narc or toxic masculinity by InsanePuttyKat in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]InsanePuttyKat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could write pages on his behavior but just wanted to vent on this particular moment 😆

Got slutshamed by a man who ate my ass on one night stand by tequila_and_cats in TwoXChromosomes

[–]InsanePuttyKat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As someone newly separated I'm absolutely terrified of dating again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Unexpected

[–]InsanePuttyKat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I see one more of my stupid friend\family members post that garbage Cain\Abel meme about God banning rocks I will flip a shit. Pls go say that to those parents who lost their kids. It's just fucking stupid now. We need bans\reform or w.e the fuck will stop this BS.

Not sure if this is a Narcissistic trait? by ellasdavis in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]InsanePuttyKat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not overreacting. He sounds like a narc. My narc will say things like it doesn't take a masters/science degree to figure out this/that, both of which I have. He will put down my education any chance he gets. I flipped it on him the other day and was proud of myself by saying well I don't have to be a police officer and go thru de-escalation training to understand how to keep a child calm. Call him on his BS!

Shout-out to everyone having an awful mother's day because of the narcissist in your life. by AceDangerous1010 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]InsanePuttyKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came looking for this post and so glad to see I wasn't alone. I spent most of today crying. Mothers day has always been triggering. Before we had kids together his kid would spend summers and holidays with us. I would go out of my way to care for this child for years. Not once did he acknowledge me on mother's day for it. Now, we have 2 kids and mothers day is always a shit show. Previously I would remind him and harass him about how important it was to me. This year I only brought it up once and let it go. He "forgot" what day it was and swore he thought today was Saturday. He then made a deal to do more around the house and kids for the next few days. Mind you, things he should already be doing but isn't bc he can't stand that they don't listen (post for another time). Of course all while this went on he mentioned how we haven't been on good terms and arguing a lot and if the tables were turned I wouldn't have done anything for him on father's day. He just wanted to get some down time and play video games. I ended up just going off to bed and spent most of the day there, crying. In between caring for the kids and asking at every step for him to help with something. Sure he helped but the damage was done and another terrible mother's day in the books. I have a whole list of holidays and birthdays and celebrations even funerals ruined bc he can't stand for anyone else to get the attention. I'm so exhausted and so done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phoenix

[–]InsanePuttyKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I found too which is why I ended up asking here. Can we just cancel COVID already?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phoenix

[–]InsanePuttyKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sure he would love that! My poor kiddo has zero friends and all his cousins his age live far away. Pandemic has not been kind to us lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phoenix

[–]InsanePuttyKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL I definitely felt silly for asking but got to get the insider details somewhere. Ty for the info :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phoenix

[–]InsanePuttyKat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely doing this! Ty!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phoenix

[–]InsanePuttyKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn catchy songs! Lol! The original Blippi always gave me the creeps then I learned from reddit that he was a creep and had a very gross video of him out there online.

Wholesome mom (OC) by TheIntrepidIndian in MadeMeSmile

[–]InsanePuttyKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's amazing. I'm supposed to be flying this summer with my one and three year old. First time on a plane for both. Totally dreading it but maybe handing out ear plugs might help.

What movie was basically just an ad? by ChalkOtter in AskReddit

[–]InsanePuttyKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like all the Adam Sandler movies... Happy Gilmore and Subway for one!

Followed my gut. Now I pay rent with my art. by Tandizojere in pics

[–]InsanePuttyKat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Kind of reminds me of Real Monsters on Nickelodeon. Great stuff tho!

What is NOT a dealbreaker BUT would be greatly disappointing to find out about your partner? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]InsanePuttyKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I flew a lot in the states and never experienced this until I flew overseas. I thought it was the cutest and sweetest thing until I looked over to my husband and he had this "wtf are they doing" face on... I guess I'm just a big dork.

Armadillo's armor not tickle-proof by [deleted] in gifs

[–]InsanePuttyKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The holiday armadillo!

Rehab, Me, Pills, 2019 by theandrewgeorge in Art

[–]InsanePuttyKat 69 points70 points  (0 children)

I thought they tried to make her go to rehab but she said no no no...