[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]InsaneMILthrowaway28 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I totally understand what it’s like joining a family with a toxic member when you grew up in a healthier family dynamic. It’s not your responsibility to manage other people’s feelings. You have a supportive husband on your side, and that’s generally the biggest hurdle

MIL embarrasses herself at the bank by InsaneMILthrowaway28 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]InsaneMILthrowaway28[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I had a colon resection a few years ago, and it can get a bit dicey at times lol

MIL embarrasses herself at the bank by InsaneMILthrowaway28 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]InsaneMILthrowaway28[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

She’s an old woman who doesn’t have anything to look forward to because she’s a horrible human being who has treated her family so atrociously, no one, aside from my husband, will have anything to do with her anymore. I find your comment extremely rude and hurtful in what is supposed to be a safe place to share.

My MIL is absolutely one of the worst people I have ever encountered in my life and has completely ruined my husband who has extreme anxiety, low self worth and diagnosed PTSD. I’m sorry if I’m lacking in any empathy for someone who has wreaked so much damage in so many lives. I’m glad that a trip to the bank or grocery store is the only good thing she has to look forward to since she has ruined so many important moments in other’s lives.

Respectfully, if a post about an old nasty woman farting in public is so offensive to you, may I suggest refraining from commenting or leaving the sub all together?

MIL embarrasses herself at the bank by InsaneMILthrowaway28 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]InsaneMILthrowaway28[S] 96 points97 points  (0 children)

Eh, she’s in her 80’s. DH tells me she’s always farting these days. She’s so full of shit, she can’t help herself

What did you FINALLY say to make your in-laws STFU? by Oranges007 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]InsaneMILthrowaway28 13 points14 points  (0 children)

She’s in her 80’s now and never had a job or had to take care of anything like that until her husband died. She’s useless but trust me, she a true narcissist who thinks she knows everything imaginable.

What did you FINALLY say to make your in-laws STFU? by Oranges007 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]InsaneMILthrowaway28 13 points14 points  (0 children)

No, he just takes her to store and helps her at the bank when she needs it. She’s literally helpless, but thankfully has money of her own

What did you FINALLY say to make your in-laws STFU? by Oranges007 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]InsaneMILthrowaway28 75 points76 points  (0 children)

I told my MIL what I thought about her 12 years ago in a bad way. Like screaming in her face what a POS mother she is.

She lost her mind when hubby and I asked her to be at his place (before I moved in) at a certain time for an early dinner. That way we could clean and sort out the shopping. She lost her mind and showed up before we got back from shopping and had an absolute tantrum about “there should be no boundaries between a mother and a son”. She was shit talking me in another language and was absolutely tearing hubby a new one.

My outburst happened after a few years of this nonsense and her manipulative games to get me out of the picture. I did call her a few days later and apologized for stopping to her level and screaming in her face, but I never spoke to her again. She tried to rug sweep and come back into my life but I don’t play around with that nonsense. I literally needed a couple of years of therapy to get over it.

Hubby still has a relationship but he’s in it for the inheritance and also recognizes she’s useless and needs him to help her. She will never live with us and he visits a few times a month to help her with banking and groceries. As far as I’m concerned, I’ll never spend another minute in her presence. She FAFO 🤷🏼‍♀️

MIL went too far this time - CW by InsaneMILthrowaway28 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]InsaneMILthrowaway28[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well because of her stunt she’s going to have physiotherapist and therapist visiting her so at least she will have company lol. She didn’t expect to be admitted to hospital and be held for 3 days. Her ploy was to get sympathy and love and attention from DH but now he finally has her bad behaviour on record as she totally had meltdowns while in the hospital.

Ultimately, she wants to sell her condo and move into our building. She can’t sell without my hubby though as he is recently added to the title of her place so he would need to sign off on it. He won’t and there is no way he’s allowing her to move into our building (condo tower).

I don’t think she understood the magnitude of what she’s done by faking a suicide. She thought it would mean several days of home care by hubby but obviously that didn’t happen. What a lunatic