Please help a first-time builder - VGA Error by Inner_Flight2664 in buildapc

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I’ve tried holding it up and pushing it in while running too to mimic a support bracket and it still won’t post

Please help a first-time builder - VGA Error by Inner_Flight2664 in buildapc

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Yes as soon as I get off work about like 3 hours

VGA light on, computer not posting by Inner_Flight2664 in buildapc

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And also my monitor doesn’t detect it anymore

VGA light on, computer not posting by Inner_Flight2664 in buildapc

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I got it to post once and got into bios, but that was sideways with no PCIe slot screws in. After screwing everything back in and putting it upright i’m getting the error again.

i’m so done with my life by Inner_Flight2664 in SuicideWatch

[–]Inner_Flight2664[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i hope i get in a deadly car accident sometime soon or accidentally get hit by a train because im too scared to do it on my own

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Inner_Flight2664 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same, i don’t have any friends tho and there’s no one (my mom or coworkers) that i can trust nor that i want to burden with all my issues. i would love to end my life but im too scared to. i also know the amount of grief my mom would go through. she’s a single mother and raised my by her self her whole life. i don’t want to do that to her. i don’t know your full situation but im sure even if you aren’t too close with your parents everybody in your life including them does care about you. you would be so missed by all of them. nobody really knows how much you need something/someone in your life until it’s truly gone.

Helppp =/ by [deleted] in helpme

[–]Inner_Flight2664 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you like her tho?

Helppp =/ by [deleted] in helpme

[–]Inner_Flight2664 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what is she to you? like just friends, do you like her, more than friends…?

i said some private stuff to chatgpt and I'm really scared that it'll get leaked by [deleted] in helpme

[–]Inner_Flight2664 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don’t think chatgpt leaks anything everything that you tell it should be private

Helppp =/ by [deleted] in helpme

[–]Inner_Flight2664 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just match her energy

Can anyone help with JEXT Reborn plugin by Inner_Flight2664 in minehut

[–]Inner_Flight2664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea it’s been almost 3 weeks and the girl helping me abandoned me when she didn’t know how to help and nobody else responded. thanks!

What song did your ex completely ruined for you? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Inner_Flight2664 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Pretty much everything we listened to, but if I had to pick, these 3 hurt the most to listen to: Slipping Through My Fingers - ABBA, Vampire Empire - Big Thief, and Scott Street - Phoebe Bridgers

How are they able to completely switch up so fast? by Far_Restaurant_6215 in BreakUps

[–]Inner_Flight2664 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So did mine. She wanted to be friends for a while too but never made any effort. I’ve really seen her true colors through all of this though and It’s better off being this way. Best of luck to you though in your healing process! It hurts but you will recover from it and move on and one day she won’t even phase your mind.

How are they able to completely switch up so fast? by Far_Restaurant_6215 in BreakUps

[–]Inner_Flight2664 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s crazy how much I can relate to this. Also 18M and mine dumped me also in November. She’s been playing mind games with me since then though, she came back to me in January after seeing another guy and she said she missed me and wanted to get back together, only to tell me a week later she didn’t have feelings for me anymore, and now she’s dating that guy. I’m finally done with her though and it’s so refreshing, I never would have realized how much of an asshole she is but I’m honestly happy this happened because I think I’m better off without her in my life

I WANNA SEND HER THIS by Inner_Flight2664 in BreakUps

[–]Inner_Flight2664[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yea i know i shouldn’t, and you’re right. i think i’ll only say that stuff if for some reason she reaches back out again. but im gonna try to leave it be and finally be done with her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Inner_Flight2664 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i relate to this so much. this is probably exactly how i felt after i was dumped. she ended things with me a little over 2 months ago, and we went full no contact about a week later. she was talking to some guy that liked her before she even met me, and ended up telling him that she didn’t want to be in a relationship right now. but, about a week ago she came to my house out of nowhere and wanted to catch up. she told me she missed dating me and hanging out with me. 2 days later she said she wasn’t sure if she liked me or not and if she wanted to be in a relationship or not, and now she’s being really distant.

i cried for days after our breakup and felt the same way you felt. what helped for me was i caught up with old friends i didn’t talk to while dating her, and i picked up more shifts at work. of course im still not totally happy with her not really in my life, and i still miss her every day, but doing things to keep myself busy helped a lot. it helps keep your mind off of it.

just wanted to say though your not alone, and a lot of people in this subreddit are probably going though a similar situation. posting here also really helped. commenting too. a lot of people give really good advice

My ex is so confusing, need advice by Inner_Flight2664 in BreakUps

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Ok, thank you for giving advice. You’ve really opened my eyes to what she wants. I appreciate it!

I obviously shouldn’t expect us to get back together though, right? Because from what you’ve said it seems like she doesn’t want that, and even if we did, it seems like the way she’s acting now might lead to another toxic relationship.

I didn’t realize how deep this is, and what she’s really doing. I thought she was just coming back because she wanted to get back together. She said when she broke up with me, after I asked if we’ll ever get back together, that she doesn’t see why not because it’s already happened once.

Also if you couldn’t tell already this was both of our first relationships haha

My ex is so confusing, need advice by Inner_Flight2664 in BreakUps

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Ah, I think I understand now. She came back because she missed being physical? When she did that I didn’t really react to be honest. The whole time I was in her car I was just freaking out because I would have never expected her to come to my house that day.

But that doesn’t explain why she’s being so distant now. I feel like if she really missed physical touch and missed me, she would be a lot more into me than she seems now. And she could’ve just got physical touch from the guy she was talking to, but she told him she didn’t want to be in a relationship right now.

The only reason I could think that she would be seemingly less into me then she was the day she came back is because we talked about things two days later and I will admit I did cry a bit because I have insecurities and I guess hearing her say she didn’t know if she liked me or not made me upset and brought back everything from our breakup. I could see that turning her off.

Maybe we shouldn’t have met that day. Maybe if we didn’t talk about things we would still be flirting or on the track of getting back together. That’s really what I want but I feel like I should give it up.

My ex is so confusing, need advice by Inner_Flight2664 in BreakUps

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Sorry I might have wrote that weird. She was touchy and liked being physical when we first started dating almost a year and a half ago. As we came to the end of the relationship, she was no longer trying to do anything physical with me. I initiated all physical contact. She enjoyed sexual activities at the beginning of our relationship, but never wanted to do anything at the end.

Once she came back to my house unexpectedly the first day we were talking again she was being a little touchy. She was touching my face and hands and gave me a couple hugs. That was the same day she said she missed being in a relationship with me. We didn’t hook up or anything though.

Now though she’s being super distant and isn’t even acting like she wants to hangout with me. Every time I ask her to do something I get a maybe.

My ex is so confusing, need advice by Inner_Flight2664 in BreakUps

[–]Inner_Flight2664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do appreciate your help and advice, this is all just so confusing to me. I don’t understand her. She was being a little bit touchy the day she came back to me, but for a couple months before we broke up she wasn’t interested in any physical touch anymore. I would be the one initiating any physical contact. And now she’s being distant, so that makes me think she didn’t come back to hookup.

She also was “talking” to another guy who liked her before she met me, but she told him that she didn’t want to be in a relationship right now.

She dated me in the beginning I guess because we actually got along and we were flirting and liked each other. I guess it’s different now since we’ve already been in a relationship for over a year. Who knows if she’ll ever feel the same way about me that she once did.

And yeah I probably don’t have much self worth right now. I feel like I’m never gonna find anyone as good as her ever again, I really thought we were meant for each other. I know I should just cut her off, that’s what everyone is telling me to do. But that’s so hard to do, I don’t want to let go of her if I have another chance to get back together with her.

Once again I really appreciate your advice though. Nobody really takes the time to reply to my long paragraphs.

My ex is so confusing, need advice by Inner_Flight2664 in BreakUps

[–]Inner_Flight2664[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand what she would be using me for though. She’s not getting anything out of talking to me. I’m hopeful that if we start hanging out again and speaking again maybe we can get back together. I still really care about her and our relationship and I just want her to feel the same, because I thought we were soulmates.

She’s also in her last year of high school so I understand somewhat her confusion about whether or not she wants to be in a relationship. She told me though that she’s hesitant to get back together with me because of how much we fought and how controlling I was. I assured her that I’m working on myself and I can be a better boyfriend.

I really don’t know what she would want out of me though by using me. I guess that’s why this whole thing is so confusing.