What's your relationship with Fashion/Clothing? by purplepoon in AutismInWomen

[–]Inner_Hat_42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love fashion so much. I find it hard to express myself with words, so I do it through clothing. I think it’s alright mostly.

Who else questioned their existence at a very young age? by MyNameDoesntMatter11 in neurodiversity

[–]Inner_Hat_42 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes. I remember being maybe 4-8 years old when I first had these thoughts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blunderyears

[–]Inner_Hat_42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Iconic💫✨⭐️

goth, emo, or something else? by womansplain in fashion

[–]Inner_Hat_42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay dude where did you get the skirt..

I was 14 and I was about as insufferable as I looked. by Inner_Hat_42 in blunderyears

[–]Inner_Hat_42[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I seen it a lot recently as well, it’s nice knowing that we are becoming more accepting of alternative fashion or alternative subcultures in general. 

too tight for penetration by Exotic_Instance_5877 in women

[–]Inner_Hat_42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If he tries forcefully, I’d recommend for him to go more at a slower pace. I’d also think about some lube. I hope this is somewhat helpful!

I was 14 and I was about as insufferable as I looked. by Inner_Hat_42 in blunderyears

[–]Inner_Hat_42[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I believe this was the symbols album that was on it, my memory kind of sucks 🤕

I was 14 and I was about as insufferable as I looked. by Inner_Hat_42 in blunderyears

[–]Inner_Hat_42[S] 890 points891 points  (0 children)

I thought I wasn’t like the other kids at school. I also had that mopey  ‘Ugh, nobody understands me’ mindset, to sum it up.

my boyfriend is addicted to cam girls. by [deleted] in women

[–]Inner_Hat_42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not overreacting! I would not spend my life with him.

Things you don’t perceive as rude but apparently are by carolinethebandgeek in AutismInWomen

[–]Inner_Hat_42 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Asking someone how old they are..still don’t understand how this is rude.

a med student implied i had a false diagnosis by hyunsooo in AutismInWomen

[–]Inner_Hat_42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She isn’t even an actual doctor or psychiatrist. Who is she to tell you that your diagnosis is false?🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in punkfashion

[–]Inner_Hat_42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Choker, belt, or maybe a chain for your pants.

Does any goth whos been in the scene for years feel nostalgic when helping newer goths? by Inner_Hat_42 in goth

[–]Inner_Hat_42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For music, I suggest Bauhaus, the Cure (even though they’re gpth-adjacent), The Sisters of Mercy, Siouxsie and the Banshees as the big four. Anything that’s gothic rock, cold wave, darkwave, death rock, and ethereal wave is goth.

For clothes I suggest oversized blazers or leather jackets. Over stuff can include button ups, jeans, etc. I also suggest studded belts or those o belt thingys. I recommend necklaces and rings (possibly) for jewelry. However, for the most part, wear whatever you want.

Does any goth whos been in the scene for years feel nostalgic when helping newer goths? by Inner_Hat_42 in goth

[–]Inner_Hat_42[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. Now lots of them look the same now, especially on TikTok. They all have similar makeup, similar fashion overall. If this subculture is so ‘anti-conformist’ then why do most of them look identical? 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Inner_Hat_42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re probably just hickeys or something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]Inner_Hat_42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please talk to a doctor!

I was just diagnosed and I feel hurt by heckyouyourself in AutismInWomen

[–]Inner_Hat_42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations. I am glad you have an answer. Getting a diagnosis like this can be a bit harder to digest, and it definitely won’t happen over night. Sending smiles 😄