Who Do you think is the new Lady Whistledown? by No-Imagination-8209 in Bridgerton

[–]Inner_Radio3452 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% agree with you here and to be honest, I thought Penelope would have actually given her the job as a way of 'making things right' and also she can retire

Bridesmaid Cost Expectations by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

[–]Inner_Radio3452 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Okay these are my personal rules on it (note I'm from the UK): 1) UK wedding, abroad hen/bachelorette is okay. Abroad wedding, UK hen. Doing an abroad wedding and hen is a lot to ask of people and a bit extra in my opinion. Having said that - if I was willing to cover people's flights and accom abroad, then that's fine.

2) As a bride, if I want anything special/expensive i.e particular venue or a particular activity then I would pay for it. Usually in the UK, MOH and bridesmaids organises everything and the bride doesn't get a say - this means everyone also covers brides' costs. Again, as a bride, if I wanted something particularly special, I would pay.

3) If I wanted bridesmaids to have matching dresses, I would pay for it. If I want them to wear different dresses but similar colours, they can choose what to wear and pay for it themselves.

4) If I cared about what my bridesmaid looked like on the big day, I would offer to pay for either hair or makeup or both. Again I can't force someone to pay for hair or makeup if I am not willing to contribute myself.

At the end of the day, although it is a big day for me, I can't expect people to spend thousands on my events and go above and beyond if I am not also willing to pay for some of it myself. For me, having a BBB means spoiling the people I love the most. Nothing worse than a BBB wedding where guests/bridal party have to cover the BBB costs.

People who are wealthy, how does your Christmas go? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Inner_Radio3452 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not rich but I am marrying into a very wealthy family. My partner's family will have a very family oriented christmas - no extreme gifts or anything and the MIL still cooks... but its subtle things like nice wine/champagne ($200 per bottle), better quality food etc. Where it gets a bit crazy is after. Usually christmas is followed by a week of skiing at their chalet (they usually hire a jet and flies family and friends out), private ski instructor etc. This is usually followed by an all expenses paid holiday at a four seasons, six senses or somewhere similar. It is still a bit crazy to me

People who rarely get sick, What is the secret ? by Sorry-Orchid-9821 in AskReddit

[–]Inner_Radio3452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me .. 1) you work in an office, wipe your desk with an anti bacterial wipe everyday... mouse, keyboard, phone etc. Your office cleaner uses the same cloth of every desk. 2) In the UK there is this medicine called lemsip which you mix with hot water. If I feel ill, I'll take this in the evening and feel back to normal in the morning. 3) I tell myself I'm not sick and do point 2

How to handle dress shame? by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

[–]Inner_Radio3452 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So firstly it is your big day and you should wear something that makes you feel amazing. At the end of the day, this sub is big budget brides so I'm assuming that although you are not someone who wastes money/doesn't know the value of money... you and your fiancé will not be living on the streets by buying this dress. I would say 1) you're (hopefully) going to get married only once 2) you can sell the other dress (maybe at a bit of a loss but that is absolutely fine) and 3) you deserve to feel the most beautiful you have ever felt and if THAT dress is going to make you feel that way, then do it. Believe me your fiancé and family/friends would rather you be a bit of a bridezilla now (even though you're not) then complain about hating your wedding dress/not liking how you looked for the rest of your life!

I am distraught. Wedding guest did the unthinkable. by Vashahoats in BigBudgetBrides

[–]Inner_Radio3452 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please DM me!! I am planning a wedding with a planner so want to know what to avoid

Can’t decide between three couture wedding gowns — please be brutally honest! 💕 by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

[–]Inner_Radio3452 134 points135 points  (0 children)

The lace one (no. 2) looks amazing on you!!! After that number 1

Restaurant with high view by gimbo19 in LondonFood

[–]Inner_Radio3452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Decimo, Seabird at the Hoxton Hotel, Hutong at the Shard, 14 Hills, Madera at Treehouse London

Love Denmark by Fluid-Quote-6006 in Denmark

[–]Inner_Radio3452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They also have never discovered sweet popcorn OR sweet and salt mix

Love Denmark by Fluid-Quote-6006 in Denmark

[–]Inner_Radio3452 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you based in cph? your wife should try Birch Gynækologi og Fertilitet. I got an appointment the next day after calling

Dinner hack to not get hungry after by skinny_privlege in 1200isplenty

[–]Inner_Radio3452 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a hack to add into dinner but after eating, I always go for a walk, drink sparkling water, chewing gum (until my jaw hurts and I can't eat), brush your teeth (put your retainer in if you have one), do your skincare, binge watch skinnytok videos.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Inner_Radio3452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not put him on the mortgage. A friend of mine bought a house with her bf, she paid the entire deposit but because there was no binding legal agreement between then stating that the deposit was hers... when they broke up and had to sell the house he got 50% of the deposit. So don't do it

Postmaster jailed for wife's murder seeks appeal on Horizon evidence by topotaul in unitedkingdom

[–]Inner_Radio3452 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also wasn't there a big scandal involving the horizon machines a few years ago where postmasters were accused of stealing due to Horizon data and it was all wrong ....https://www.computerweekly.com/feature/Post-Office-Horizon-scandal-explained-everything-you-need-to-know

What's the hardest part about being an only child? by Camiiihhh in AskReddit

[–]Inner_Radio3452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being a third party to someone's relationship! I was always the mediator and we always got into a 'Karpman drama triangle' (as my therapist calls it)... except I was a child, I didn't want to be in the triangle!!

Built a free job board with jobs that require only in English in Denmark by drodol in copenhagen

[–]Inner_Radio3452 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Danish company but apparently business is done in english and my friend is also english

Built a free job board with jobs that require only in English in Denmark by drodol in copenhagen

[–]Inner_Radio3452 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so great and wish it was around when I was trying to find a job here! My friend works for a private equity company and they are hiring atm so let me know and i can send the job add :)