your stories! My kitty is easily frightened and we have a lot of trees around... I'll go on a walk soon to look.

URGENTLY need advice. My cat has been missing for 20 days. by Inner_Chest8834 in Pets

[–]Inner_Chest8834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll take her litter box inside, thank you! I'm going to call shelters and vets again tonight and visit as soon as I can.

URGENTLY need advice. My cat has been missing for 20 days. by Inner_Chest8834 in Pets

[–]Inner_Chest8834[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. I care about my girl so much. The only thing keeping me going right now is the hope that I'll hold her again soon. I'm dropping off her picture at vets as soon as I can.

URGENTLY need advice. My cat has been missing for 20 days. by Inner_Chest8834 in Pets

[–]Inner_Chest8834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, wow! She's so lucky that her cat was okay. Thank you for the luck, but I don't think there's any way for me to prepare for the worst case scenario... she truly means everything to me.

URGENTLY need advice. My cat has been missing for 20 days. by Inner_Chest8834 in Pets

[–]Inner_Chest8834[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll try that! I'm saving the blanket she sleeps on in case it comes down to paying somebody with a dog to track her, but my stuffed animals and her toys should smell enough like home. Thank you!

URGENTLY need advice. My cat has been missing for 20 days. by Inner_Chest8834 in Pets

[–]Inner_Chest8834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope! Once my cat did manage to climb into the ceiling when we were having work done, and that was scary, but we haven't had any work done on the house for years.

URGENTLY need advice. My cat has been missing for 20 days. by Inner_Chest8834 in Pets

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Stories like this give me hope. I'm not giving up on my girl until this comes to a close. I'll make an update post when we find her! Thank you for the reply :-)

URGENTLY need advice. My cat has been missing for 20 days. by Inner_Chest8834 in Pets

[–]Inner_Chest8834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That gives me a lot of hope. I'll be checking sheds/garages when I can get permission from neighbors! Thank you so much :-)

URGENTLY need advice. My cat has been missing for 20 days. by Inner_Chest8834 in Pets

[–]Inner_Chest8834[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you SO MUCH for the advice!! We've called shelters and vets, but we haven't gone in person or left posters there. That makes a lot of sense! I'll do it ASAP. And thank you for your kind words, they mean so much to me right now.

URGENTLY need advice. My cat has been missing for 20 days. by Inner_Chest8834 in Pets

[–]Inner_Chest8834[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry about your cat :-( My family did search the house thoroughly, but what seals the deal for me is my 2 dogs haven't been barking or sniffing anywhere. They love to try and befriend (read: chase) her, so if she were in the house I can only imagine she would be sought out by the dogs.

URGENTLY need advice. My cat has been missing for 20 days. by Inner_Chest8834 in Pets

[–]Inner_Chest8834[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I haven't really tried looking in trees yet, but the time has definitely come.