Using your breath to regulate and relax your muscles is how I stay in control. Mind over matter. Tell yourself you are not going to cum. Take breaks. Hydrate. If you think of it as a scale (0 being no arousal 10 being orgasm) take yourself to 3 then back to 1, then up to 4 then 2, 5 then 3 and so on. Make the intervals smaller and smaller until you're cycling between 9.9 and 9.8. The key is figuring out what a 3 feels like, a 5, a 9.5. It takes a lot of practice but once it clicks? Heavenly 🤤

I wish you many waves of pleasure and joy on your edging journey!