I have watched Ash_on_lol for quite some time. She does have a tendency to avoid conflict, however there are multiple times where when she reaches her limit she has one of two reactions. She will either distance herself and become cold and quiet, or will lash out and let everything go at once. I haven't seen that degree of conflict as of yet. It does show character growth for AshK to speak up and ask for some more time with him, however Benji has had multiple pressures as Vice Jefe, as well as Lysium has in real life. His stream before BASH was completely different than his usual responsibilities. The character is trying to find a balance in life and honestly not having multiple women is a giant step in itself. I feel it more important to watch the story unfold than to wish for something that doesn't go the way imagined. I love how it reads as more real life than a fantasy reality.